And then I found out he is on 2 other dating sites. He also joined this one saying "it just poped up" so he deiced to join. He saw I was on it and started making fun of me telling people I'm so pathetic and what not.
I just that it was pretty funny and decided to share :D
Now I feel much better about myself!
But I kinda wana join one of the ones hes on, but don't want him to see me!

You felt bad about yourself because he made fun of you for being on a dating site?

Some times it is best to just let the past go and forget about him. But if you feel that you have to check up on him then just make up a profile with no pic or real detail information...

Your essay did not sound pathetic to me. You sound like a nice caring person.

Do as gravel says above if you need to check on him. I'd blow them off though and not worry about it. Easy to say, hard to do.

Mine will make fun too if she was to find out.

I'd stay away from creating a profile just to check up on him. It will just cause unnecessary drama.

you used the word ‘ex’ for a reason

remember what that reason is and put him in the past where ex’s belong

Hopefully you are on these dating sites to move on from your ex, if that is so then forget about what they say and do what is right for you...

That is why I say it is better to let him go. If she is joining for meetings, I can understand her reluctance as he bad mouths her apparently.

You would think she'd slap libel charges on him for doing so.

Would you like that I drag him outside and kick the **** out of him?

It doesn't seem like his opinion should matter. =P

He doesn't really have a right to make fun of you anyways since he would have to be on here too if he saw that you were here. =)

And you cared?

You are beautiful. He obviously is perusing dating sites as well. Dont worry about his lame asz.....he was on here when he found you here and is more than likely jealous you will find someone new and move on. He is probably right. Don't worry about it. Good luck. Mingle is a fun social site not just for dating. I have met a lot of friends here. It has helped me a lot after my divorce...

Attempting to get into the head of an ex
sounds to me like the biggest waste of
time ever.

it doesn't sound to me like she wants to check up on him in the least

it sounds like she is concerned about him making fun of her

if he does that on here OP, report him to the mods

really

For being ex's...you two sure seem very interested in what the other one is up to. Up until you guys can move on with your own lives, it is gonna be really unfair to start a friendship/relationship with some unsuspecting sucker who may want to love you but will end up having to hear about or deal with the a-hole ex until it just aint worth it and they split.

I have played that crap in the past....never again.



Wish him luck...hope someone else attracts the bastard's attention. Block his phone #. STOP TRYING TO FIND OUT HOW MANY DATING SITES HE IS ON. (seriously...stop it...it's embarrassing). Disconnect the dots of a failure and stop wasting time on something that obviously didn't work.

Or...just prolong the drama for as long as possible.....it's up to you.

easy to do, tell yourself you are better then that worthless piece of **** and you deserve better and you WILL get better! completely ignore him on everything, that will piss him off faster then jabbing him back ,and like every other bully if they get no attention in return they move on to something that will give them attention.

Neva mind u get someone better than him

Aesops fable 'The Fox and the Grapes' applies here I think


You are adorable and will have little trouble finding someone who wants you, he knows this and calls you pathetic out of frustration