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Mike 521 etc., I saw a French movie last night, and a character in it, played by a human actor, looks EXACTLY like you on your profile picutre.
The movie is called Blanch comme nuit (white as snow). The character's name is Abel or something. Is that you? Are you him? Is he you? "I am you and you are me and we are one and we are all together..." |
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I'm going to assume that you have at least dropped a few hints to the ones you are interested in, Simone. Sometimes women can be too subtle when trying to draw attention. Sometimes the man just isn't good at picking up the signals. And other times, well, there might be something holding him back despite recognizing the signs. In that case, you might need to open a dialogue to find out why. It could end up being much ado about nothing, but he just needs a push to see that.
Anyway, that's my two cents. Of course, you probably already knew everything I just mentioned. 
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life is a bit nuts, and the internet,, well, it just makes us AVAILABLE to many more people I Have been puzzled lately by the number of people who message me once, with something like a hi how are ya,,,and from that point on profess ever lasting love for me checking on my daily, giving me advice, telling me they cant stop thinking about me how do you leap to everlasting love from a simple 'hello, how are ya?' on the one hand, flattering, ,, on the other hand,, an illogical red flag? Ms. Harmony, the problem is incompatibility. I, as a man, am too anxious to have sex. Not sex for sex's sake, but sex with a girlfriend, with whom I'd enjoy some feelings of being special, mutually. I know there are proper channels of protocols to follow, that would eventually lead to this, but I simply, and this is the plain truth, simply don't have any patience, but any, left, to follow these channels. So I don't even want to start... it's a long and ardrorous process, and at the end I might just find myself on the street, no nookie, no kiss, no love. True, I could go to hookers... but I need sex less than how I need some validation of my existence as a man of... erm... penis? a man of the rod. So what? What do I do? I just say "no", and that's that. Can't believe I wound up being a human, just my luck. I now wish I would have been born as a rat, a rabbit, a squirrel, or even an as an amoeba or tapeworm. Unlimited sex, all the time. No friggin' need to feel special, no prelimilary, post-liminary, or during-liminary headgames, powergames, waiting at the restaurant, having to say something, smile when I don't want to. --------- That said, I remember the joy in the chase from old times; the dates, the getting the phone number, the asking the woman for a dance... the first restaurant meal, the meal in her home on Saturday, the apperitif foreplay, her kids coming home too early from their dates, my date holding her own bra behind her back while her blouse is mis-aligned in the buttoning, telling her son that the cricket bat is in the upstairs fontainableu... and me sitting in the kitchen corner, in a bucket of icecubes... the agony and the ecstasy. But I have no patience for that any more. And what's worse... what's really bad... is that I can't get even a date, even if my life depended on it. One woman from this site maybe asked me out... from five thousand miles away. Or five hundred miles? who cares? What difference would it make? I don't have the money to go there, and she don't have the money to come here. It's all a big pie in the sky, which smells like fish, and it's hairy, too. There. Now I feel better. (Burp.) Sigh... yeah, f. |
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Edited by
wux
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Sat 06/04/11 11:12 PM
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I just re-read my post.
What the heck is a "fountainableu"? Can somebody tell me, please? |
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I'm going to assume that you have at least dropped a few hints to the ones you are interested in, Simone. Sometimes women can be too subtle when trying to draw attention. Sometimes the man just isn't good at picking up the signals. And other times, well, there might be something holding him back despite recognizing the signs. In that case, you might need to open a dialogue to find out why. It could end up being much ado about nothing, but he just needs a push to see that. Anyway, that's my two cents. Of course, you probably already knew everything I just mentioned. Well, yay, I said very blatantly, I really like you. I feel like I am missing some sort of reciprocation. Maybe i am just blind and deaf!!! Or else i am just an idiot.... |
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Why is it, the ones you like the most dont seem to care, and the ones you dont care for are the only ones who try and stay in contact... I fricken HATE that---- Like you have all these people trying to get at you but the ones you are interested in dont seem to really care or put forth an effort. It's embarrassing. You dont want to feel like the one on that other end who just bugs you...  I understand..I too...had to learn the hard way..No Response Is The Response.Im sorry girl...Yea hurt my feelings too.
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Why is it, the ones you like the most dont seem to care, and the ones you dont care for are the only ones who try and stay in contact... I fricken HATE that---- Like you have all these people trying to get at you but the ones you are interested in dont seem to really care or put forth an effort. It's embarrassing. You dont want to feel like the one on that other end who just bugs you... I understand..I too...had to learn the hard way..No Response Is The Response.Im sorry girl...Yea hurt my feelings too. Well said, No response is the Response |
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Edited by
Simonedemidova
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Tue 06/07/11 01:33 PM
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2kids -Apparently our Crazy FIERCE Profile Pics is not enough to scare someone into a relationship with us,
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Tue 06/07/11 01:48 PM
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2kids -Apparently our Crazy FIERCE Profile Pics is not enough to scare someone into a relationship with us, you may be right about that.... although..you remember,I had my real one up, for that reason,I wanted them,to see the real me      Always,The Clown    |
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2kids -Apparently our Crazy FIERCE Profile Pics is not enough to scare someone into a relationship with us, you may be right about that.... although..you remember,I had my real one up, for that reason,I wanted them,to see the real me Always,The Clown Hell Yay, I know what you look like, Your HOT! |
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2kids -Apparently our Crazy FIERCE Profile Pics is not enough to scare someone into a relationship with us, you may be right about that.... although..you remember,I had my real one up, for that reason,I wanted them,to see the real me Always,The Clown Hell Yay, I know what you look like, Your HOT!
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Yeah, in the world of online dating, the no response rule is an unfortunate truth.
I wish I didn't live so far away from some the more interesting women on here. After my last two attempts, I'm not really into the LDR thing right now. I know who I am, and it tends to come across better in person. Not to mention an LDR is tough enough even when you have met in person. I suppose I should put up a real profile again someday....just for the confidence boost it might bring. 
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Yeah, in the world of online dating, the no response rule is an unfortunate truth. I wish I didn't live so far away from some the more interesting women on here. After my last two attempts, I'm not really into the LDR thing right now. I know who I am, and it tends to come across better in person. Not to mention an LDR is tough enough even when you have met in person. I suppose I should put up a real profile again someday....just for the confidence boost it might bring. Ahhh, real profiles are over-rated, LOL. |
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