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Topic: how come u get tons of views yet no replies??
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Mon 06/20/11 12:37 PM

OK, so... I am in "stealth mode." I've looked at a lot of profiles, including yours. If I see someone post, I get curious and wanna see where they're from/how old/etc...

Just because I look, doesn't mean I feel the need to send you a message and/or I'm interested in you.


well saiddrinker

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Mon 06/20/11 12:37 PM
Edited by Teditis on Mon 06/20/11 12:37 PM

OK, so... I am in "stealth mode." I've looked at a lot of profiles, including yours. If I see someone post, I get curious and wanna see where they're from/how old/etc...

Just because I look, doesn't mean I feel the need to send you a message and/or I'm interested in you.

Well that's just crazy... why can't you just imagine chit in your head and choose NOT to interact with life?
It's much simpler that way... and causes no grief in others.

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Mon 06/20/11 12:41 PM

OK, so... I am in "stealth mode." I've looked at a lot of profiles, including yours. If I see someone post, I get curious and wanna see where they're from/how old/etc...

Just because I look, doesn't mean I feel the need to send you a message and/or I'm interested in you.


Ninja mode? Sounds pretty interesting. I always wondered about the views thing as well. I always see familiar faces on the forums which is always good. Hi everyone! Hey Lizzie, 2kids, Ash, and Ms. waving

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Mon 06/20/11 12:43 PM


OK, so... I am in "stealth mode." I've looked at a lot of profiles, including yours. If I see someone post, I get curious and wanna see where they're from/how old/etc...

Just because I look, doesn't mean I feel the need to send you a message and/or I'm interested in you.


Ninja mode? Sounds pretty interesting. I always wondered about the views thing as well. I always see familiar faces on the forums which is always good. Hi everyone! Hey Lizzie, 2kids, Ash, and Ms. waving



Hey...I'm here..:banana: pitchfork waving

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Mon 06/20/11 12:52 PM

I thought she meant views to the thread she posted. If thats the case, I think the average is 1 in 7 people are posters while the other 6 lurk n read.


You're right! That is what she meant.

And yet again, there's a simple answer. If the thread in question isn't something I'm interested in, I have no need to post.

For example - Someone starts a thread sayin' I just went to the store and bought some bologna. I'll read it, but I really don't care. Same for the "why me," or the ever so popular self-conscious "everybody other than me" stuff.

Give me a reason to post and I will.

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Mon 06/20/11 12:54 PM


I thought she meant views to the thread she posted. If thats the case, I think the average is 1 in 7 people are posters while the other 6 lurk n read.


You're right! That is what she meant.

And yet again, there's a simple answer. If the thread in question isn't something I'm interested in, I have no need to post.

For example - Someone starts a thread sayin' I just went to the store and bought some bologna. I'll read it, but I really don't care. Same for the "why me," or the ever so popular self-conscious "everybody other than me" stuff.

Give me a reason to post and I will.




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Mon 06/20/11 12:59 PM
we could try:wink: laugh

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Mon 06/20/11 12:59 PM

it seems that when you post a forum you'll get over a thousand views yet only 3 people reply. Why is that?


I don't mind the views I get vs replies...probably because I view others too. Sometimes the pictures they put up in here are cute or funny and I want a better look at it since everything in the forums are smaller. drinker

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Mon 06/20/11 01:07 PM

now we're cookin


With grease?!

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Mon 06/20/11 01:22 PM


now we're cookin


With grease?!


not sure if you should trust tribbles to do the cooking lizzie? The dog says he's not so good at boiling crabs & if he can't boil water....NOT GOOD!

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Mon 06/20/11 01:39 PM
As for profile views:
I am in Stealth Mode until I choose to take the next step with someone. Until then, I don't want to give people false impressions.

As far as threads:
I am not as active in the Forums as I once was. I am more selective about when and where I post.
Sometimes I run across a few people in a thread with whom I do not wish to interact, and so that will deter me from posting.
Sometimes I have nothing to say, or it has already been said.
Sometimes I do have something to say, but when I type it out, I realize I cannot adequate relay my thoughts in words.
Sometimes I like to just be a ghost reader.

I actually check the Forums several times per day. However, I may only type a total of 3 posts.

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Mon 06/20/11 03:00 PM
i thank everyone for their responses. I see all points. I was generally just curious. Not mad or anything. In honesty i mostly keep to my own posts unless something intrigues me enough and i always comment when i view. And as for profile views, i did not know there was a stealth mode. I kinda find that stupid. I think profile views are great. That's what i miss about myyearbook. But that doesn't matter. I don't think someone is interested if i get a view. If someone wants to talk to me they'll message me. Then i'll know.

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Mon 06/20/11 03:12 PM

Because the forum is a news paper. No, it's better then a news paper! laugh


Like a newspaper we have south of me a bit...The Monroe Evening News. They post names laugh

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Mon 06/20/11 03:51 PM
Some folks just have nothing worthwhile to say.

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Mon 06/20/11 08:00 PM

I've been on here for a couple of years and I've only had maybe 8 or 9 views


Hey lillot; I viewed you a few minutes ago and I like what I read! It wouldn't let me send you a mail, though because I have that I drink occasionally on my profile.

I rarely do drink; as a matter of fact I did have a few wine coolers at our Mother's day BBQ but before that I haven't had a drop for years.

If you see this, drop me a line. I have been into living off the grid for the past 30 years, been part of a great Yahoo group for about a dozen years now and I think we have a lot to discuss if you'd like to.

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Tue 06/21/11 06:45 AM
Because they're curious about something you said. I do it. Has nothing to do with whether or not they're interested in you. Just sort of a reflex. You say something, they look to see more about who said it.

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