Topic: Would you...?
4shley's photo
Sat 07/23/11 06:55 AM
Would you date someone with a disability or someone who was physically not 'normal'?

For instance, I have something called hirsutism (excessive hair growth like a guy would have) and it just makes me feel extremely ugly to the point where that alone will make it impossible for me to find anyone.

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Sat 07/23/11 07:03 AM
Sweetheart, it's all about love.

I absolutely would.

Normal is a myth.

joy4gud's photo
Sat 07/23/11 07:06 AM
So long the heart is not disable, i will

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Sat 07/23/11 07:18 AM
I know it might sound naïve, but I do believe that true love accepts you for who you trully are, not for what you look like. ;)

pink72's photo
Sat 07/23/11 07:23 AM
I'm not a man so I can't answer from a man's point of view, but I would look past any "disabilities" that a man had if he were kind, sincere, loving, hard-working and loyal. I would expect the same of him no matter his physical issues, just as I would expect those things of myself. Besides, who is really "normal" anyway? The good news is, if it's just excessive hair growth, they make hair removers and things for that. That is a cosmetic issue, and if a man (or woman) has substance, they will look past the cosmetic imperfections. Everyone has cosmetic imperfections! Some even have deeper issues that scar their heart and affect the way they treat other human beings. But what you are describing sounds like if it keeps a man from wanting to get to know you or date you, it's their loss and not yours!