there is a HUGE difference in someone giving there opinion and guys who are all on the same dating site you are trying to tell you how to "get date" or what not to "b*tch about"... if you wanna give a leveled headed opinion go right ahead, if you're bored and feel like arguing with another guy on a dating site about "life not being easy" or what complaining is or isn't gonna get me... like I said it was a simple OPINION of things i've seen over time and how I feel about it, not a plea to have other men who obviously have dating problems themselves try and tell me what i'm doing wrong... opinions gentlemen... opinions, not trying to text battle with middle aged men on a dating site... thanks

why thanks old man

well, i can see your going to do very well here... oh, and thats my opinion...

Anomaly, I was simply giving you my opinion based only on what you posted.

anytime, boy...

don't feel bad... all my friends say I'm an old man at heart

no hard feelings bro, i guess I jumped on the defensive a bit quick, no biggie

so why did you post that then? you don't seem to want there opinions, so what was the point of the post?

Try looking at it from a different perspective.

You were in love with a neurotic cow who didn't apprecieate a good thing and is now gonna settle for less.

I think you dodged a bullet. I too have been cast aside for something less. At first, it sucks but, let the resentment pass and you will see that you are the lucky one in this situation.

Just my perspective.

Hi everyone,I just wanted to rant a bit of how now-a-days the good guys are losing out to ********.

So I recently got out of a 4yr relationship that ended pretty sour. Coming back out into the single life i've noticed even more that a larger amount of women now won't even give a guy the time of day because he gets automatically placed in the "just another booty chasing *******" group! I can't speak for ALL men... yes some of us are dumb, horny, and don't know how to treat a lady.. but there are a lot of us left that are still VERY capable of being prince charmings.
My relationship I just got out of started like a fairytale(these are her words) I was "perfect" to her. Then all of a sudden it was "too good to be true" and she let her paranoia destroy our relationship. Too good to be true??? when it was just GOOD and very TRUE. So now I find myself in the category of having a hard time finding a queen because a lot of women I run into wont take a chance and get to know a guy because other ******** mess it up for the good guys. I'm not that guy that hurt you, I treat every woman with respect and like the beautiful beings they are. If a woman took the time to get to know me they would see i'm a very different type of guy, unique... out of the norm(hints why I call myself The Anomaly). I'm looking to give a woman everything she wants in a man and more, i'm looking for my partner in crime, my sidekick, my queeen in the throne next to me. Someone I go to sleep thinking about, and I wake up thinking about. I surely hope she is out here somewhere waiting for me to trot by in my chariot and scoop her up for the ride of her life.

The Anomaly

As you will find, Anomaly, there are going to be a certain number of people on here who are always going to try to pick you apart....to expose your flaws. In fact, it is one of the reasons why I do not post as much in the Forums as I once did.

People forget that social situations are different from place to place. So, unless we have lived in many different places, or at least spent substantial time traveling, many of us are limited to only what we know about our own little slice of the world. That doesn't mean that our opinions or observations are flawed. It simply applies to our small part of the world if what we speak is true. It may not be true anywhere else. So, the lesson is not to generalize. That can be hard to do at times.

I've given up trying to fight the battles. Some of those battles were fought to defend some of the very same people that tried to pick me apart. Some purposely try to anger others because they feel a person shows his/her true colors when angry. Personally, I believe that anyone who purposely goads a person like that has serious character flaws because they lack compassion for the other person. Some of those same people will label you as a whiner for your original post. Just be prepared for it, ignore it, and move on.

True Dat If you want to post in the forums, bring your Binoculars and a megaphone, some people are so far up on their high horse you will need both of those items to even bother communicating with them. GOOD LUCK

Thanks for all the different perspectives and luck wishes, much love... i'm out here and searching, SOMEthing will happen at some point lol