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Topic: Men and women do not speak the same language.
sanelunasea Joined Wed 01/19/11 Posts: 337	Fri 07/08/11 01:34 PM
Sometimes, even when I say EXACTLY what I mean to say, a woman will hear something different, because I obviously ACTUALLY meant something else. I hate to say it, but if not most guys, then at least this guy is not that smart. So, to clarify something I've been pondering, could I please have a few women leave their definition of "long term" in regards to long term relationships? And for everyone's benefit, if there's any common phrases you may have heard someone of the opposite sex say in the past, please be kind enough to leave your translation of what was said below.

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Fri 07/08/11 01:44 PM
In my experience, every action, pause, word and phrase are parsed in a woman's mind and has meaning to them, regardless of if any meaning was intended.

Tribbles Joined Tue 11/17/09 Posts: 7349	Fri 07/08/11 01:44 PM
Have you ever thought that maybe some things are a little too cliché for a reason?!

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Fri 07/08/11 01:47 PM
.. definition of "long term" in regards to long term relationships? It means they have spent too much time in short term parking. And are looking for a deal.

sanelunasea Joined Wed 01/19/11 Posts: 337	Fri 07/08/11 01:50 PM Edited by sanelunasea on Fri 07/08/11 01:52 PM
Have you ever thought that maybe some things are a little too cliché for a reason?! Like entrapment? No matter what you say, you lose?

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Fri 07/08/11 01:52 PM


msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 07/08/11 01:53 PM
it means it isnt a casual relationship it means we arent 'just hanging out' it means neither of us feel like 'Ill see ya when I see ya' it means neither of us have a 'I can take it or leave it' attitude long term mostly implies to me a commitment to an exclusive relationship,,,,in hopes of it lasting and working out for the 'long term'

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Fri 07/08/11 01:55 PM Edited by 2KidsMom on Fri 07/08/11 01:56 PM
Thats ok,Dont worry about it,I got it.ese

sanelunasea Joined Wed 01/19/11 Posts: 337	Fri 07/08/11 01:57 PM
Thats ok,Dont worry about it,I got it.ese Oh, ****. Run, ese!

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Fri 07/08/11 02:18 PM
I understand you can order a alien translator online.

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Fri 07/08/11 02:25 PM
Thats ok,Dont worry about it,I got it.ese what's wrong

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Fri 07/08/11 02:25 PM
Thats ok,Dont worry about it,I got it.ese what's wrong nothing

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Fri 07/08/11 02:27 PM
Thats ok,Dont worry about it,I got it.ese what's wrong nothing

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Fri 07/08/11 03:10 PM
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singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 07/08/11 03:23 PM
Sometimes, even when I say EXACTLY what I mean to say, a woman will hear something different, because I obviously ACTUALLY meant something else. I hate to say it, but if not most guys, then at least this guy is not that smart. So, to clarify something I've been pondering, could I please have a few women leave their definition of "long term" in regards to long term relationships? And for everyone's benefit, if there's any common phrases you may have heard someone of the opposite sex say in the past, please be kind enough to leave your translation of what was said below. Why don't you give us some examples of what you think things mean that women think differently about?

MrBiscuit Joined Tue 05/17/11 Posts: 1996	Fri 07/08/11 03:25 PM
Sometimes, even when I say EXACTLY what I mean to say, a woman will hear something different, because I obviously ACTUALLY meant something else. I hate to say it, but if not most guys, then at least this guy is not that smart. So, to clarify something I've been pondering, could I please have a few women leave their definition of "long term" in regards to long term relationships? And for everyone's benefit, if there's any common phrases you may have heard someone of the opposite sex say in the past, please be kind enough to leave your translation of what was said below. Why don't you give us some examples of what you think things mean that women think differently about? 99 pairs of shoes :P

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 07/08/11 03:32 PM
Sometimes, even when I say EXACTLY what I mean to say, a woman will hear something different, because I obviously ACTUALLY meant something else. I hate to say it, but if not most guys, then at least this guy is not that smart. So, to clarify something I've been pondering, could I please have a few women leave their definition of "long term" in regards to long term relationships? And for everyone's benefit, if there's any common phrases you may have heard someone of the opposite sex say in the past, please be kind enough to leave your translation of what was said below. Why don't you give us some examples of what you think things mean that women think differently about? 99 pairs of shoes :P

Tribbles Joined Tue 11/17/09 Posts: 7349	Fri 07/08/11 06:20 PM Edited by Tribbles on Fri 07/08/11 06:20 PM
Why don't you give us some examples of what you think things mean that women think differently about? My, God! Are you always on?!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 07/09/11 02:23 AM
Why don't you give us some examples of what you think things mean that women think differently about? My, God! Are you always on?!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 07/09/11 02:26 AM
Long term relationship...more than a meaningful overnight relationship. For me, long term means a year or so, or longer...usually means a committed relationship, live in, married or serious and monogomous... But then I don't spreak americanese anyway...and have trouble interpeting the americanese engrish rangruage at the best of times.