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I want to start as friends and see how it goes

but most males want more control than that and are looking mostly for sex and will not cooperate with any honor for a female friendship - I am looking for the one who will

(sorry but, on this particular site, that is my experience)

You are too funny.

I was interested in dating but decided to focus on friendship instead. Not met anyone through dating so I'm moving more towards getting to know people.

I am looking for friendship. I have been learning what it means to be a friend and having a friend. I have found that you can have many friends and that way you don't have to make any commitments. I reserve the right to be myself and have found before that once you pass the point of friendship that can become threatened.

Hi,If you feel we can be friend please let me know.

Hello to all..........

I am in big problem and enable to take decision.I have a good female friend and we both like to hang out together but the problem was that my girlfriend don't like this she feel jealous with her.I don't have any bad intention towards my friend more over she have a boyfriend too.My girl friend want that i have to leave her but i can't do this because we like company of each other.I love my girl friend and want to marry her.But she says either me or your friend.I am so helpless to take decision.What should i have to do? Am so confused please sort out mine problem.I don't want to loose both of them.
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Hey,if you love your girl try understanding she is possessive about you,understand that and i think its better for you and your friend that you take it easy on your friendship for now.May be eventually your girl friend will be ok with your friendships to girls !!

There is another thread dedicated to this very topic. As I said there, you need to include your girlfriend in activities with your female friend so they can get to know each other. They may not end up liking each other, but at least it gives your girlfriend a chance to size up the situation and ease her fears.

Therefore, do a double date sometime: you and your girlfriend, plus your friend and her boyfriend. Truth is, your girlfriend is probably only fearing what she doesn't know because she feels excluded. Exclusion makes her worry that you are hiding something. The less she knows about your friend, the more room there is for imagination to run wild. The more she knows and learns first-hand, the more secure she will feel. If she is the love of your life, then you owe her the chance to meet and know your friends, no matter what sex they are.

How can any non predator human not want to establish a Friendship first?

I must be old fashioned.

Establishing, developing and nurturing a friendship must be first, foremost and always the foundation. Anything more significant must develop mutually from that.