Why is it that some men want a PASSIVE woman....just so they can run over that woman and control her?

Insecurity.

I love AGGRESSIVE women. PASSIVE women kind of intimidate me, I just don't know how to handle them, and feel like there's a manipulation game between us. At least it's clear where an aggressive woman stands. Besides, I love that "pittbull" personality.

so u saying the man is insecure is the reason he wants a passive woman?

I mean, i know a man don't want a woman who nags all the time, or argues, but what if that man just won't listen to her and don't care? how can u make someone realize what their doing wrong without all the arguing? Well for me, i just had to get out of it. this man wasn't worth my time, 7-8 months of mess he took me thru, or i allowed to happen.

If they don't care enough to listen, they're not worth your time.

i see

Yeah, because he figures a passive woman is easier to control. She's less likely to question him, she's less likely to leave him (in his mind, anyway).

I see it as a character flaw. But then, I've always preferred someone more assertive and outspoken, someone who will challenge me and make me think, someone who's not afraid to tell me when I'm wrong.

I've had some passive exes in the past, and I got bored with them very quickly. OK, so I got bored with most of the others, too, but not for the same reason!

Don't you think you deserve to be heard?

aww ok, i see what u saying! yea, seems like that's what my ex wants. he told me he wanted a passive feminine girly girl....his words exactly.

yes i do, just wanted him to understand. but he didn't care to hear that, cause he thinks he's not doing anything wrong. or wants me to believe that. so it is what it is. i hope he finds what he's lookn for, and know that he lost a good woman. guess he's gonna keep on playing for the rest of his life, cause i'm just not into games. this dude drank and smoke like a chimney and stay high all the time, so there's no time for me in that.

just cut the BS and get over it

more fish in the sea, whatever.....

oh, yeah one more thing

hello to everyone

Well personally, I like opinionated Ladies, and I love the mean Girly temper too. Keeps me in my place

I just don't like being run into the ground or agreed upon everything I say. Big turn off! lol

In bed that's not entirely a bad thing...But in other regards it would probably annoy me to tears forcing me to talk to the dog and eventually killing 12 women because the dog said it would cure them of their sins...Or something.

A passive woman to me right now sound like a vacation on the beach that is well over due.

Let me try this "passive woman please hear my voice. come to me, come to me, come to me". Well no woman came, but my dog came with her leash.

LOL. Did you say "passive" or "suggestible"? The passive woman was probably just lying somewhere waiting for you to come to her!