I just have to ask,why do most white guys think that all black females are after money or looking for citizenship in foreign countries???Does that mean that there arent any genuine black women out there??

Cuz yall be trifling.

Please make me understand

maybe it's just the ones that your talking to... black women are just like any other race of women, some are sweet and nice, others are loud and obnoxious...but ALL women want money, thats just a fact of life...

Because Africa is notoriously known for 419 and love scams. Not that everyone from there is a scammer.

Stay in the forums and get to know people, they'll see the truth.

I have dated black (and Asian) ladies and never have come across this (not that I am rich mind you). I have been approached by many scammers on line about love and sex, but I choose to ignore/delete, so that's not a problem for me. I guess I'm just lucky that way...and lucky to have dated some wonderful ladies in the past.

Thank you, Calgarymale. Nice to hear something good about us.

hahahahahahahahaha

I thought I just answered this question. Is this a different thread? I am so confused.

Am appreciating ur comments as well as the positive things that are being said,im glad some of you guys know that people arent all the same and generalising isnt fair...

Correction, there are trifling women in all races. I'm a black woman and I am not trifling,thank you very much. Now, have a nice day.

that hasnt been my experience with white guys I dated,,lol

everyone has opinions hon,, just let it slide off and thank goodness you know those types up front so you dont waste your time or emotions,,,

It's like 007 says, depends who your with.

My wife was French/Jamaican and we shared everything. The money issue never came up.

I never had that complaint with the black women I have dated in the past!


Here in LA County though a woman sizes men up by their shoes and their cars!

I wear boots and drive a truck.

Not this white guy.

You're pretty fly for a white guy.

Ah huh! Ah huh!

I get several messages a month from females in Africa. Mostly from Nigeria. Usually in their thirties. I delete them and that's it.

First of all it’s not fair to generalize and say most of any race thinks or feels a certain way. Level headed people understand that one person doesn’t represent an entire race. The white men I know are very level headed thinkers and agree with this concept, so they don’t lump people into the same category simply because of their race, neither do the blacks, Hispanic, Asian and native people I associate with.

Next I believe that independent women who have their own money and are not looking for men for their money, I am one of these women.

Finally, a snake is a snake, and those are the ones to steer clear of no matter what their color or race :).

white guys say that about all women..."we are after their money". It has become a mantra for contemporary U.S. men.
As I see it men earn money to get women who want money. You reap what you sow.


I just have to add that if any of you guys are getting online messages from women in foreign countries...it is not women sending you those messages, as you should know.