Topic: Broken heart sucks.....why did I fall in love for??? | |
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i know exactly how you feel gizzy so when you need a friend to talk to i'm hear! Thanx a alot.....appreciate it....I can always use a friend... your welcome feel free to hit me up sometime! |
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I wish I know what to do NEXT...I tried to forget but the memories and the pains too fresh to be ignored...many others inlove with me (they told me so)...but why can't my heart STOP loving the one who doesn't love me???? Am I stupid? Am I a loser for not wanting to let go??? sorry for whining online...I got no friend nor sibling who I can pour my heart out to. I'm in the same boat... the advice i was given... fake it till you make it... it hurts... but i decided if he doesn't love me anymore... he isnt worth my tears... |
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I'm in the same boat... the advice i was given... fake it till you make it... it hurts... sad advice isn't it???? cause no matter how much you fake it, it just don't make it...wish they understand that tho'...but yes...he's not worth not even a tear drop...thanx tho' |
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All i can say is KARMA.......is a B@$%&!!!!!!!! So when someone does you wrong you better believe they will feel the same pain if not more than what they have caused you sooner or later. altho you may never see it nor hear about it. It will happen. U cant make someone love you nor want to be with you so you have to let them go no matter how much it hurts. I know bc ive been there and it doesnt always makes sense of why people do the things that they do but know this "what comes around, goes around" Just a matter of opinion
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Edited by
missyfissy
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Wed 09/07/11 08:03 PM
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You're not a loser. You might just need to learn that there's a difference between love and lust. When you lust for someone, you're often attracted to them sexually even though you are aware they have little respect for you. Lust has a very short life, luckily. It's also highly dangerous and damages a lot of people's lives with STD's.
When love is involved, there is respect both ways. Look for love next time instead of lust. By that I mean a happy bond between two people every time they're together versus sorrow, distrust, or tears when you're apart. When you meet someone, don't get into a sexual relationship right away. Communication usually breaks down when sex starts too early. Wait for six months. A creep can often feign love for 3 months but true character generally reveals itself within six, a time when most relationships will boom or bust. And by the way, men who don't push for sex right away often attract women (if the chemicals are there to start with). Women like the thrill of the chase every bit as much as men. |
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All i can say is KARMA.......is a B@$%&!!!!!!!! So when someone does you wrong you better believe they will feel the same pain if not more than what they have caused you sooner or later. altho you may never see it nor hear about it. It will happen. U cant make someone love you nor want to be with you so you have to let them go no matter how much it hurts. I know bc ive been there and it doesnt always makes sense of why people do the things that they do but know this "what comes around, goes around" Just a matter of opinion Yep..that's true..what comes around, goes around...I also believe in it... |
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And by the way, men who don't push for sex right away often attract women (if the chemicals are there to start with). Women like the thrill of the chase every bit as much as men. ahhhhhh...only 1 problem with that..."hornyness" creep faster than anything else...especially if he's too damn handsome...and no offense..I'm still sexually active....uh huh...thanx for the advice tho'...I'll make sure I'll keep it in mind the next time I meet someone, I will try my best to deffer between lust n love...thanx alot...appriciate it...I'm okay now tho' thanx... |
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