Topic: Someone wants me to email them. Usin my yahoo...
chrisingeorgia's photo
Thu 08/04/11 07:34 PM
She mentioned this in the first message she sent me... I am new to online dating ( I'm actually not an expert at offline dating, either). Should I be paranoid?

chrisingeorgia's photo
Thu 08/04/11 07:34 PM
more than I already am?

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Thu 08/04/11 07:56 PM
I've been doing this a long time, and what I've found is that anyone who tries to get you to use a Yahoo (or msn, hotmail, etc.) address to contact them right away is a scammer. End of story.

We have e-mail on this site, so there's no need for anyone (legitimate) to try to prod you into going off-site.


Littlefifi27's photo
Thu 08/04/11 08:02 PM

I've been doing this a long time, and what I've found is that anyone who tries to get you to use a Yahoo (or msn, hotmail, etc.) address to contact them right away is a scammer. End of story.

We have e-mail on this site, so there's no need for anyone (legitimate) to try to prod you into going off-site.


ask her just to email u on ere till u get to know her better :)

BettyB's photo
Thu 08/04/11 08:03 PM
So if someone does try to get us to go to yahoo right away should they be reported?This happens to me on almost a weekly basis.
I always just let it go and don't answer them back, but would reporting them be better?

chrisingeorgia's photo
Thu 08/04/11 08:14 PM
Yep... I googled the email addy she sent me. She's shady. I'm learnin' Thanks. :)

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Thu 08/04/11 08:14 PM

So if someone does try to get us to go to yahoo right away should they be reported?This happens to me on almost a weekly basis.
I always just let it go and don't answer them back, but would reporting them be better?


I report anyone who sends me an e-mail trying to get me to go off-site. No exceptions. As far as I know, there has never been one who didn't turn out to be a scammer. I'm not saying it's impossible for someone to be legit and still try to get you to go off-site, but I've never seen it happen. And I've caught (I'm not exaggerating here) hundreds of them, maybe more than that.


BettyB's photo
Thu 08/04/11 08:20 PM
Thank you Lex. I will report them from now on .I just wasn't sure if I was suppose to or not.

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Sat 08/06/11 11:06 PM

Yep... I googled the email addy she sent me. She's shady. I'm learnin' Thanks. :)


Good job, Also if you have facebook, you can search it. Sometimes that can help too. I agree with Lex, if they are trying to get you offsite, be wary. You can talk on this site and get to now someone first, then when comfortable you can go to regular email and phone. Be careful Although the mods are good at cathcing scammers they are everywhere, and some are actually clever enough to avoid detection.
Good Luck and

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Mon 08/29/11 03:07 AM
how do you report a scam?

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Mon 08/29/11 05:44 AM

I report anyone who sends me an e-mail trying
to get me to go off-site. No exceptions.
As far as I know, there has never been one
who didn't turn out to be a scammer. I'm not
saying it's impossible for someone to be legit
and still try to get you to go off-site,
but I've never seen it happen. And I've
caught (I'm not exaggerating here) hundreds
of them, maybe more than that.

Yikes!
I get them all the time and never considered
reporting them.
They really haven't done anything..wrong..yet.
But I have not replied.
Because, I learned in here, Yahoo means yahoo.