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Topic: why is my boyfriend so attached to his family?
Littlefifi27's photo
Wed 08/03/11 07:43 PM
Edited by Littlefifi27 on Wed 08/03/11 08:18 PM
My boyfriend is super attached to his family, it annoys me so much ive stopped going there. making me want to split with him.
His father would wreck your head, always talking about crap and been so needy expecting my boyfriend to be there the whole time. My boyfriend appears to have no life with this.

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Wed 08/03/11 07:46 PM
Suggestions for what? Making him less attached to his family?

mbcasey's photo
Wed 08/03/11 07:47 PM
Depends on how attached. A man who respects his family and cares for them is a man of noble character.


Unless his mama wants to come with you on the honeymoon....

Littlefifi27's photo
Wed 08/03/11 07:48 PM
suggestions as to what to do! seriously his parents are not unwell or any thing so there is no need for him to be there all the time.

amaraii's photo
Wed 08/03/11 07:49 PM

Depends on how attached. A man who respects his family and cares for them is a man of noble character.


Unless his mama wants to come with you on the honeymoon....


rofl rofl rofl

Littlefifi27's photo
Wed 08/03/11 07:49 PM
Edited by Littlefifi27 on Wed 08/03/11 07:51 PM
well his mother is grant actually she is kul, its his brother and dad which wreck my head, moaning if he goes out, moaning if he dosnt u cant win.

Littlefifi27's photo
Wed 08/03/11 07:50 PM
laugh laugh laugh drinker

Littlefifi27's photo
Wed 08/03/11 07:52 PM
I guess id like him to be more confident and independent.

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Wed 08/03/11 07:56 PM
forget him, tell your mom to call my mom so we can go out. my dad and my brother will drive us to the mall so we can hang out

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Wed 08/03/11 07:57 PM

well his mother is grant actually she is kul, its his brother and dad which wreck my head, moaning if he goes out, moaning if he dosnt u cant win.


Ask him to come to your house more often. Or ask him to take you out.

That way he will get a sense of what independence is and you will get away from his family.

phoenixX829's photo
Wed 08/03/11 07:58 PM
what does his dad do? and how long have you guys been together? If it bothers you a lot you should talk to him about it, maybe u need some space from him

Littlefifi27's photo
Wed 08/03/11 07:59 PM
god if only :) thats the perfect situation, hanging out at the mall... been a guy wudnt u hate that by the way?

mbcasey's photo
Wed 08/03/11 08:00 PM

god if only :) thats the perfect situation, hanging out at the mall... been a guy wudnt u hate that by the way?


Only if the mall had a strip club or golf course in it...:smile:

Littlefifi27's photo
Wed 08/03/11 08:01 PM


well his mother is grant actually she is kul, its his brother and dad which wreck my head, moaning if he goes out, moaning if he dosnt u cant win.


Ask him to come to your house more often. Or ask him to take you out.

That way he will get a sense of what independence is and you will get away from his family.


he does come to my house more often but that has kinda stopped, ive tried going away on weekends etc all was enjoyed but still all is reverted again :)

Littlefifi27's photo
Wed 08/03/11 08:02 PM

what does his dad do? and how long have you guys been together? If it bothers you a lot you should talk to him about it, maybe u need some space from him


His dad is re-tired, yeah been together a year. at this stage, maybe full time space is needed.

Littlefifi27's photo
Wed 08/03/11 08:04 PM


god if only :) thats the perfect situation, hanging out at the mall... been a guy wudnt u hate that by the way?


Only if the mall had a strip club or golf course in it...:smile:


ha ha kul mall indeed.

Littlefifi27's photo
Wed 08/03/11 08:07 PM

forget him, tell your mom to call my mom so we can go out. my dad and my brother will drive us to the mall so we can hang out


sounds like the ideal situation alright.

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Wed 08/03/11 08:09 PM
Wish I saw the raw before the edit because I just KNOW I would opine!! noway

Littlefifi27's photo
Wed 08/03/11 08:11 PM
Edited by Littlefifi27 on Wed 08/03/11 08:17 PM

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/03/11 08:16 PM
I think you need to make "excuses" for him to take you elsewhere if you are really into him.

Otherwise you may have to move on.

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