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Topic: Why all Nudges and Winks and no messages?
KatieDR Joined Mon 07/25/11 Posts: 1	Wed 07/27/11 12:02 AM
I don't understand, I'm new so help me out? I started this site and guys started nudging me and winking, how come they don't message? Is it like asking permission or something?

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Wed 07/27/11 12:08 AM
Its cuz they think you'll bite em. Or they are too shy to approach you first. Mostly guys start the convo.

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Wed 07/27/11 12:33 AM
It probably has something to do with these younger dudes wearing their pants below there underwear. Just my opinion.......

actionlynx Joined Wed 08/18/10 Posts: 5448	Wed 07/27/11 12:47 AM
I can't speak for guys doing it, but my experience has been that women who do it have their accounts deactivated shortly after. That usually means they were scammers or spammers who got caught. That's why I ignore such unless I know the person. Even my profile states "Do not wink or nudge. Take time to write an email, and you may make a better impression."

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Wed 07/27/11 02:39 AM
because i'm scared of pretty girls...

axl_rose40 Joined Mon 08/30/10 Posts: 868	Wed 07/27/11 02:49 AM
Well... in this new technology, some guys or gals are too lazy to type anything or to think of something to say. They just click and click hoping it will do for a come on message. Kidding aside, welcome to the world of online dating, beautiful

Teditis Joined Sun 03/07/10 Posts: 3597	Wed 07/27/11 06:13 AM
Who knows...? Too many different reasons, but it's common. Don't let it bother ya too much... Hi and Welcome to the site.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 07/27/11 06:17 AM
Its cuz they think you'll bite em. Or they are too shy to approach you first. Mostly guys start the convo. Actually, many guys don't start the convo. They send nudges instead without saying a word. Some will send nudges over and over and over, still without saying a word.

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Wed 07/27/11 07:15 AM
Welcome to the site.

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Wed 07/27/11 07:35 AM
Its cuz they think you'll bite em. Or they are too shy to approach you first. Mostly guys start the convo. Actually, many guys don't start the convo. They send nudges instead without saying a word. Some will send nudges over and over and over, still without saying a word. hmmm.. Maybe they are tooo nervous what to write in first emails. Well you know, chicks get really freaked out nowadyas. So the guys maybe scared what to write so they wont lose the chance to start the convo.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45407	Wed 07/27/11 07:40 AM
It probably has something to do with these younger dudes wearing their pants below there underwear. Just my opinion....... hahahahaha Win :-)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 07/27/11 07:45 AM
Its cuz they think you'll bite em. Or they are too shy to approach you first. Mostly guys start the convo. Actually, many guys don't start the convo. They send nudges instead without saying a word. Some will send nudges over and over and over, still without saying a word. hmmm.. Maybe they are tooo nervous what to write in first emails. Well you know, chicks get really freaked out nowadyas. So the guys maybe scared what to write so they wont lose the chance to start the convo. So, sending nudges is not going to make them lose their chance to start the conversation?

MrBiscuit Joined Tue 05/17/11 Posts: 1996	Wed 07/27/11 08:07 AM
I don't understand, I'm new so help me out? I started this site and guys started nudging me and winking, how come they don't message? Is it like asking permission or something? cuz, they like you, but don't buy you :P

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Wed 07/27/11 08:29 AM
Its cuz they think you'll bite em. Or they are too shy to approach you first. Mostly guys start the convo. Actually, many guys don't start the convo. They send nudges instead without saying a word. Some will send nudges over and over and over, still without saying a word. hmmm.. Maybe they are tooo nervous what to write in first emails. Well you know, chicks get really freaked out nowadyas. So the guys maybe scared what to write so they wont lose the chance to start the convo. So, sending nudges is not going to make them lose their chance to start the conversation? Probably not. Cuz as far as I know, one may think that the girl will respond to the nudges. Hey, dont grab my throat. Im just tellin the possibilities. Ok, why would anyone send nudges instead of a mail.? Why there's an option of those nudges? Maybe we all know the answer.

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Wed 07/27/11 08:31 AM
It probably has something to do with these younger dudes wearing their pants below there underwear. Just my opinion....... WOW.!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 07/27/11 08:45 AM
Its cuz they think you'll bite em. Or they are too shy to approach you first. Mostly guys start the convo. Actually, many guys don't start the convo. They send nudges instead without saying a word. Some will send nudges over and over and over, still without saying a word. hmmm.. Maybe they are tooo nervous what to write in first emails. Well you know, chicks get really freaked out nowadyas. So the guys maybe scared what to write so they wont lose the chance to start the convo. So, sending nudges is not going to make them lose their chance to start the conversation? Probably not. Cuz as far as I know, one may think that the girl will respond to the nudges. Hey, dont grab my throat. Im just tellin the possibilities. Ok, why would anyone send nudges instead of a mail.? Why there's an option of those nudges? Maybe we all know the answer. Hey, if your preference is sending nudges that's cool. My preference is sending and receiving actual emails. :)

Ash36 Joined Fri 12/24/10 Posts: 19735	Wed 07/27/11 08:49 AM
Woe.! I didnt said I send nudges neither i send mails to anyone other than forum friends. Im just speakin up my mind bout the topic, ma'am.

amaraii Joined Mon 07/04/11 Posts: 215	Wed 07/27/11 09:00 AM
because i'm scared of pretty girls... Don't worry, we are pretty nice and on our best behavior, in the beginning. Its on the second date, we start to bare our fangs.

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Wed 07/27/11 09:45 AM


Aries151 Joined Fri 02/20/09 Posts: 1077	Wed 07/27/11 10:43 AM
It probably has something to do with these younger dudes wearing their pants below there underwear. Just my opinion....... WOW.! Yeah pull your pants up! haha Just keep in mind that while you may have them around your knees now, by the time you're 85 you'll be wearing your belt around your chest.