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Topic: Yummy Dummy or Smarty Farty?
fireflysgirl Joined Mon 10/18/10 Posts: 2957	Thu 05/12/11 03:56 PM
There are ways to get a read on someone's intellectual level without the need for blatant quizzery. Having said that, I have to admit I can see why someone might resort to such a tactic. Having seen little other than Yummy Dummies over the course of my life, I can sympathize with someone who feels the ongoing frustration of being unable to find a partner whose conversational gamut goes beyond shoes, babies, and American Idol. So, while I don't condone the methodology, I fully acknowledge the underlying concern. I get excited when they write in sentences!

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Thu 05/12/11 03:58 PM
What about the gassy idiots?

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 05/12/11 04:04 PM
There are ways to get a read on someone's intellectual level without the need for blatant quizzery. Having said that, I have to admit I can see why someone might resort to such a tactic. Having seen little other than Yummy Dummies over the course of my life, I can sympathize with someone who feels the ongoing frustration of being unable to find a partner whose conversational gamut goes beyond shoes, babies, and American Idol. So, while I don't condone the methodology, I fully acknowledge the underlying concern. I get excited when they write in sentences! Well, sure, you really don't see too much of that anymore!

fireflysgirl Joined Mon 10/18/10 Posts: 2957	Thu 05/12/11 04:12 PM Edited by fireflysgirl on Thu 05/12/11 04:33 PM
There are ways to get a read on someone's intellectual level without the need for blatant quizzery. Having said that, I have to admit I can see why someone might resort to such a tactic. Having seen little other than Yummy Dummies over the course of my life, I can sympathize with someone who feels the ongoing frustration of being unable to find a partner whose conversational gamut goes beyond shoes, babies, and American Idol. So, while I don't condone the methodology, I fully acknowledge the underlying concern. I get excited when they write in sentences! Well, sure, you really don't see too much of that anymore! It's extremely rare around here! edited to move comment below quotations...told you I get excited

fobroth Joined Wed 08/04/10 Posts: 156	Thu 05/12/11 05:54 PM
Um, Yummy, smart and if she must fart, I'll revel in her amusement at least as equally. I just don't want to smell it. I know I'm not the only male that desires a yummy chick with more than half a brain. I'm willing to put money on this; be your witty, intelligent self and the guy you're looking for will happen right into your life when you least expect it. Maybe not tomorrow, but the wait will be worth the struggle through the dipwits that you deem 'maybes'. Smart IS sexy, too!

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Thu 05/12/11 06:19 PM Edited by Cheer_up on Thu 05/12/11 06:24 PM
I was on a date with a guy who "attempted" to give me an I.Q Test. Questions that I didn't know the answer to...moreover, his questions had zero relvance to what we were talking about.... Hey Guys, is it best to be a Yummy Dummy or a Smarty Farty? Why would a guy "quiz" a woman on a date? It seems when I come across (initially) as cute and dumb...I don't get quizzed. If I sound intellectually inquisitive.... it's a pissing match....at that point, I don't feel very cute.....e.g. last first date. Thoughts...anyone? Well first a guy should not put you on the spot but i bet he was just trying to let you know that he is not dumb that it would impress you but i think it back fired lolllllll and myself i know i am smart at a lot of different things but i sure not going to make a lady look stupid i would do just the opposite :) and on the first date haha maybe he had nothing else to think about at the moment or maybe he thought you were like them ladys who watch the quiz shows on tv and like to answer quiz questions like jeopardy as for my self i rather go have a cold drink on a out door patio and tell her how good she looks:) for start and so on oh what 1 am i lolllll i just me and like to make sure a lady is happy:) lol not uncomfortable