hello, I'm new here and had a question--on reviewing some of the posts, questions were asked like 'how do u rate the pix above?' where do u see the said pix at?

You can perv the profiles...and that thread is in you settings...just go there and check it...you won't have any problems.
Welcome to M2...Have a great time here!

thank you for the response vivian, but let's pretend for a second I don't know a thing about the internet and stuff(not far from the truth) what would you mean by 'perv the profiles...and that thread is in your settings...'-just for those real new people out there you understand? lol

yeah, splain that Vivian

click on the picture, or the poster's name and it will take you to their profile, then you can go back and tell them what you think...

pervin just means looking at their profile, which is fine, thats what they are for...

ok..perv....to go look at and read one's profile.

Forums...a set of "Threads" or topics...

From your home page...where it says MY Account...you'll see a list of options..Mail..Search...Community
under those, you'll see Recent Post...My Topics...Setting...Our Blog...Contact Us

Click on Setting.and it will take you to a page that shows all kinds of options for you to choose from...click on any that you want to show up when You open Mingle.

Simple...you can change any and all that you want to.

Whenever you want to.

Enjoy!

Ummmm, it rather sounds like you refer to
the Sex&Intimacy threads, where often a post
will pose a question referring to the 'pix
above you'.
Which means the poster above you, or the last
one before you post.

did I get a little long winded?

He was asking about the 'rate my picture' thread.

Hi i'm new to this site also,so is this a good site to find friends
in the area.or are people just looking to hook-up?

This is a great site to find friends...post in the forums..just jump right in and get to know everyone..you'll be happy you came here.
Welcome and have fun!