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Well.... lets see.... counting today...(I just fell in love with another Mingle hunk, that lives too far away from me)  About 67,943 times! Oh wait...67,944 times, I almost forgot about today!  
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Well.... lets see.... counting today...(I just fell in love with another Mingle hunk, that lives too far away from me) About 67,943 times! Oh wait...67,944 times, I almost forgot about today! I mean... who couldnt love a face like that? Bloody lips and Black Eyes....wooo hooo! What a babe!! |
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so how do you love yourself when it seems like everyone else hates you? Do you bring your A game each and everyday to accomplish the things you need to do for yourself and others if you desire? Do you treat others how you believe they should be treated? Do you act with integrity and respect? You don't need others to approve of you if you are doing all the things listed above and know you are doing them. Also are you looking for monsters? Because if we expect and look for monsters we will find them even when they don't exist. |
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Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Fri 05/27/11 06:03 PM
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so how do you love yourself when it seems like everyone else hates you? Do you bring your A game each and everyday to accomplish the things you need to do for yourself and others if you desire? Do you treat others how you believe they should be treated? Do you act with integrity and respect? You don't need others to approve of you if you are doing all the things listed above and know you are doing them. Also are you looking for monsters? Because if we expect and look for monsters we will find them even when they don't exist. Omg....... No one could have said it better!! Amen!!! You rock Dragoness! |
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Truly...
I loved my Rottweiler. My big fat Orange tabby that looked dead on like Morris, and 2 women. But, the two women were the ones I were actually in love with. Such a vague question....lol |
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i have not yet been in love. just lust or a mild liking so far.
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I love as hard as I can everyday. Every breath brings me one less to my last and I want to be fortunate enough to have a happy life. Sure, I detest the people I gotta detest. But, I love the living hell out of my loved ones.
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hard to say
I have thought myself in love a few times and did love my ex, both of them for a good run DK exactly how many times because except for my exes it is hard to say whether it was love or infatution/crushes and then, since I don't love them any more I am not sure I really know what love is because I have always heard that it is supposed to last forever |
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Edited by
navygirl
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well at the risk of pissing peopleoids off....cuz I really don't care if your down on love, your down on yourself gotta love ourselves first On this I agree that you have to love yourself first. I am not down on love with friends and family just with relationships. No offense Navygirl, I have read many a post about your relationship troubles. I am sure you know who you are, and in knowing that, you know what you've got. What you had at the beggining of any relationship. That is what you still have. You have to pick up the old baseball bat, and get ready to hit some slogs. This is a new game with new players, but you still have your good old heart. That is what matters. Believing you can win and giving a good game to all players. That is what is real  ^_^ Thanks, but for me the fairytale is over. After you get knocked down time and time again; you come to a point where you just don't want to get up. I hit that point many years ago but I was just too stupid to realize this. Don't get me wrong I am happy for those that find true love and would not wish anything but pure joy for them. I am tired and no longer can put in an effort towards a relationship. I truly have nothing to offer a potential partner and I don't want to ruin anyone's life. I have to tell you, I really find your posts enlightening and refreshing, simply because of the way you stay true to yourself and refuse to kowtow to the standard boilerplate relationship mythology. And a lot of times, you're expressing things I've felt but have never really verbalized. I guess the only thing I would say is different for me, from what you wrote above, is this -- I have ALL KINDS of things to offer a potential partner -- but nobody wants it, because it doesn't include my willful acceptance of a frontal lobotomy with accompanying traditional blah lifestyle. And I'm OK with that, because I'm worth more, as myself, than 100 debrained me's would be.... Lex you always make me laugh and I think you are wonderful..I dont understand half of what you say but its always funny. and navygirl, I think you are fantastic, I love your posts. And I have been where you are, where I was fed up with even trying . gosh it seemed like I ended up with more and more drongo's I think they where crawling out from under the beds. so I am not saying anything, Just enjoy your life and everything you do. And never ever settle for anything less than what you are looking for. Thanks Josie. For me its not just about giving up but its also a safety factor. Since my ex hit me in the neck after my car accident; one more hit in the neck could cripple or even kill me. I am just not willing to take the chance of meeting another abuser that could end my life. I hope you find the happiness you deserve.
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well at the risk of pissing peopleoids off....cuz I really don't care if your down on love, your down on yourself gotta love ourselves first On this I agree that you have to love yourself first. I am not down on love with friends and family just with relationships. No offense Navygirl, I have read many a post about your relationship troubles. I am sure you know who you are, and in knowing that, you know what you've got. What you had at the beggining of any relationship. That is what you still have. You have to pick up the old baseball bat, and get ready to hit some slogs. This is a new game with new players, but you still have your good old heart. That is what matters. Believing you can win and giving a good game to all players. That is what is real ^_^ Thanks, but for me the fairytale is over. After you get knocked down time and time again; you come to a point where you just don't want to get up. I hit that point many years ago but I was just too stupid to realize this. Don't get me wrong I am happy for those that find true love and would not wish anything but pure joy for them. I am tired and no longer can put in an effort towards a relationship. I truly have nothing to offer a potential partner and I don't want to ruin anyone's life. I have to tell you, I really find your posts enlightening and refreshing, simply because of the way you stay true to yourself and refuse to kowtow to the standard boilerplate relationship mythology. And a lot of times, you're expressing things I've felt but have never really verbalized. I guess the only thing I would say is different for me, from what you wrote above, is this -- I have ALL KINDS of things to offer a potential partner -- but nobody wants it, because it doesn't include my willful acceptance of a frontal lobotomy with accompanying traditional blah lifestyle. And I'm OK with that, because I'm worth more, as myself, than 100 debrained me's would be.... Lex you always make me laugh and I think you are wonderful..I dont understand half of what you say but its always funny. and navygirl, I think you are fantastic, I love your posts. And I have been where you are, where I was fed up with even trying . gosh it seemed like I ended up with more and more drongo's I think they where crawling out from under the beds. so I am not saying anything, Just enjoy your life and everything you do. And never ever settle for anything less than what you are looking for. Thanks Josie. For me its not just about giving up but its also a safety factor. Since my ex hit me in the neck after my car accident; one more hit in the neck could cripple or even kill me. I am just not willing to take the chance of meeting another abuser that could end my life. I hope you find the happiness you deserve. Gosh I wish I could say there are heaps of men who arnt like that, but I havent found many so cant. And really i dont even know how to tell that they wont change.. Hmmm how about if we find you one who is happy to stay locked in a cage and you canjust bring him out when you want him. a bit like a parrot. You could feed him crackers.
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How could a thread on the subject of love get so many bitter responses? I have loved hundreds of times and still love every one of them. Perhaps some of us have had some awful experiences. We all can't look at love the way you do so cut us some slack. |
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well at the risk of pissing peopleoids off....cuz I really don't care if your down on love, your down on yourself gotta love ourselves first On this I agree that you have to love yourself first. I am not down on love with friends and family just with relationships. No offense Navygirl, I have read many a post about your relationship troubles. I am sure you know who you are, and in knowing that, you know what you've got. What you had at the beggining of any relationship. That is what you still have. You have to pick up the old baseball bat, and get ready to hit some slogs. This is a new game with new players, but you still have your good old heart. That is what matters. Believing you can win and giving a good game to all players. That is what is real ^_^ Thanks, but for me the fairytale is over. After you get knocked down time and time again; you come to a point where you just don't want to get up. I hit that point many years ago but I was just too stupid to realize this. Don't get me wrong I am happy for those that find true love and would not wish anything but pure joy for them. I am tired and no longer can put in an effort towards a relationship. I truly have nothing to offer a potential partner and I don't want to ruin anyone's life. I have to tell you, I really find your posts enlightening and refreshing, simply because of the way you stay true to yourself and refuse to kowtow to the standard boilerplate relationship mythology. And a lot of times, you're expressing things I've felt but have never really verbalized. I guess the only thing I would say is different for me, from what you wrote above, is this -- I have ALL KINDS of things to offer a potential partner -- but nobody wants it, because it doesn't include my willful acceptance of a frontal lobotomy with accompanying traditional blah lifestyle. And I'm OK with that, because I'm worth more, as myself, than 100 debrained me's would be.... Lex you always make me laugh and I think you are wonderful..I dont understand half of what you say but its always funny. and navygirl, I think you are fantastic, I love your posts. And I have been where you are, where I was fed up with even trying . gosh it seemed like I ended up with more and more drongo's I think they where crawling out from under the beds. so I am not saying anything, Just enjoy your life and everything you do. And never ever settle for anything less than what you are looking for. Thanks Josie. For me its not just about giving up but its also a safety factor. Since my ex hit me in the neck after my car accident; one more hit in the neck could cripple or even kill me. I am just not willing to take the chance of meeting another abuser that could end my life. I hope you find the happiness you deserve. Gosh I wish I could say there are heaps of men who arnt like that, but I havent found many so cant. And really i dont even know how to tell that they wont change.. Hmmm how about if we find you one who is happy to stay locked in a cage and you canjust bring him out when you want him. a bit like a parrot. You could feed him crackers. Well I wouldn't be that cruel. I would give him cheese and water too. 
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well at the risk of pissing peopleoids off....cuz I really don't care if your down on love, your down on yourself gotta love ourselves first On this I agree that you have to love yourself first. I am not down on love with friends and family just with relationships. No offense Navygirl, I have read many a post about your relationship troubles. I am sure you know who you are, and in knowing that, you know what you've got. What you had at the beggining of any relationship. That is what you still have. You have to pick up the old baseball bat, and get ready to hit some slogs. This is a new game with new players, but you still have your good old heart. That is what matters. Believing you can win and giving a good game to all players. That is what is real ^_^ Thanks, but for me the fairytale is over. After you get knocked down time and time again; you come to a point where you just don't want to get up. I hit that point many years ago but I was just too stupid to realize this. Don't get me wrong I am happy for those that find true love and would not wish anything but pure joy for them. I am tired and no longer can put in an effort towards a relationship. I truly have nothing to offer a potential partner and I don't want to ruin anyone's life. I have to tell you, I really find your posts enlightening and refreshing, simply because of the way you stay true to yourself and refuse to kowtow to the standard boilerplate relationship mythology. And a lot of times, you're expressing things I've felt but have never really verbalized. I guess the only thing I would say is different for me, from what you wrote above, is this -- I have ALL KINDS of things to offer a potential partner -- but nobody wants it, because it doesn't include my willful acceptance of a frontal lobotomy with accompanying traditional blah lifestyle. And I'm OK with that, because I'm worth more, as myself, than 100 debrained me's would be.... Lex you always make me laugh and I think you are wonderful..I dont understand half of what you say but its always funny. and navygirl, I think you are fantastic, I love your posts. And I have been where you are, where I was fed up with even trying . gosh it seemed like I ended up with more and more drongo's I think they where crawling out from under the beds. so I am not saying anything, Just enjoy your life and everything you do. And never ever settle for anything less than what you are looking for. Thanks Josie. For me its not just about giving up but its also a safety factor. Since my ex hit me in the neck after my car accident; one more hit in the neck could cripple or even kill me. I am just not willing to take the chance of meeting another abuser that could end my life. I hope you find the happiness you deserve. Gosh I wish I could say there are heaps of men who arnt like that, but I havent found many so cant. And really i dont even know how to tell that they wont change.. Hmmm how about if we find you one who is happy to stay locked in a cage and you canjust bring him out when you want him. a bit like a parrot. You could feed him crackers. Well I wouldn't be that cruel. I would give him cheese and water too.  I wonder how many men would respond if you put that on your profile
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well at the risk of pissing peopleoids off....cuz I really don't care if your down on love, your down on yourself gotta love ourselves first On this I agree that you have to love yourself first. I am not down on love with friends and family just with relationships. No offense Navygirl, I have read many a post about your relationship troubles. I am sure you know who you are, and in knowing that, you know what you've got. What you had at the beggining of any relationship. That is what you still have. You have to pick up the old baseball bat, and get ready to hit some slogs. This is a new game with new players, but you still have your good old heart. That is what matters. Believing you can win and giving a good game to all players. That is what is real ^_^ Thanks, but for me the fairytale is over. After you get knocked down time and time again; you come to a point where you just don't want to get up. I hit that point many years ago but I was just too stupid to realize this. Don't get me wrong I am happy for those that find true love and would not wish anything but pure joy for them. I am tired and no longer can put in an effort towards a relationship. I truly have nothing to offer a potential partner and I don't want to ruin anyone's life. I have to tell you, I really find your posts enlightening and refreshing, simply because of the way you stay true to yourself and refuse to kowtow to the standard boilerplate relationship mythology. And a lot of times, you're expressing things I've felt but have never really verbalized. I guess the only thing I would say is different for me, from what you wrote above, is this -- I have ALL KINDS of things to offer a potential partner -- but nobody wants it, because it doesn't include my willful acceptance of a frontal lobotomy with accompanying traditional blah lifestyle. And I'm OK with that, because I'm worth more, as myself, than 100 debrained me's would be.... Lex you always make me laugh and I think you are wonderful..I dont understand half of what you say but its always funny. and navygirl, I think you are fantastic, I love your posts. And I have been where you are, where I was fed up with even trying . gosh it seemed like I ended up with more and more drongo's I think they where crawling out from under the beds. so I am not saying anything, Just enjoy your life and everything you do. And never ever settle for anything less than what you are looking for. Thanks Josie. For me its not just about giving up but its also a safety factor. Since my ex hit me in the neck after my car accident; one more hit in the neck could cripple or even kill me. I am just not willing to take the chance of meeting another abuser that could end my life. I hope you find the happiness you deserve. Gosh I wish I could say there are heaps of men who arnt like that, but I havent found many so cant. And really i dont even know how to tell that they wont change.. Hmmm how about if we find you one who is happy to stay locked in a cage and you canjust bring him out when you want him. a bit like a parrot. You could feed him crackers. Well I wouldn't be that cruel. I would give him cheese and water too. I wonder how many men would respond if you put that on your profile Hey, I would only serve the finest cheddar.
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