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Topic: marriage: I'm searching for my true half
ojofolorunso's photo
Sat 09/03/11 04:52 PM

Per your profile, that you mention so often, you decided to marry a white woman as a personal contribution to certain economic goals, including global peace and socio-cultural development. Hmm, doesn’t sound very romantic. It sounds more like a business related mission.

You also say you’re interested in marriage because you use both sides of your brain equally, weighing facts & feelings and logical arguments against hunches. Really? Are you serious?

It will be very difficult to meet a woman who is God-fearing, reads this profile, and is intelligent at the same time. Fear and shady wording hardly ever resonates with intelligence.


Apparently you don't understand what you read in my profile or may be I was the one who didn't make my message clear enough. You are even concluding and interpreting my profile for me and that is why you are mixing issues together and muddling things up,thereby making everything clumsy. Perhaps your confusion lies in my use of the phrase 'that is why I have decided...' that links the vision statement to the marital specifications. But you must know they are two different issues which only bother on my view of the world we are living in,as human beings.

To me you sound more like a pessimist and a cynic. A woman that has the fear of the God that I know and is not intelligent doesn't really know that God,because 'the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom'. Fear,God,wisdom,intelligence. THINK!

Anyway,I still appreciate your bluntness maam.

Sandelwood4's photo
Sat 09/03/11 05:01 PM
Edited by Sandelwood4 on Sat 09/03/11 05:02 PM


Per your profile, that you mention so often, you decided to marry a white woman as a personal contribution to certain economic goals, including global peace and socio-cultural development. Hmm, doesn’t sound very romantic. It sounds more like a business related mission.

You also say you’re interested in marriage because you use both sides of your brain equally, weighing facts & feelings and logical arguments against hunches. Really? Are you serious?

It will be very difficult to meet a woman who is God-fearing, reads this profile, and is intelligent at the same time. Fear and shady wording hardly ever resonates with intelligence.


Apparently you don't understand what you read in my profile or may be I was the one who didn't make my message clear enough. You are even concluding and interpreting my profile for me and that is why you are mixing issues together and muddling things up,thereby making everything clumsy. Perhaps your confusion lies in my use of the phrase 'that is why I have decided...' that links the vision statement to the marital specifications. But you must know they are two different issues which only bother on my view of the world we are living in,as human beings.

To me you sound more like a pessimist and a cynic. A woman that has the fear of the God that I know and is not intelligent doesn't really know that God,because 'the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom'. Fear,God,wisdom,intelligence. THINK!

Anyway,I still appreciate your bluntness maam.


Many of us asked you to explain yourself here but you referred people back to your profile. I admit it is difficult to understand what you're saying and we are not allowed to copy and paste other peoples profiles, so I had to rephrase something that was difficult to understand to begin with.

So when you say I'm a pessimist and a cynic is that based on the left side of your brain or right, or both? Or is it just a hunch?

ojofolorunso's photo
Sun 09/04/11 05:34 AM
Edited by ojofolorunso on Sun 09/04/11 05:57 AM



Per your profile, that you mention so often, you decided to marry a white woman as a personal contribution to certain economic goals, including global peace and socio-cultural development. Hmm, doesn’t sound very romantic. It sounds more like a business related mission.

You also say you’re interested in marriage because you use both sides of your brain equally, weighing facts & feelings and logical arguments against hunches. Really? Are you serious?

It will be very difficult to meet a woman who is God-fearing, reads this profile, and is intelligent at the same time. Fear and shady wording hardly ever resonates with intelligence.



Apparently you don't understand what you read in my profile or may be I was the one who didn't make my message clear enough. You are even concluding and interpreting my profile for me and that is why you are mixing issues together and muddling things up,thereby making everything clumsy. Perhaps your confusion lies in my use of the phrase 'that is why I have decided...' that links the vision statement to the marital specifications. But you must know they are two different issues which only bother on my view of the world we are living in,as human beings.

To me you sound more like a pessimist and a cynic. A woman that has the fear of the God that I know and is not intelligent doesn't really know that God,because 'the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom'. Fear,God,wisdom,intelligence. THINK!

Anyway,I still appreciate your bluntness maam.


Many of us asked you to explain yourself here but you referred people back to your profile. I admit it is difficult to understand what you're saying and we are not allowed to copy and paste other peoples profiles, so I had to rephrase something that was difficult to understand to begin with.

So when you say I'm a pessimist and a cynic is that based on the left side of your brain or right, or both? Or is it just a hunch?


...(laughs). That may be a hunch does not really exist on this forum because I'm having a good time here. It's interesting being here and I think I should remove that phrase to make things look better. The latter only has to do with my personal interest in the kind of woman I like to marry and nothing more!

But I just hope you will agree with me that one way or the other,it makes things better for the family if your marriage partner has interest in,if not all,but at least some of the things you like to do,for a more harmonious relationship. Even if those things sound unachieveable,an encouragement born out of at least little interest could make a difference. In fact,with time,both of you may still have to bend to accommodate each other's differences and I think this site appreciates that.

Thank you and others for your observation.

ybcat1's photo
Sun 09/04/11 10:16 AM



Let me be straightforward. I am looking for a woman to marry preferrably a white woman or any other ethnicity outside my home country who is ready to give marriage all it requires to be an eternal success. More preferrably btw the ages of 24 and 29 and is interested in diplomacy,current affairs,global peace,United Nations activities and information. The interests really are not the ultimate. I will relocate to Canada by September 2011. Hope to hear frm u soonest. Thanks.


I have a question for you. Wouldn't you be a greater asset to your country if you stayed and worked there? Are there no white women in Africa?


Thank you for your concern. But I must say it again that I'm not desperate about anything and that already I'm an asset to my country. I did my national youth service in my college where I graduated from and lectured hundreds of students and impacting knowledge in them and I still remained in the college even after the service year. I'v engaged myself in a number of community services and so on. But the God I serve is a God of vision,times and seasons. My vision is not only to be an unsurpassed asset to my country but to the entire world and you don't do that in your village alone. Exposure is good I suppose. Now hear this,wherever I go,no place like home and that is not going to be without my wife whoever she eventually turns out to be,white or no white. Sorry for sounding so personal here,the question calls for it but at least you know now that I'm not materialistic in my approach. Please see what I said about myself in my profile.


I have read your profile sir, and it's not necessary to explain God to me I am a Christian who has studied the Word.

I quote: "My vision is not only to be an unsurpassed asset to my country but to the entire world and you don't do that in your village alone."

Your vision, or His vision for you? If this is His calling for you then if God be for you then who can stand against you? I was just wondering with all the smarts you have it seemed in a country that has so many challenges you would be a greater asset there.



Simonedemidova's photo
Sun 09/04/11 10:22 AM
I heard white girls are more submissive and fun, is that why??? if so, try a philipino, i heard they are even better..

ojofolorunso's photo
Sun 09/04/11 03:16 PM




Let me be straightforward. I am looking for a woman to marry preferrably a white woman or any other ethnicity outside my home country who is ready to give marriage all it requires to be an eternal success. More preferrably btw the ages of 24 and 29 and is interested in diplomacy,current affairs,global peace,United Nations activities and information. The interests really are not the ultimate. I will relocate to Canada by September 2011. Hope to hear frm u soonest. Thanks.


I have a question for you. Wouldn't you be a greater asset to your country if you stayed and worked there? Are there no white women in Africa?


Thank you for your concern. But I must say it again that I'm not desperate about anything and that already I'm an asset to my country. I did my national youth service in my college where I graduated from and lectured hundreds of students and impacting knowledge in them and I still remained in the college even after the service year. I'v engaged myself in a number of community services and so on. But the God I serve is a God of vision,times and seasons. My vision is not only to be an unsurpassed asset to my country but to the entire world and you don't do that in your village alone. Exposure is good I suppose. Now hear this,wherever I go,no place like home and that is not going to be without my wife whoever she eventually turns out to be,white or no white. Sorry for sounding so personal here,the question calls for it but at least you know now that I'm not materialistic in my approach. Please see what I said about myself in my profile.


I have read your profile sir, and it's not necessary to explain God to me I am a Christian who has studied the Word.

I quote: "My vision is not only to be an unsurpassed asset to my country but to the entire world and you don't do that in your village alone."

Your vision, or His vision for you? If this is His calling for you then if God be for you then who can stand against you? I was just wondering with all the smarts you have it seemed in a country that has so many challenges you would be a greater asset there.



Honestly you have your point ma. But just that what we don't know at times as humans are more than what we do know. The environment in which man lives is much wider than what even his innermost eyes can see at a time!

I was working on your point and I believe things can work together for good just as I want to take it as a compliment. Thank you.

ojofolorunso's photo
Sun 09/04/11 03:30 PM

I heard white girls are more submissive and fun, is that why??? if so, try a philipino, i heard they are even better..


Well,let's wait and see. May be you can help with more information.


ojofolorunso's photo
Sun 09/04/11 03:36 PM

I heard white girls are more submissive and fun, is that why??? if so, try a philipino, i heard they are even better..


Well,let's wait and see. May be you can help with more information.


Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 09/05/11 10:14 AM
i dont date outside my country sorry. I am not a matchmaker either.

ojofolorunso's photo
Mon 09/05/11 02:16 PM

i dont date outside my country sorry. I am not a matchmaker either.


Oh Really? I didn't know until you said it.

ojofolorunso's photo
Mon 09/05/11 02:19 PM

i dont date outside my country sorry. I am not a matchmaker either.


Oh Really? I didn't know until you said it.

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