just his style, he could be an *** in real life,,,lol


but I like your style too and Im much more confident that you arent an ***,,,,lol

I couldn't watch the video, coz I don't click on links (like the second respondent to this thread.)

Please expound in your own 1000 words or less, what you find masculine in a man, and caring in a creature.

As it stands now, any comment on this topic by me would be a stab in the dark, tall and handsome.

oh my goodness wux, another writing assignment?( I got an A on the last one )

ok, its gonna be much less than 1000 words but a masculine man is
a man with an intriguing and impressive BALANCE

having confidence but not without humility
having strength, but not without vulnerability
having courage, but not without hesitation
having intelligence, but not without curiousity

a masculine man can be head of household while still being a partner in his relationship,


a masculine man can stand firm in his values without need to belittle others for theirs

a masculine man knows when its time to laugh and play , or when its time to be serious, and even when its time to cry( and is confident enough in his masculinity to allow himself those times)

a masculine man can have the last word, but still place priority on the feelings and needs of his loved ones

a caring man is a part of a masculine man, the part after the 'but',,(not to be mistaken for the one chasing after BEHINDs,,,lol)

Thank you. I was fishing for that.

anytime

not surprising you don't understand what a real man is... if the shoe fits, huh...

wow, where did that come from,,,,??

I think htat was directed toward me.Mighty Mo seems to have some ideas about my masculinity.

why would you think that?

Sota like that nice party you are at when somebody finds that turd in the punchbowl.

not following ya...

I think they may be all taken, doesn't stop famous musicians though does it :D

I'm sure you'd have to get used to the Manchester accent, even other brits find it hard to understand, believe me I know.

No!!! She directed it at me!!! It was IIII who asked the actual question, no?

Don't take my glory when it is not due. Go, find your own glory.

:-)

Jesus!! The manchester... little wonder you decribed me so well. Down to the big boobs even.

But he quoted ME! Mine, mine, it;'s all mine!

James the Lesser! this is a tall order.

No wonder women like tall men. They can come up to snuff.

I suggest a basketball team, standing on each others' shoulders.

I am of course not being fair, as always. I asked, you replied; and you did not say that you insist on this, you just presented the ideal.

Another A+ for you, Jayne Austen.

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Edit: To be fair, this was a hard list to write, and I think you did an excellent job at it. I mean, any list is easy to write when you know what to put in it. The research (mental and emotional introspection) that came through you've done well was the part that was impressive.

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Edit: In all fairness, I am not that man.

I was married to a welshman and lived one year in wales, I can adapt to accents,,,lol

I love the welsh accent, I remember me and my friend were looking at univerities there and heard loads of girls with the accent, mmmmmmmm it's lovely

you are hopefully exactly the man you are meant to be, with your own merits,,,


my response was just a list of attributes I consider to be masculine, not necessarily a mandatory checklist,,lol

but the point is that of someone being well balanced in their identity and presentation

i know that is what you think, and no faults there, but here is my version:

having confidence
having strength
having courage
having intelligence-not a big factor...
a masculine man can have the last word...

all that sissy stuff can be left out...

wiki says:
Masculinity is, according The American Heritage Dictionary, someone or something that possesses characteristics normally associated with males. The term can be used to describe any human, animal or object that has the quality of being masculine. When masculine is used to describe men, it can have degrees of comparison—more masculine, most masculine.

In all cultures, the basic characteristics of manliness include physical prowess, (strength, fitness, and a lack of laziness) courage, and honourable behaviour[citation needed].

The opposite can be expressed by terms such as unmanly or epicene.[1] A typical near-synonym of masculinity is virility (from Latin vir, man);[1] and the usual complement is femininity.[1]


see, no sissy stuff..