Topic: why?
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Sat 07/02/11 10:22 AM
why its hard to maintain a guy to have a continous communication...
huh what

Totage's photo
Sat 07/02/11 10:47 AM
What?

kc0003's photo
Sat 07/02/11 10:59 AM
sorry you lost me at maintain.......

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Sat 07/02/11 11:06 AM
they communicate with you once, twice and after that, they're gone..
ohwell

Totage's photo
Sat 07/02/11 11:08 AM
I noticed that with women too.

ArtGurl's photo
Sat 07/02/11 11:09 AM
me too kc huh

Constant communication is impossible. A gurl's gotta sleep sometime!

I assume you are asking about what you can do to keep a guy engaged in conversation????


Be interesting!


If you don't have anything going on in your own life you won't have much to share. Continue to grow and explore life separately and together. Then you will always have new things to talk about.

And learn to appreciate all that is said without words. Much can be said with a touch or a glance. When you pay attention, sometimes words just get in the way ...

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Sat 07/02/11 11:13 AM

they communicate with you once, twice and after that, they're gone..
ohwell



ohhhh you mean online


If they feeling any kind of connection or if they are remotely interested in what you have to say ... they'll keep communicating.

If they are not then it is best that they not waste your time.

And sometimes they just find others where the communication feels more natural.

Relax and be yourself. Don't ask them the same boring questions that 99,999,999 other women on here ask. Learn about them from their stories and experiences.

All the best to you.

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Sat 07/02/11 11:15 AM

me too kc huh

Constant communication is impossible. A gurl's gotta sleep sometime!

I assume you are asking about what you can do to keep a guy engaged in conversation????


Be interesting!


If you don't have anything going on in your own life you won't have much to share. Continue to grow and explore life separately and together. Then you will always have new things to talk about.

And learn to appreciate all that is said without words. Much can be said with a touch or a glance. When you pay attention, sometimes words just get in the way ...



maybe i'm not a interesting person and not good in conversation or maybe i'm just expecting to much..

Totage's photo
Sat 07/02/11 11:18 AM
Just relax and have fun. I doubt you're not interesting.

ArtGurl's photo
Sat 07/02/11 11:19 AM


me too kc huh

Constant communication is impossible. A gurl's gotta sleep sometime!

I assume you are asking about what you can do to keep a guy engaged in conversation????


Be interesting!


If you don't have anything going on in your own life you won't have much to share. Continue to grow and explore life separately and together. Then you will always have new things to talk about.

And learn to appreciate all that is said without words. Much can be said with a touch or a glance. When you pay attention, sometimes words just get in the way ...



maybe i'm not a interesting person and not good in conversation or maybe i'm just expecting to much..




Everyone is interesting. flowerforyou

Try not to have expectations. I just get to know people - if there is something more romantic to be explored it will make itself known. In the meantime, take the pressure off yourself. Don't overthink it. Just enter the conversation with a natural curiosity - a desire to learn about another human being.

From that place of no expectations, people can come and go. The ones you connect with will stick around.

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Sat 07/02/11 11:27 AM

Just relax and have fun. I doubt you're not interesting.

smile2 smile2 :thumbsup: smile2 smile2

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Sat 07/02/11 11:28 AM



me too kc huh

Constant communication is impossible. A gurl's gotta sleep sometime!

I assume you are asking about what you can do to keep a guy engaged in conversation????


Be interesting!


If you don't have anything going on in your own life you won't have much to share. Continue to grow and explore life separately and together. Then you will always have new things to talk about.

And learn to appreciate all that is said without words. Much can be said with a touch or a glance. When you pay attention, sometimes words just get in the way ...



maybe i'm not a interesting person and not good in conversation or maybe i'm just expecting to much..




Everyone is interesting. flowerforyou

Try not to have expectations. I just get to know people - if there is something more romantic to be explored it will make itself known. In the meantime, take the pressure off yourself. Don't overthink it. Just enter the conversation with a natural curiosity - a desire to learn about another human being.

From that place of no expectations, people can come and go. The ones you connect with will stick around.



ok, i will.. thanks! smile2 smile2 smile2