This guy I dated a couple of times three years ago contacted me out of the blue via a different dating site. This was almost two months ago and we've yet to meet again, or even talk on the phone. Why? Because he comes up with excuse after excuse. He "doesn't like phone conversation...it's too early on a Saturday for pizza...he doesn't do afternoons well," blah blah blah.

At first, I thought it wasn't even him, but he remembered things about me.

yeah he is playing you

i would agree...

Sounds like a game to me. You know what they say: "If it sounds like a duck; Looks like a duck; Its probably a duck."

yeah, sounds lame. there is a guy here, who emails me like once a month and says hi. This has gone on for like 6 or 7 months, and we never did actually ever meet and he lives by me. Always asking me out, but never making a solid plan. I finally just stopped responding..he was cute, but a total waste of time.

Thanks everyone for your replies. I guess it is a Duck.

Definitely a duck - glad you didn't step in it!

Sorry, mixed punchline - but still true! Life's too short for such games!

All the best!


FantasyArtMan

Don't let that duck ruin the sea for all the fish out there :)

did you sleep with him already? if so, that's probably all he's looking for when he calls you. if you haven't, don't. he sounds like a real wiener...i mean winner. if those excuses you've mentioned are ones that he really used, WTF? pizza is good anytime of the day. and unless he works a midnight shift somewhere, afternoons are a good time for almost anybody.

ditch that loser. block his number if you can. there are too many other losers out there that you have to sort through before finding the right guy. no sense in wasting time with this one.


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I've had the situation with a guy. Though, it wasn't 3 years.. it was just a few months. Always full of excuses. Needless to say, I don't talk to him at all anymore.

I dont have time for games anymore, Im 35 and I know what i DONT want...