Does almost every woman profile from with in Michigan or near by have kids.

I'm not saying there is something wrong with that because there isn't, I just am a bit shocked it doesn't seem to be no woman here with out kids etc.

Is all I'm sayin.

Mi. must be a popular place. To be honest, I've never paid that much attention.

Gotta take 'em as they come John

Most people do have kids at that age...So sometimes ya get a *package* deal.

if you don't like the baby cow,,, you can't have the mother



no milk for you!!

they usually get started in high school
keep looking for
u will find somebody for u
regardless of the fact that she has kids or not

Now John you sound like my brother, he was looking for a single never maried never had kids gal and he's 40 years old. I'm like dam boy careful cause of you do find someone at that age like that watch out cause there may be something seriously wrong with her
we woman with kids can be very special

This is no accident.

The only thing to do in Michigan is have sex or be portrayed in ****ty Michael Moore documentaries.

And I'd choose the latter.

I get what your saying wanttachat, along with every body else.

I'm not saying I'm againest somebody that has kids or not, it might be alright, I was just starting to wonder what has this world become of.

Yeah I know most woman start at 13 or younger and maybe some times older and makes mistakes and have kids and there dad isn't there etc etc, I've heard and seen and watched it all. And am living some what with that type right now, one of my sister's that is, not going any more then her son no longer has a real so called dad etc which is a damn shame.

I couldn't think of leaving somebody if I knew we where both gonna have kids or a kid some time soon etc, times maybe tough but that isn't no way to go, it's most of the reason why kids end up with more kids etc etc.

I don't know only a guess and all.

I am not getting any younger but how in the heck can some body have fun as in go to movies, music events etc etc if the other has a kid or more then one kid.

I might be looking for something long term down the road but right now who knows, all I know is I would like to just have fun and go from there.

Now noticed I said noting about having sex in that part, I said having fun, going out to the movies and walks etc.

It ain't easy but it can be done. Used to have four in the house(down to 3 now) so I know it ain't easy. Just takes a bit more effort is all.

John women with kids aren't aliens

if the father of the kids are absent they do have friends or family that can babysit so they can go out, if the father is around he can watch them it takes alittle juggling and if your pateint and considerate enough you just might find someone special, same goes for single fathers.

Yeah I get what your saying wanttachat.

I mean not that it matters. I guess I shouldn't be so shocked to see a whole lot of woman with kids with out there fathers etc, now a days that is.

You might try the local high schools, there might be a couple of girls there that don't have kids.

Or there might be some older women on here whose kids are grown that wouldn't taking on another one to raise, I doubt it though.

ooppps no brownie points for you
head down john goes to the back of the line!

Ya just have ta get the older ones that have kids 18 or better. Then they are out of the nest or close to it!!!

No brownie points... DAMN!.

John's Quote: I mean not that it matters. I guess I shouldn't be so shocked to see a whole lot of woman with kids with out there fathers etc, now a days that is.

Hmmmmmmm Don't quite no what to say to that one John,, My first response was to be rude,,, So here it goes,, I have 4 Kids and yes do to divorce they all lived with me, It just seems to me your being alittle it shallow,, yes times have changed and thier are many more women today raising kids alone as thier are men,, yet to close your mind to the possibility of finding love with a women who has kids to me is just a bit shallow,,, As said before arrangements can be made and time alone with someone is possible,,, so keep the heart open and explore all that is around you ,, one may never really know what can be found within a family,,,, Blessed Be

LAMom I hope you just didn't think I started a topic and you think I am some how closed minded and shallow.

I try to have a very open mind about every one and every thing, and that's that.

I guess a bigger question might be asked here.

With out being rude here, how can a single guy who never had you know " sex " be with a woman with kids and then she probably doesn't want any so, he is left with out knowing, maybe I am wrong or maybe there are woman that want to still have a sexual life there afterwards I don't know.

I guess I'm just a confused soul and just looking hoping to find the right woman, to over all enjoy life with etc.

I sometimes wonder is that in it self to much to ask.