Topic: Be friends OR romantic, NOT both
freakyshiki2009's photo
Fri 03/11/11 10:49 AM
Red_Lace, Red_Lace, if you ever come down to New York, let me know. I know a great fish and chips place.

vthepoet's photo
Fri 03/11/11 10:52 AM

Shiki has been asked this question quite often. When a man and a woman are friends, and decide to make it a romantic relationship, you can never go home again. That is, once you cross that line, you can't go back. It's never the same.


I heard talking about yourself in third person is a sign of low self esteem.


=)

freakyshiki2009's photo
Fri 03/11/11 10:54 AM
Shiki heard that putting on fake tattoos is a sign of low self esteem.

no photo
Fri 03/11/11 10:55 AM

Red_Lace, Red_Lace, if you ever come down to New York, let me know. I know a great fish and chips place.



Great! I love fish and chips, tell us the place so I can take her there.

no photo
Fri 03/11/11 10:57 AM


Red_Lace, Red_Lace, if you ever come down to New York, let me know. I know a great fish and chips place.

Great! I love fish and chips, tell us the place so I can take her there.

smokin

vthepoet's photo
Fri 03/11/11 10:58 AM

Shiki heard that putting on fake tattoos is a sign of low self esteem.


these are fake? lol, ai you can tell they are fake by how detailed and unique they are and how no one but me has any of them xD

freakyshiki2009's photo
Fri 03/11/11 10:58 AM
Edited by freakyshiki2009 on Fri 03/11/11 10:59 AM
There is a great place called A-Salt-and-Battery. has fantastic fish and chips, and they even wrap it up in newspaper.

But, Red_Lace is committed to me, so you'll have to go separately. Just kidding.

Seriously, those tattoos are very fake. Come on, nobody believes they are real.

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Fri 03/11/11 10:59 AM



Red_Lace, Red_Lace, if you ever come down to New York, let me know. I know a great fish and chips place.

Great! I love fish and chips, tell us the place so I can take her there.

smokin



laugh drinker laugh drinker

vthepoet's photo
Fri 03/11/11 11:00 AM

There is a great place called A-Salt-and-Battery. has fantastic fish and chips, and they even wrap it up in newspaper.

But, Red_Lace is committed to me, so you'll have to go separately. Just kidding.

Seriously, those tattoos are very fake. Come on, nobody believes they are real.


everyone but you knows they are real cause they dont live in a dream world haha.

fail troll is failing. *yawn

freakyshiki2009's photo
Fri 03/11/11 11:00 AM
Red Lace.
2KidsMom.
Red Lace.
2KidsMom.

What is this magical pull that Shiki has over women?

OK, it's not me. It's the fish and chips.

Women go hog-wild over Fish and Chips.

And so, the moral of this story is.

Fish.
Not good in the vag area.
Great in newspaper.

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 03/11/11 12:42 PM

Shiki has been asked this question quite often. When a man and a woman are friends, and decide to make it a romantic relationship, you can never go home again. That is, once you cross that line, you can't go back. It's never the same.

So, if you have a friend of the opposite sex, and you are thinking "What if we take it to the next level," you do so at your oen risk. It's like swimming at the beach without a lifeguard.

For if the break-up happens, and the woman says, "Well, we can still be friends," run, run, run to the hills. It just doesn't work.

Just my two cents.
Shiki


Wrong.

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 03/11/11 12:43 PM
...oh and my tattoos are fake too.

freakyshiki2009's photo
Fri 03/11/11 12:46 PM
Were you the dumper or the dumpee? BIG difference.

Mayhem_J's photo
Fri 03/11/11 12:52 PM
I was actually dumped. See though...I think there is a certain way to handle things and you can still be friends. Of course...when it first ended, I wanted nothing else to do with her. I was hurt...so why would I. I would see her out and about every now and again but never really said much to her. Well after about 2 years of not having contact with her, we ran into each other. Well we started talking and ever since we have been great friends. She's married...and her husband and I are great friends as well. So I think it works....you just have to have time for the healing or recovering process. And once you have separated your self from that time in your life....you can be friends with that person.

freakyshiki2009's photo
Fri 03/11/11 12:56 PM
Very interesting point. Usually, with me, women want to throw sharp utensils at me or run me over with their cars.

OK, I will amend my statement.

MOST times, you can't have both. But, as you have shown, there are exceptions.


Simonedemidova's photo
Fri 03/11/11 01:00 PM
Im still good friends with a lot of my exes....maybe because I am mature and I also dated mature people who knew where to draw the line and when to end it. . .It didn't kill our compatible ways though as friends.

freakyshiki2009's photo
Fri 03/11/11 01:04 PM
So, when are we going for that Happy Meal?

soufiehere's photo
Fri 03/11/11 01:18 PM
I am pretty lucky.
Because they ALL want to be more than
friends, it is easy to never go there.
Just a big herd of wannabe's, forever
friends :-)

winterblue56's photo
Fri 03/11/11 05:00 PM
Yea...what Sofie said bigsmile

myshell711's photo
Sat 03/12/11 12:56 AM

Yea...what Sofie said bigsmile



What winterblue said what soufie said...:tongue: