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Topic: What decision
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Mon 05/16/11 10:45 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Mon 05/16/11 10:47 PM

trust me ... I have said my peace... but quote " I just want to do me right now" meaning she wants to find herself and make all the angry thoughts of a relationship disappear before she gets into another relationship..... I dunno... i just don't want to make the wrong decision... But, I also don't want to realize I made the wrong decision by waiting for her to come around years from now....



Okay, I say its time to move on. She just isn't into YOU. Trust me on this.

Go.

Find someone who appreciates YOU.

Let her "do herself" right now.

Go! Say good bye. Hit the road Jack.

If she keeps a string on you, then she is just using you until her knight in shining armor comes along.

Go. Break that string.






74Drew's photo
Mon 05/16/11 11:00 PM


I just move on, and if they ask why no contact in awhile...you let them know you are giving them their space, after all you're not committed....right..


real hard to do that... we have become best friends and she knows I love her. I also know she has issues and am afraid if i move on .... that is saying she was not worth the wait....



you're in the friend zone. game over. move on. while you wait for one possibility you miss out on so many other ones. the old cliche "one in the hand is worth two in the bush" fits here. she's one of the ones in the bush. go get one in your hands.


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humuh's photo
Mon 05/16/11 11:25 PM


trust me ... I have said my peace... but quote " I just want to do me right now" meaning she wants to find herself and make all the angry thoughts of a relationship disappear before she gets into another relationship..... I dunno... i just don't want to make the wrong decision... But, I also don't want to realize I made the wrong decision by waiting for her to come around years from now....



Okay, I say its time to move on. She just isn't into YOU. Trust me on this.

Go.

Find someone who appreciates YOU.

Let her "do herself" right now.

Go! Say good bye. Hit the road Jack.

If she keeps a string on you, then she is just using you until her knight in shining armor comes along.

Go. Break that string.






I agree,there is no point waiting for an owl's eggs to hatch when a hen is laying. its time to move on jack don't get used someone is out there waiting for you

josie68's photo
Tue 05/17/11 12:00 AM
Sadly I have to agree with everyone else. as hard as it is to let go, sometimes its easier in the long run..

If I was interested in someone it is straight away, otherwise I really like them but they are friends,

Now this is just me, but when you met someone and have talked for a little while you know whether they are for you or not..

Just don't waist to much time.

navygirl's photo
Tue 05/17/11 08:15 AM
Edited by navygirl on Tue 05/17/11 08:18 AM

So do you tell the person who is not wanting to commit your moving on? Or do you just do it and see what the reaction will be?


Tell her you are moving on. Life is too short to what could have been?

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Tue 05/17/11 08:49 AM


I just move on, and if they ask why no contact in awhile...you let them know you are giving them their space, after all you're not committed....right..


real hard to do that... we have become best friends and she knows I love her. I also know she has issues and am afraid if i move on .... that is saying she was not worth the wait....



if you are best friends and she doesn't feel like she can open her heart to you...she isn't the one...move on!

Simonedemidova's photo
Tue 05/17/11 12:32 PM
If she is saying, "I just wanna do me right now" then def time to move along and save yourself some future shame. You will find someone else. There are a lot of peeps out there. Dont wait around for someone who is not ready...and sounds like she is focused on herself right now, not a relationship.

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