Topic: What do you ladies hate most in men?
locksfetishGA31's photo
Sat 08/13/11 10:30 PM
I love men too. I despise immature boys. Ya know the ones who have PETER PAN SYNDROME. Men are the ones who know what to do & do it well. Boys are learning how to use the potty & cant go anywhere unsupervised until they follow authority leaders.

navygirl's photo
Sat 08/13/11 10:52 PM



I think the main thing I dislike about some men not all but Its really annoying when they pretend we(women) are stupid creatures and can't think for ourselves.


Especially contractors. Just went through fighting with a bunch of them that treated me like I didn't know anything but I was smart enough to do my homework and gave them a blast.

hmm..... Tough girl


I guess 20 years in the military will make you that way. bigsmile

ladyvenus's photo
Sun 08/14/11 04:03 AM

i hate when you just begin to talk to a guy all they want to talk about is sex....i mean seriously do guys not know that that automatically turns a woman away....











true

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 08/14/11 12:30 PM
Men who hate stretch marks. I mean come on, that is so fussy, and silly.

RhonLynn's photo
Sun 08/14/11 12:43 PM
Most, *NOT ALL* E~Mails I get Start with....I Love Red heads.
Try to be Original at least...lol =0)

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Sun 08/14/11 01:13 PM

with all due respect, i think some ladies set themselves up for a fall because they enjoy flattery, what do you want a man bent on getting what he wants to do?


be honest maybe?

I don;t like men who refuse to own up to things they have done or refuse to see a woman's POV of how it could have been offensive or misleading - on a personal, not a general level -refusal to communicate, unwilling to forgive

but these aren't attractive qualities in anyone tho

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Sun 08/14/11 02:04 PM



with all due respect, i think some ladies set themselves up for a fall because they enjoy flattery, what do you want a man bent on getting what he wants to do?


be honest maybe?

I don;t like men who refuse to own up to things they have done or refuse to see a woman's POV of how it could have been offensive or misleading - on a personal, not a general level -refusal to communicate, unwilling to forgive

but these aren't attractive qualities in anyone tho


Right, and if you think that women 'set themselves up' because some men see it as 'fair game' to be dishonest, to 'win them', then its not about enjoying flattery. Its about trusting men who are untrustworthy.

Hard to say "What do you hate about men" when its really, "What bad experiences have you had with men" Because, surely, we all know that all men are not dishonest. Hopefully we also know that all women are not comfortable with flattery, or trusting of men.


correct I am very wary of too much flattery too soon

and I agree

it is a lot about what has happened NOT that we do not like men////but what things happened that we do not like

because not all men will do those things, of course

Niceladyrealy's photo
Fri 08/19/11 12:51 PM
Unavailability.

ybcat1's photo
Fri 08/19/11 01:21 PM

Unavailability.


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
This lady wants an available man.

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Fri 08/19/11 08:18 PM
I actually love most everything about men MOST of the time!! But I do not like it when they get competitive over stupid stuff with women - when a man does that I totally shut down and shut him out - sometimes it prevents any chance of a true friendship - other times it totally cancels out any friendship that was there (romantic or not).

I am not a gym buddy or a golf pal. I don;t like football, and I don;t want to argue politics to see who can "score the most points" - if u wanna have a normal discussion that's fine

just please remember that normal male competitive convo styles are a total turnoff

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Fri 08/19/11 08:21 PM




I think the main thing I dislike about some men not all but Its really annoying when they pretend we(women) are stupid creatures and can't think for ourselves.


Especially contractors. Just went through fighting with a bunch of them that treated me like I didn't know anything but I was smart enough to do my homework and gave them a blast.

hmm..... Tough girl


I guess 20 years in the military will make you that way. bigsmile


I found in my work they hate it when u prove them wrong....and won't listen ..just because Ima woman....but if a man says the same thing I JUST said, they will get all thoughtful and conversational and ready to learn new info (from another man)

heavenlyboy34's photo
Fri 08/19/11 08:29 PM


Unavailability.


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
This lady wants an available man.

I'm available, and will volunteer to satisfy her desires. :wink: pitchfork

Dragoness's photo
Fri 08/19/11 08:58 PM
I love men.

I have things I don't like in people in general but they are not specific to men.

I don't like prejudice people.
I don't like litter bugs.
I don't like religious zealots.
I don't like gossipers or braggarts.

but I do love men who like to laugh and live with a positive attitude about life. Men who really like women is plus, meaning they do not refer to women in derogatory ways, like referring to them as bad drivers, or being crazy, or less then men because they are women, cheaters, bytches, hos, broads, chicks, etc...

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Fri 08/19/11 09:01 PM

I love men.

I have things I don't like in people in general but they are not specific to men.

I don't like prejudice people.
I don't like litter bugs.
I don't like religious zealots.
I don't like gossipers or braggarts.

but I do love men who like to laugh and live with a positive attitude about life. Men who really like women is plus, meaning they do not refer to women in derogatory ways, like referring to them as bad drivers, or being crazy, or less then men because they are women, cheaters, bytches, hos, broads, chicks, etc...


excellent post:thumbsup:

and in a more positive focus than mine (I kinda had a bad day today)

msharmony's photo
Fri 08/19/11 09:10 PM
Id say double standards.

Moving too slow and ur a tease, moving too fast and you are a tramp,,,but they remain blameless even though they are moving either slow or fast with you...

inconsistency and 'games' are for boys and girls, not MEN and WOMEN,,,

Id bet men arent real crazy about women with double standards and games either,,,,,its more of a human thing

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Fri 08/19/11 10:39 PM

Well i know some few stuffs MOST ladies hate, like a guy being a jerk, a guy that cant express himself.. Blah blah blah
Tell us what you feel ladies

I agree with all the people above that have said Hate is such a strong word.
I dislike men(well make that anyone) that are arrogant, think they are GODS gift to the planet.
I dislike men (again make that anyone) who assumes they know what someone is like without talking to them and finding out about them.
I dislike men (anyone again) Who comes on too strong and won;t let things just happen naturally.
Just my 2cents.

txmomof2's photo
Fri 08/19/11 10:57 PM


Unavailability.


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
This lady wants an available man.



Don't we all?

Hmm let me think on that one

boredinaz06's photo
Fri 08/19/11 11:31 PM


Another manblushing

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Sat 08/20/11 12:21 AM

I very seldom hate but I dislike men when they tell a lie just to get what they want or just to get away with something. Of course I know that women tell lies too happy


I think men and women both lie. You would think that people would eventually learn that if you tell the truth right up front, it will be viewed much better than if you get caught in a lie later.

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Sat 08/20/11 01:59 AM


I very seldom hate but I dislike men when they tell a lie just to get what they want or just to get away with something. Of course I know that women tell lies too happy


I think men and women both lie. You would think that people would eventually learn that if you tell the truth right up front, it will be viewed much better than if you get caught in a lie later.


that is the best case scenario statement - true in the best of all possible worlds - but it is seldom true in reality

many (not all) successful people get where they are by either lying or not telling the whole truth because if they told the truth they would be considered to "loose lipped" to advance forward or move up the ladder. Anyone who says different IS lying

some of our institutions held most dear actually encourage lying - gov't & politics comes to mind laugh

I have been "penalized" for telling the truth on more than one occasion because it is not what my "superiors" wanted to hear