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this probably belongs in the relationship/dating forum but i'm not looking for pity or advice, just wondering if a significant person in your life has given up on you? where they said "I can't do this anymore," or "I can't be your friend anymore," for whatever reason. My girlfriend of two years recently told me these words and she blamed everything on me...for moving away even though I had no other choice. Frikin screwy man. frikin screwy.
what about you? ever feel abandoned? |
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one too many times before just for no reason
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Yes and it does suck or you get that old saying, "Its not you, it me" malarky. lol, buy ya.
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Actually...my wife of four years just got done telling me that exact same ****ing thing not even two weeks ago...now there is nothing I can do or say to change that so **** it!
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Ummm NO, and I have never said it to anyone else.
My men have just played up or left.. Hmmm but always told me they still loved me, Hmmmm so still have no idea how that works.. Just keep smilin, you just havent found the right person.. 
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this probably belongs in the relationship/dating forum but i'm not looking for pity or advice, just wondering if a significant person in your life has given up on you? where they said "I can't do this anymore," or "I can't be your friend anymore," for whatever reason. My girlfriend of two years recently told me these words and she blamed everything on me...for moving away even though I had no other choice. Frikin screwy man. frikin screwy. what about you? ever feel abandoned? Dozens of them have given up on me, always at the point where they finally accept that I will not allow them to change me into "somebody's dad." Abandoned? Yeah, I suppose I've felt that way most of my life, but it's OK. In the end, I've learned it's better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you WISH you were alone. |
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this probably belongs in the relationship/dating forum but i'm not looking for pity or advice, just wondering if a significant person in your life has given up on you? where they said "I can't do this anymore," or "I can't be your friend anymore," for whatever reason. My girlfriend of two years recently told me these words and she blamed everything on me...for moving away even though I had no other choice. Frikin screwy man. frikin screwy. what about you? ever feel abandoned? Dozens of them have given up on me, always at the point where they finally accept that I will not allow them to change me into "somebody's dad." Abandoned? Yeah, I suppose I've felt that way most of my life, but it's OK. In the end, I've learned it's better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you WISH you were alone. Can't say anyone has ever given up on me, but I had to cut off all contact with my exs so I could heal because they were constantly trying to manipulate my emotions! Abandoned...oh yes I know that feeling all too well...add being left in a lion's den of vile and toxic people on top of that! It really sucked at the time, but I am stronger for all my trials! Just don't give up on yourself
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this probably belongs in the relationship/dating forum but i'm not looking for pity or advice, just wondering if a significant person in your life has given up on you? where they said "I can't do this anymore," or "I can't be your friend anymore," for whatever reason. My girlfriend of two years recently told me these words and she blamed everything on me...for moving away even though I had no other choice. Frikin screwy man. frikin screwy. what about you? ever feel abandoned? Dozens of them have given up on me, always at the point where they finally accept that I will not allow them to change me into "somebody's dad." Abandoned? Yeah, I suppose I've felt that way most of my life, but it's OK. In the end, I've learned it's better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you WISH you were alone. Can't say anyone has ever given up on me, but I had to cut off all contact with my exs so I could heal because they were constantly trying to manipulate my emotions! Abandoned...oh yes I know that feeling all too well...add being left in a lion's den of vile and toxic people on top of that! It really sucked at the time, but I am stronger for all my trials! Just don't give up on yourself
Exactly. Whatever else happens, you have to maintain faith in yourself. I've come to understand that I will never meet anyone who would value me over booze and babies, and I'm OK with that. As long as I have my writing, I can manage. |
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Ummm NO, and I have never said it to anyone else. My men have just played up or left.. Hmmm but always told me they still loved me, Hmmmm so still have no idea how that works.. Just keep smilin, you just havent found the right person..
^ this so ya IDK - never had that convo |
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this probably belongs in the relationship/dating forum but i'm not looking for pity or advice, just wondering if a significant person in your life has given up on you? where they said "I can't do this anymore," or "I can't be your friend anymore," for whatever reason. My girlfriend of two years recently told me these words and she blamed everything on me...for moving away even though I had no other choice. Frikin screwy man. frikin screwy. what about you? ever feel abandoned? Dozens of them have given up on me, always at the point where they finally accept that I will not allow them to change me into "somebody's dad." Abandoned? Yeah, I suppose I've felt that way most of my life, but it's OK. In the end, I've learned it's better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you WISH you were alone. Can't say anyone has ever given up on me, but I had to cut off all contact with my exs so I could heal because they were constantly trying to manipulate my emotions! Abandoned...oh yes I know that feeling all too well...add being left in a lion's den of vile and toxic people on top of that! It really sucked at the time, but I am stronger for all my trials! Just don't give up on yourself
Exactly. Whatever else happens, you have to maintain faith in yourself. I've come to understand that I will never meet anyone who would value me over booze and babies, and I'm OK with that. As long as I have my writing, I can manage. I know how you feel Lex! I always came after the booze, drugs, & crazy Mamma...luckily I was not able to have babies and didn't have to drag any children through the crap with me. I have critters & science to fill that void. I don't understand the mentality people have with relationships so I will avoid them for now & just be happy! |
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People never give up on me. They do loose interest in me, and can stop talking to me for years. But they never forget me.
I on the other hand do give up on them. If they think they can just stop talking to me for years and never visit. I just think screw them! lol |
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I cant say I have ever thought about it like that. Life keeps going on weather I think about little things like that or not.
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in response to the op
well l think that in this life we have a reason to be, may be this is a spiritual path in human cloths, we must to do any kind of experience this mean hurt my friend. training your self you will be ready to stand the evil life-face................but you can not avoid it anyway chin up man and never give up the right woman is waiting for you |
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