No John its not to much to ask,,, And being open and upfront from the beginning is a plus,,, Question for you,, Women you meet wants no more kids nor do you yet she still has kids at home,, Would you still like to get to know her better or just keep it at a friendship level,, I am just trying to understand where it is your coming from

I have had men in the past walk on by because I have kids,,, Not knowing i dont want anymore

Another comment from the peanut gallery (am I showing my age or what?) Just because a woman has kids and no husband, doesn't mean the kids have no father. Lots if not most divorced men get their kids every other weekend, that leaves mom free to have some fun with adults. Just something to think about before you blow off all women with kids.

Hey Bama,, How are you,,

Well to be perfectly honest LAMom, I would like to know the woman better and take things as they go and maybe get a relationship out of it long term or not. It would be nice since I never been in one. I have very few friends and all my few friends are busy but so am I as well.

I'm willing to take a chance and all. But I don't want to meet a woman and find out just cause she got kids etc she doesn't want to do noting in a bed room etc.

But I would rather wait until we are at least married to do that kind of thing, but that's just me.


bamabeecee True and all, and I haven't blown any woman off to be honest, I was just saying how I noticed every other or most woman on this site have kids etc.

Not that again should come to a shock to me because it isn't at all a shock.

John I understand your point of view now,,, Let me say this,, just because a Women has children does not mean we stop all in the bedroom, On the contrary, The bedroom my friend is where a women can be a women true to her self and leave the kids and the world out,,, Hmmmmmmmm something to ponder,,,

Blessed Be,, Hope life for you is filled with love, and that you find that special someone,,,

Thanks LAMom.

Hopefully you along with everybody else here too finds that special some one.

John, try advertising....." 40-something virgin seeks same"............

I don't know much about advertising.

How would I go about doing that lily38 ???.

<<<<<----------older woman, kids grown and gone, don't/can't have anymore unless the person I end up with has kids, (which I wouldn't mind)hmmmmm

Wonder if thats why I don't get any emails/???