I agree that airspace should matter and if they abide by that then it shouldn't be a problem unless there are relating concerns.

You sound like people who complain about a girlfriend/bopyfriend's habits when you knew what they were like before you got into a relationship.

As far as it being legal for the masses.......I doubt that very much. Why do you think making moonshine and other alcohol is illegal as well? The goverment doesn't want anything that you can make yourself and be addictive.

Physically addicting? No
Mentally? Yes......just like alcohol

Also, you wouldn't believe the stuff that happens when some guys get high.Some things they do is a danger to themselves and others.

At a much lower rate than alcoholics, I have no doubt, but there are many that don't just sit around and do nothing.

Well it depends if they do it legally or not. Do they have a prescription from a doctor? If a person is deeply into smoking, buying, selling etc. you are talking an illegal activity.

If police enforce these laws in your area, you could get caught with pot in your house or car.

If you have a friend who robs banks, it is your choice to be their friend, but I wouldn't want to be driving the gettaway or hiding the loot for them.

Point is, illegal is illegal.

Well it used to be illegal for Blacks and Whites to marry too.

as long as she dont bogart you got no worries...

I have a lot of friends who smoke cigarettes and weed, they all know that I do not like the smoke of it so they do not do it around me. They are considerate enough to think about other people, I would say to share your feelings of the smoking to this person. No sense in hiding it. Then you can keep your friend and not have the smoking around you. Good Luck

I think it all comes down to morals if they are smoking it for a medical reason (the studies i personally believe are weak) then they probably have no other choice for whatever reason. If they are smoking it recreationally then that should be the tipping point for you. Legal or not it is not a good choice i won't date someone who smokes cigarretes or drinks outside of a social enviroment (among other things) it is just a personal choice.

there is nothing wrong with being a buzzkill if it means standing up for what ypu believe in or what is right

I think the OP raises a good point because weed use demonstrates a value system that may not reflect his own

I would say - leave your friend to his/her habits and you to yours, but when looking for a romantic partner, find someone who reflects ur own way/values