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Topic: Any advice for a new mommy?
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Mon 07/04/11 10:00 PM

Learn how to take your compliments when you get them and not just when you think you deserve them. Just the other day at the nursing home my 37 year old resident told me that I was a good mommy. I had changed her brief; Wet her wash cloth; Got her a drink of water and gave her hug like she asked for and Finally asked her if there was anything else she needed before I left the room and then she told me that.:smile:
:heart: God Bless you,,,,and HER,,,,Its one thing to just BE,,THERE,,,,Its JUST MY JOB,,kind-of attitude,,,but to BE THERE,,in their mind,,to really care,,GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!<3

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Mon 07/04/11 11:57 PM


Learn how to take your compliments when you get them and not just when you think you deserve them. Just the other day at the nursing home my 37 year old resident told me that I was a good mommy. I had changed her brief; Wet her wash cloth; Got her a drink of water and gave her hug like she asked for and Finally asked her if there was anything else she needed before I left the room and then she told me that.:smile:
:heart: God Bless you,,,,and HER,,,,Its one thing to just BE,,THERE,,,,Its JUST MY JOB,,kind-of attitude,,,but to BE THERE,,in their mind,,to really care,,GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!<3


Thank you. The place has helped me in so many ways. :smile:

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Tue 07/05/11 07:23 AM
Edited by MrBiscuit on Tue 07/05/11 07:30 AM
I don't want to give too much advise.

But my parents never treated me like a person.

They would never sit down with me, and ask, how I'm doing. Or have a conversation about something nice, and positive.

If you do just this. Try and learn about your son, don't use what he says, against him. Instead, try and be his buddy. You have to be bonded, to an extent.

But, don't over talk with him. Give him some room. Everyone enjoys a little time to themselfs.

Another thing, knowing how to play with your child is a great gift. Try and join in, on the things he enjoys.

And lastly, your son will be going though lots of changes, throughout his life. Be supportive, be gentle, kind, and understanding. But make sure you are there for him, in times of need.

Last word, I promise laugh

My family think that money is love. Love is how you are, when you are together. A loveless family, is a sad one. Make sure everyday is special. Share, happiness, laughter, love, and joy. It's good medicine, and makes a happy home ^_^

May you two become the best of friends. And share many happy times ahead together. Bless you both! happy

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Wed 07/06/11 11:51 AM
if its a boy.. remember to cover him up when u change his diaper or he will pee in his ear.. i learned that one the hard way.. and that was right after his bath

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