I have been with this guy on and off for almost a yr now. He kissed me in the beginning, but not at all now, and he isn't very affectionate. We are sexually active, but a little less than what I'm used to. He says he don't want me talking to other guys, and is constantly accusing me of it. I keep telling him he's the 1 I wanna b with, but he knows how I feel about the whole kissing thing. Not much has changed, I told him I cannot b in love w/some1 who don't like to kiss. If nothing changes soon, I do feel I should c other people. I feel as though my feelings aren't important to him, so why should his be important to me? How could he even have strong feelings for me if he never kisses me? I smoke and I know he don't like it, but I do brush my teeth every night b4 bed, still no kissing. He has 2 young kids which I love like they r my own. I just hope thats not why he's leading me on....do you think I'm being led on? I'M GONG CRAZY, WHAT DO I DO? PLS HELP!!!!!!

Tell him to get with the program and get in better touch with his feelings towards you. To become more emotional and in touch with what you need.

Otherwise, leave and find someone who will.

Dump him and move on
Are u giving him a reason to question what ur doing with other men?
If not then it sounds like he's got some insecurities going on

You are young (Same age as my oldest daughter).....there are more experiences out there for you to be a part of. How old is he?
Seriously, this guy has some issues and if you have been with him for over a year and this is a insight as to what he is going to be like in another few years......I would be packing my stuff right now!
I noticed you are in another country...is he a native? If so, then that right there may be how his culture treats women. Not saying that that is a bad thing, but it may be part of the problem.
Do you have children with him? If not, you must be the permanent babysitter, so to speak.
I hope you find peace......

Thanx everybody for all the insight, Tazz42...I am in the USA, and he is american. I do sorta feel like the permanent babysitter. It's just that I have already broke up w/ him once and then he wrote me all these sad emails....and of course I was right back w/ him. I just don't get it, why he would act like he wants me all 2 himself, but not care about my needs and desires. WTF? BTW He is a cancer, and a very confusing 1.

u deservs more than that guy,leave him behind nd move on dear

A guy that doesn't like kissing is crazy!

He has power and control issues......he plays head games..(Pack your bags your going on a guilt trip...and the Pity Party Bus should be along shortly!) and likes to keep you under his thumb. DUMP HIM!
Sorry, don't know where that all came from!
(I guess it came from "he is an American")

Dump him and move on.

You are being used or being set up to be used.

This guy is not worth it.

This is the way I see it. He likes you but he doesn't love you. He just doesn't want to be alone. I would think it best if you move on.

Overly jealous people are in my experience, the actual ones that are currently cheating ,or will cheat if givin the chance..

on to the next one


plenty fish in the sea and i keep bait