Topic: How to spot "crazy"
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Tue 04/19/11 04:02 PM

What defines crazy to one person may not to another. Just have to find your match. huh


That which is like unto itself is drawn. (The law of attraction.)


fireflysgirl's photo
Tue 04/19/11 04:06 PM


What defines crazy to one person may not to another. Just have to find your match. huh


That which is like unto itself is drawn. (The law of attraction.)




thus far I have seen "crazier than me" & "crazier than anyone I have ever met & likely needs a straight jacket"

I would love to find a man just as messed up as me, but not more happy

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 04/19/11 04:43 PM
There's crazy then there is dangerous crazy....
my solar plexus lets me know when I need to exit a situation
that includes events, circumstances and toxic people.


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Tue 04/19/11 06:18 PM

There's crazy then there is dangerous crazy....
my solar plexus lets me know when I need to exit a situation
that includes events, circumstances and toxic people.





Yes it is real important to pay close attention to your feelings and emotions (solar plexus) when they tell you to exit a situation. Don't ignore those feelings.

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Tue 04/19/11 06:19 PM


When you first meet someone, what might be a good sign that they are nuts and that you should not continue dating?




If we post it on here then it won't be a good way to tell anymore. They will know.

josie68's photo
Tue 04/19/11 06:22 PM
Bummer I never spot crazy... I just hink they are all lovely and dont see a thing until its way to late...
Yep I seem to attract crazy..

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Tue 04/19/11 06:26 PM



When you first meet someone, what might be a good sign that they are nuts and that you should not continue dating?




If we post it on here then it won't be a good way to tell anymore. They will know.


laugh laugh laugh

Nope there are many ways to spot crazy. :tongue:


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Tue 04/19/11 06:32 PM




When you first meet someone, what might be a good sign that they are nuts and that you should not continue dating?




If we post it on here then it won't be a good way to tell anymore. They will know.


laugh laugh laugh

Nope there are many ways to spot crazy. :tongue:




:wink: laugh

"The men in their nice white coats are coming to take me away!"

I find that it usually happens pretty soon in the conversation. Paranoia is usually the first to show up.

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Tue 04/19/11 07:35 PM





When you first meet someone, what might be a good sign that they are nuts and that you should not continue dating?




If we post it on here then it won't be a good way to tell anymore. They will know.


laugh laugh laugh

Nope there are many ways to spot crazy. :tongue:




I let my gut make a judgement call, even looking at pics if browsing profiles! You got a 1 in 3 chance of being right anyhow.

:wink: laugh

"The men in their nice white coats are coming to take me away!"

I find that it usually happens pretty soon in the conversation. Paranoia is usually the first to show up.

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Wed 04/20/11 01:34 AM



When the first thing they ask you is "Do you live alone?"

When they keep looking over their shoulder to see if they have been spotted.

When they won't reveal any information about themselves at all.

When they call you constantly and asking you where you were the last time they called.

When they drive by your house a lot.





i get guys from other dating sites that ask if i live alone.. even if i didnt. they shouldnt be asking for thats really non of there business
we (woman) should ask the guys that sae freaken question

(hey bud do you live alone)


Just don't be surprised when you get a "yeah, but not for long. ;)" rofl

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Wed 04/20/11 02:43 AM



When the first thing they ask you is "Do you live alone?"

When they keep looking over their shoulder to see if they have been spotted.

When they won't reveal any information about themselves at all.

When they call you constantly and asking you where you were the last time they called.

When they drive by your house a lot.





i get guys from other dating sites that ask if i live alone.. even if i didnt. they shouldnt be asking for thats really non of there business
we (woman) should ask the guys that sae freaken question

(hey bud do you live alone)


I've never thought about it. Does living alone really mean anything?

The only reason I can see being concerned if someone is living with their current or previous boyfriend/spouse. Otherwise I don't see how it would matter.

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Wed 04/20/11 07:28 AM
In the asking of the question "Do you live alone?" sometimes it could be an innocent question. But it depends upon the intent with which the question is asked. Sometimes you get a creepy feeling if that is one of the first questions that they ask.

What are their intentions and why would it require that you live alone? He could just want privacy so he could seduce you, or he could have worse plans, or he could be looking for a place to move into.


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Wed 04/20/11 08:17 AM




When the first thing they ask you is "Do you live alone?"

When they keep looking over their shoulder to see if they have been spotted.

When they won't reveal any information about themselves at all.

When they call you constantly and asking you where you were the last time they called.

When they drive by your house a lot.





i get guys from other dating sites that ask if i live alone.. even if i didnt. they shouldnt be asking for thats really non of there business
we (woman) should ask the guys that sae freaken question

(hey bud do you live alone)


I've never thought about it. Does living alone really mean anything?

The only reason I can see being concerned if someone is living with their current or previous boyfriend/spouse. Otherwise I don't see how it would matter.


Creepers will ask because it's easier to stalk someone that lives alone rather than with roommates or family members (or a couple pit bulls :-)).

mylifetoday's photo
Wed 04/20/11 08:43 AM





When the first thing they ask you is "Do you live alone?"

When they keep looking over their shoulder to see if they have been spotted.

When they won't reveal any information about themselves at all.

When they call you constantly and asking you where you were the last time they called.

When they drive by your house a lot.





i get guys from other dating sites that ask if i live alone.. even if i didnt. they shouldnt be asking for thats really non of there business
we (woman) should ask the guys that sae freaken question

(hey bud do you live alone)


I've never thought about it. Does living alone really mean anything?

The only reason I can see being concerned if someone is living with their current or previous boyfriend/spouse. Otherwise I don't see how it would matter.


Creepers will ask because it's easier to stalk someone that lives alone rather than with roommates or family members (or a couple pit bulls :-)).


Ah, I haven't had that problem. :tongue:

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Wed 04/20/11 10:06 AM
Actually, one of my ice breakers when meeting a new girl is "So, can you chew through duct tape?"

fireflysgirl's photo
Wed 04/20/11 10:24 AM

Actually, one of my ice breakers when meeting a new girl is "So, can you chew through duct tape?"


well if I can't...my pit bull sure can, right along with your leg so you can't catch us making a get-a-way laugh

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Wed 04/20/11 11:39 AM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Wed 04/20/11 11:40 AM

Actually, one of my ice breakers when meeting a new girl is "So, can you chew through duct tape?"



rofl rofl rofl

I would answer him: "Are you wearing a bullet proof vest?"

If he is, I would aim for the forehead.



rofl rofl




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Wed 04/20/11 11:42 AM
if he has an "X" tatted on his forehead

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Wed 04/20/11 11:43 AM

if he has an "X" tatted on his forehead



What does an X on the forehead signify?

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 04/20/11 11:44 AM
total insanity:heart: