Topic: What do you ladies hate most in men?
indianadave4's photo
Sat 08/20/11 02:46 AM

Hate's a strong word. Lol. What annoys me is if a view a mans profile, and it sounds the same as a lot of others. *sigh*


I don't read men's profiles so this is news to me. This being the case, it would appear both men and women talk (write) a lot and say nothing. When I read women's profiles it seems like they used the same outline to construct their profiles.

<---------Goes to re-examine his profile.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 08/21/11 08:18 AM
Men who aren't happy with themselves that nag at women who want confident men. Lmao. I know it all too well. Just cos they aren't happy with their own lives and have low self-esteem, so they trash females on forums, and try to convince those females that they're wrong, or shouldn't have that kind of preference. Male honey traps. laugh

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Sun 08/21/11 08:23 AM


Hate's a strong word. Lol. What annoys me is if a view a mans profile, and it sounds the same as a lot of others. *sigh*


I don't read men's profiles so this is news to me. This being the case, it would appear both men and women talk (write) a lot and say nothing. When I read women's profiles it seems like they used the same outline to construct their profiles.

<---------Goes to re-examine his profile.


Many men say they're laid back and easy going. And if we want to find out anything, just ask. Or want us to hit them up.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 08/21/11 11:04 AM
Also ones that claim "Half of the women must be fake, the rest must be dead, cos none of em seem to want me!". Ever thought that maybe she's just not that into you?

Simonedemidova's photo
Sun 08/21/11 11:27 AM
I hate men who dress in clothes they cant afford and put on a front like they have things they do not have...it's fraudulent.

oldhippie1952's photo
Sun 08/21/11 11:50 AM

Hate's a strong word. Lol. What annoys me is if a view a mans profile, and it sounds the same as a lot of others. *sigh*


I guarantee my profile is not the same as others!!! :banana:

Now to find a woman other than Roberta who is taken that is like me...frustrated

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Sun 08/21/11 12:57 PM

I hate men who dress in clothes they cant afford and put on a front like they have things they do not have...it's fraudulent.


I'm not sure what you mean. If they're dressed up, do you assume they're always going to dress that way and are disappointed when they don't?

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Sun 08/21/11 01:07 PM
Men who can not keep up with the words, a double minded man.

Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 08/22/11 09:07 AM


I hate men who dress in clothes they cant afford and put on a front like they have things they do not have...it's fraudulent.


I'm not sure what you mean. If they're dressed up, do you assume they're always going to dress that way and are disappointed when they don't?


no A man who has one extremely nice pair of jeans or slacks. One very nice top...and the rest is old tattered clothing. Living in a rundown apt. Driving a brokedown suburu..

I dont mean meeting a guy in a tux at a wedding. I think you know what i mean.

Someone who fronts like they dress fashionable all the time when they really cant afford it.

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Mon 08/22/11 09:23 AM
i hate when men wear flip-flops or sandals... lol...

but really... i hate that they seem to play games... if you're done with me, just be honest! I'd rather find out from you, then the other girl you're dating! I know girls do it too, but obviously, i've never had to deal with it on that end...

joy4gud's photo
Mon 08/22/11 12:33 PM

Men who can not keep up with the words, a double minded man.

some dont even have a mind of their own, their pastor decide for them

joy4gud's photo
Mon 08/22/11 12:34 PM

Men who can not keep up with the words, a double minded man.

some dont even have a mind of their own, their pastor decide for them

Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 08/22/11 03:24 PM
men who say they arent tired but then fall asleep on you...grumble

lionsbrew's photo
Mon 08/22/11 05:21 PM

men who say they arent tired but then fall asleep on you...grumble


Sorry.....

Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 08/22/11 05:53 PM


men who say they arent tired but then fall asleep on you...grumble


Sorry.....


hahaha, guilty as charged...

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Mon 08/22/11 07:53 PM
hate men who are

fickle
chronically late
forgetful
expect women to call them (especially when that means me)
expect us read their minds
boring
hesitant
angry
yelling
who forget how big & powerful they seem to us (even if they aren't tall)

navygirl's photo
Tue 08/23/11 04:06 PM





I think the main thing I dislike about some men not all but Its really annoying when they pretend we(women) are stupid creatures and can't think for ourselves.


Especially contractors. Just went through fighting with a bunch of them that treated me like I didn't know anything but I was smart enough to do my homework and gave them a blast.

hmm..... Tough girl


I guess 20 years in the military will make you that way. bigsmile


I found in my work they hate it when u prove them wrong....and won't listen ..just because Ima woman....but if a man says the same thing I JUST said, they will get all thoughtful and conversational and ready to learn new info (from another man)


Yes, I have fond the same thing. Almost was going to ask a male friend to pose as my boyfriend just so these guys wouldn't try the BS on me. Maybe next time; I should meet these guys wearing my uniform as then they will actually listen to what I have to say.

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Tue 08/23/11 06:43 PM






I think the main thing I dislike about some men not all but Its really annoying when they pretend we(women) are stupid creatures and can't think for ourselves.


Especially contractors. Just went through fighting with a bunch of them that treated me like I didn't know anything but I was smart enough to do my homework and gave them a blast.

hmm..... Tough girl


I guess 20 years in the military will make you that way. bigsmile


I found in my work they hate it when u prove them wrong....and won't listen ..just because Ima woman....but if a man says the same thing I JUST said, they will get all thoughtful and conversational and ready to learn new info (from another man)


Yes, I have fond the same thing. Almost was going to ask a male friend to pose as my boyfriend just so these guys wouldn't try the BS on me. Maybe next time; I should meet these guys wearing my uniform as then they will actually listen to what I have to say.


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Tue 08/23/11 06:46 PM



I hate men who dress in clothes they cant afford and put on a front like they have things they do not have...it's fraudulent.


I'm not sure what you mean. If they're dressed up, do you assume they're always going to dress that way and are disappointed when they don't?


no A man who has one extremely nice pair of jeans or slacks. One very nice top...and the rest is old tattered clothing. Living in a rundown apt. Driving a brokedown suburu..

I dont mean meeting a guy in a tux at a wedding. I think you know what i mean.

Someone who fronts like they dress fashionable all the time when they really cant afford it.


I wasn't talking about someone in a tux. What's wrong with having a few really nice pieces of clothing, but not wearing that kind of stuff most of the time? Many people I know are like that. I've never felt deceived because they wear tshirt and jeans most of the time.

Simonedemidova's photo
Tue 08/23/11 06:48 PM
Edited by Simonedemidova on Tue 08/23/11 06:48 PM
I see it all the time. people who dress like they live on main street but they really live like 40 blocks east...