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Topic: Lonely.......
MzCat73's photo
Sun 06/19/11 07:29 PM
Darnit.....will this feeling go away? I'm so freakn lonely, needing a man to curl up with! kids left with their dad, now i'm just HERE!!! :cry: :cry: sad

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Sun 06/19/11 07:32 PM
Start finding things to do that you enjoy and friends to spend time with.

MzCat73's photo
Sun 06/19/11 07:35 PM
don't have that...all i have is on here and games to play right now. tv gets boring at times. maybe i should just get some rest.

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Sun 06/19/11 07:41 PM
I didn't necessarily mean right this second. But, the more you do to keep yourself busy and enjoying life, the less lonely you'll be.

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Sun 06/19/11 07:43 PM
So need to validate this...being alone SUCKS!


It IS however SO much less lonely than being right next your beloved, who is a million miles away from everything you believe and feel!!!

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Sun 06/19/11 07:45 PM

So need to validate this...being alone SUCKS!


It IS however SO much less lonely than being right next your beloved, who is a million miles away from everything you believe and feel!!!
:heart: TRUE THAT Beach....drinker

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Sun 06/19/11 07:45 PM

So need to validate this...being alone SUCKS!


It IS however SO much less lonely than being right next your beloved, who is a million miles away from everything you believe and feel!!!


well stated my friend

MzCat73's photo
Sun 06/19/11 07:51 PM
:cry: tears

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Mon 06/20/11 06:31 AM
I too, used to be a lonely thing.

But then I took the time, to appreciate my family and friends. And going outside to do something interesting each day, stops you from falling into the dark pit of time, and house depression.

Also I've found that listening to plenty of music everyday, and watching a good movie, every so often, keeps your mind very positive.

In the end, when you are living your life right. You will bump into plenty of good potential partners, but not until you can smile about being you, loving yourself, and being happy with your life.

Many people may see your life, qualitys, values, and personality, as unatractive.

You should worry about improving your lifestyle, before anything else! :)

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Mon 06/20/11 06:38 AM

I too, used to be a lonely thing.

But then I took the time, to appreciate my family and friends. And going outside to do something interesting each day, stops you from falling into the dark pit of time, and house depression.

Also I've found that listening to plenty of music everyday, and watching a good movie, every so often, keeps your mind very positive.

In the end, when you are living your life right. You will bump into plenty of good potential partners, but not until you can smile about being you, loving yourself, and being happy with your life.

Many people may see your life, qualitys, values, and personality, as unatractive.

You should worry about improving your lifestyle, before anything else! :)


Exactly. Go out and enjoy life. Find things you like doing. Spend time with people away from your house. Don't sit at home and feel sorry for yourself. Once you actually get out and start doing things more often, you'll feel less lonely.

Totage's photo
Mon 06/20/11 06:42 AM

Darnit.....will this feeling go away? I'm so freakn lonely, needing a man to curl up with! kids left with their dad, now i'm just HERE!!! :cry: :cry: sad


flowerforyou

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Mon 06/20/11 06:43 AM
Edited by MrBiscuit on Mon 06/20/11 06:46 AM


I too, used to be a lonely thing.

But then I took the time, to appreciate my family and friends. And going outside to do something interesting each day, stops you from falling into the dark pit of time, and house depression.

Also I've found that listening to plenty of music everyday, and watching a good movie, every so often, keeps your mind very positive.

In the end, when you are living your life right. You will bump into plenty of good potential partners, but not until you can smile about being you, loving yourself, and being happy with your life.

Many people may see your life, qualitys, values, and personality, as unatractive.

You should worry about improving your lifestyle, before anything else! :)


Exactly. Go out and enjoy life. Find things you like doing. Spend time with people away from your house. Don't sit at home and feel sorry for yourself. Once you actually get out and start doing things more often, you'll feel less lonely.


And more positive too! ^o^

When you're happy and not thinking about boys\men, then they will come to you. You will be the cool chick, that will keep them coming back for more shades

MzCat73's photo
Mon 06/20/11 07:04 AM



I too, used to be a lonely thing.

But then I took the time, to appreciate my family and friends. And going outside to do something interesting each day, stops you from falling into the dark pit of time, and house depression.

Also I've found that listening to plenty of music everyday, and watching a good movie, every so often, keeps your mind very positive.

In the end, when you are living your life right. You will bump into plenty of good potential partners, but not until you can smile about being you, loving yourself, and being happy with your life.

Many people may see your life, qualitys, values, and personality, as unatractive.

You should worry about improving your lifestyle, before anything else! :)


Exactly. Go out and enjoy life. Find things you like doing. Spend time with people away from your house. Don't sit at home and feel sorry for yourself. Once you actually get out and start doing things more often, you'll feel less lonely.


And more positive too! ^o^

When you're happy and not thinking about boys\men, then they will come to you. You will be the cool chick, that will keep them coming back for more shades


:thumbsup: shades

MzCat73's photo
Mon 06/20/11 07:05 AM


Darnit.....will this feeling go away? I'm so freakn lonely, needing a man to curl up with! kids left with their dad, now i'm just HERE!!! :cry: :cry: sad


flowerforyou


happy

MzCat73's photo
Mon 06/20/11 07:07 AM


I too, used to be a lonely thing.

But then I took the time, to appreciate my family and friends. And going outside to do something interesting each day, stops you from falling into the dark pit of time, and house depression.

Also I've found that listening to plenty of music everyday, and watching a good movie, every so often, keeps your mind very positive.

In the end, when you are living your life right. You will bump into plenty of good potential partners, but not until you can smile about being you, loving yourself, and being happy with your life.

Many people may see your life, qualitys, values, and personality, as unatractive.

You should worry about improving your lifestyle, before anything else! :)


Exactly. Go out and enjoy life. Find things you like doing. Spend time with people away from your house. Don't sit at home and feel sorry for yourself. Once you actually get out and start doing things more often, you'll feel less lonely.


indifferent it's hard to when ya broke, but ok! :thumbsup:

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Mon 06/20/11 07:09 AM


I too, used to be a lonely thing.

But then I took the time, to appreciate my family and friends. And going outside to do something interesting each day, stops you from falling into the dark pit of time, and house depression.

Also I've found that listening to plenty of music everyday, and watching a good movie, every so often, keeps your mind very positive.

In the end, when you are living your life right. You will bump into plenty of good potential partners, but not until you can smile about being you, loving yourself, and being happy with your life.

Many people may see your life, qualitys, values, and personality, as unatractive.

You should worry about improving your lifestyle, before anything else! :)


Exactly. Go out and enjoy life. Find things you like doing. Spend time with people away from your house. Don't sit at home and feel sorry for yourself. Once you actually get out and start doing things more often, you'll feel less lonely.


All of this certainly helps, but there are just days when being alone still sucks azz!!! I grew up with friends that were around pretty much 24/7 and though I have lived alone before, was rarely ever really alone at any moment unless by choice. I stay fairly busy, work out, do yoga, socialize with local friends/coworkers, but sometimes not having someone I feel close to around gets to me!

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Mon 06/20/11 07:11 AM



I too, used to be a lonely thing.

But then I took the time, to appreciate my family and friends. And going outside to do something interesting each day, stops you from falling into the dark pit of time, and house depression.

Also I've found that listening to plenty of music everyday, and watching a good movie, every so often, keeps your mind very positive.

In the end, when you are living your life right. You will bump into plenty of good potential partners, but not until you can smile about being you, loving yourself, and being happy with your life.

Many people may see your life, qualitys, values, and personality, as unatractive.

You should worry about improving your lifestyle, before anything else! :)


Exactly. Go out and enjoy life. Find things you like doing. Spend time with people away from your house. Don't sit at home and feel sorry for yourself. Once you actually get out and start doing things more often, you'll feel less lonely.


indifferent it's hard to when ya broke, but ok! :thumbsup:


Not really. Find out the free/cheap things to do in your area. Look for groups to join based on your interests to find people that you may like hanging out with. There are always things to do that don't cost much, or are free.

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Mon 06/20/11 07:13 AM



I too, used to be a lonely thing.

But then I took the time, to appreciate my family and friends. And going outside to do something interesting each day, stops you from falling into the dark pit of time, and house depression.

Also I've found that listening to plenty of music everyday, and watching a good movie, every so often, keeps your mind very positive.

In the end, when you are living your life right. You will bump into plenty of good potential partners, but not until you can smile about being you, loving yourself, and being happy with your life.

Many people may see your life, qualitys, values, and personality, as unatractive.

You should worry about improving your lifestyle, before anything else! :)


Exactly. Go out and enjoy life. Find things you like doing. Spend time with people away from your house. Don't sit at home and feel sorry for yourself. Once you actually get out and start doing things more often, you'll feel less lonely.


All of this certainly helps, but there are just days when being alone still sucks azz!!! I grew up with friends that were around pretty much 24/7 and though I have lived alone before, was rarely ever really alone at any moment unless by choice. I stay fairly busy, work out, do yoga, socialize with local friends/coworkers, but sometimes not having someone I feel close to around gets to me!


I think being lonely is a choice. Sure, it happens to everyone at times, but if you're sitting around being lonely all the time, it's because you're letting yourself be that way.

Then again, I have people around I feel close to. I don't have to be dating someone in order to have people around that I am close to.

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 06/20/11 07:17 AM
yeah being lonely sucks...

the more ya think about being
lonely, the more lonely ya get

there is a saying...
until you can enjoy your own company,
don't expect anyone else to

when you get tired enough of the feeling,
you do something about it

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Mon 06/20/11 07:19 AM



I too, used to be a lonely thing.

But then I took the time, to appreciate my family and friends. And going outside to do something interesting each day, stops you from falling into the dark pit of time, and house depression.

Also I've found that listening to plenty of music everyday, and watching a good movie, every so often, keeps your mind very positive.

In the end, when you are living your life right. You will bump into plenty of good potential partners, but not until you can smile about being you, loving yourself, and being happy with your life.

Many people may see your life, qualitys, values, and personality, as unatractive.

You should worry about improving your lifestyle, before anything else! :)


Exactly. Go out and enjoy life. Find things you like doing. Spend time with people away from your house. Don't sit at home and feel sorry for yourself. Once you actually get out and start doing things more often, you'll feel less lonely.


All of this certainly helps, but there are just days when being alone still sucks azz!!! I grew up with friends that were around pretty much 24/7 and though I have lived alone before, was rarely ever really alone at any moment unless by choice. I stay fairly busy, work out, do yoga, socialize with local friends/coworkers, but sometimes not having someone I feel close to around gets to me!


Well of course it does, silly! laugh

From the day you are born, you are always looking for your other half.

Doing what you are doing, is good! happy Just don't let the lonely void get to you. You are a great lady. Keep smileling, you are worth the world and more. And love, and the people that love you, are never too far away. Make sure you treasure them, and yoursef! :D

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