I have more fun with younger women. I am supposed to slow down for others? PLEASE! At 18 they are adults. So where is all this consent and adult choice here?

I never ever went geriatric but some guys would. Who would poke their grand mother? Now that to me is sick (flip side, for example, Hugh Heffner cough cough. And why does he still land fluffy young cotton tails?). There are some things I can never bring myself to. One of them is homosexuality. I would go bestial LONG before I poke at another guys back door. (I can love another man like a brother but as a lover? NO WAY!) Also poking granny? NO WAY! I would kill her! That and the factor is WAY off of the index!

We all have limits somewhere.

But hey, I look like I am in my 30s. I don't feel like anything other than Andy. And I am sick of the second hand life. I am tired of coming up behind the other guy. Again, those are MY personal issues. I don't think desperate has anything to do with it. Desperate is screwing a woman I would have nothing to do with otherwise! Desperate is abandoning my standards.

I am not above a good time here and there but again I do have certain standards I am not letting up on. Sex is sex. Good sex on the other hand is hard to find! A good woman is harder to find. And when you get both then you have achieved heaven and something few others ever get to experience even for one day. Real happiness.

I think where I am going in all of this is people spend too much time ridiculing others and set double standards. Calling an older guy with a younger woman or the younger woman with an older guy desperate is unfair. Most people sell out for money anyways and if that makes them happy, whatevs.

I would be happy to have an honest working relationship with someone in the same mindset I am in as long as she is her own unique person! And if she was 18, 28, or 38 it doesn't matter to me. Age is a number! Nothing more.

Hell, I never dated in High School for two reasons, My father was a supreme embarrassment to me and stuck his nose where it didn't belong in my life, and also I was told I looked too young even up till the time I was 28 years old. Personally I am SO sick and tired of all the labeling going on but in this big bad old world if I do have to wear a label I want one I can live with. Cougar is not such a bad name. Hell, I got my cougar merit badge! I have a couple of stripes under it too! But if I am to be called something for my living the flip side of the coin Lion doesn't hurt! Neither does Wolf. I am not however a creep pervert! And any woman of any age accusing me of that deserves to be pimp slapped!

Inside my many pseudo personalities, well facets of my personality, one of them is Rick James beyatch! And he likes to slap deserving people!

Now if I came up to a woman sight unseen and told her how I would like to oil her up and lick her all over, THAT IS CREEPY! If I was like that I would deserve to be called creepy and a creep. If I walked up to a woman and told her I wanted to use her for my personal toilet? That is Creepy perverted and SICKO! That also deserves a session explaining to the cops what that was all about. If I walked up to a woman and told her I was going to kill, rape and eat her in that order, that is super over the top UBERSCUM that if someone is not on the phone to the police they had better be getting a gun to protect themselves FAST and calling the police in the mean time!

All I want to do is go out, see where things go and if the pilot light fires up and she is the one turning up the thermostat well, congratulate me cause nobody likes a haterator! If nothing happens it was not meant to be!

So come on. Desperate? That is so sad! On so many levels.

MrBiscut, I know you are more creative than that! I mean you are the biscuit, right? Not the Muffin man? Nobody has seen him lately!

Hmmm I think I like a little older as i tend to need someone a little stable and sensible, and normally younger men are just not sensible or stable until they get old.. Its just that you all take so long to grow up..And since i dont want to grow up, I want someone who has


Oh bummer I forgot, I am already old and grown up

Here's an innovative idea...Do whatever the **** you want and **** off with whoever's opinions are against it, been working solid for years for me.

So why are older guys who look for younger women called creeps? I thought creepy guys were the ones into heat shrink tubing and blow driers! I just want a real relationship that works. I am not out to fulfill some sick fetish! So am I supposed to feel guilty for something? So many profiles of women who say they are not out to meet creeps over 25, 27 or whatever.

Well, I am not about to feel any guilt. But still, feedback on this issue would be funny to see what others think and feel about this issue! I mean being called a Badger or something would apply. Even so and with the upsetting of the Wolf therians Wolf also applies! A Sugar Daddy uses candy (DRUGS) to keep his girls. So that would not apply here!

So what do we call a older guy with a younger woman? Lucky? That is the name of my neighbor's dog!

You're still too young for my father, he's about 70

I'm still gonna say desperate.

There's only one thing he's after with a younger girl. He's no better then Father Christmas.

I beg to disagree. I personally know a couple who falls under this situation and not one of them could be labeled as desperate... Both of them compliment each other thus the attraction. The man who is way older than the woman clearly expresses his desire for this young woman for so many reasons and the woman clearly emanates the joy of being desired by this fine older man. If this is called desperation, then the term is not suited for the older man alone. It is for both of the couple then.

I myself wouldn't mind having someone who is up 20 to 25 even 30 years older than me (not that I consider myself young) so long as we are on the same wavelength, he is attractive enough for me (intellectually and/or physically) and he will be able to let me feel his love by the mere sound of his voice when he calls my name or by a subtle touch of his hand on my arms.

So sorry, Mr. Biscuit... but I still refuse to call these men as desperate.

they don't want guys old enough to be their dad messaging them. That sounds fair to me that's creepy. As what to called them err... Wild Dog? Old Dog? Old Dirty Dog, The Hefner? Cradle Robber? Alpha Dog? Perro Viejo?

But you don't know how a mans brain works.

You like older men because they have a life, and are mature.

He may act mature towards you.

But in his brain, he is thinking this.

Look at the young chick I got

Wow, shes just matured to 18. Now I am a winner

She's legal, so she will do

I feel like I'm back at school

With my young chick, I feel like the king

When she gets to 21, I'll dump her, and go for another chick, thats 18!

A one track mind like that, is desperate and dangerous.

You ladys know nothing about men.

You shouldn't dare speak the mind of an older man, my friend. You haven't even reach that age yet so you don't really know.

Even if you'll get to that age and you would think that way, you could not represent the vast majority.

Disagree, we may not know everything about men... but a lot of us know something about them. And that is good enough for some of us.

Can you name this sex offender? The van is a hint!

Wormulon.

Here is another hint, He was an author of a comic for Hustler magazine and did a lot of his work FROM prison. And in an odd twist he got the nickname he wore when he was in prison from his comic.