chemistry.....
it's either there or it isn't.
Sometimes it's there when we
don't want it to be.
Sometimes we want it to be there
when it isn't.
There's no forcing chemistry either way.
What is this spark that is just there as
if we have no control over it at all.
Do we have any control over it?!?!?

I don't think we have any control at all...I think whatever happens, is supposed to happen

It has to do with mothers and fathers.

Nine times out of ten women are looking for their father. Or their image of what their father should have been.

Nine times out of ten men are looking for their mothers.

Then again it may all have to do with storks.

will you be my daddy?
will you be my baby daddy?

Can you make a really good sandwich like dear ole mom used to?

Um...no
I guess I suck!

love can grow and love can diminish, but it never dies

however , there are LOTS of types of love and lots of types of chemistry


I know of no chemistry that cant DEVELOP

as we get to know people, we can grow closer(increase the chemistry) or not

I think chemistry cant be 'forced' but we certainly can overlook one type of chemistry when we arent feeling another kind


for instance, the chemistry friends have is one thing and the chemistry lovers have is another,,,we can sometimes over look a great friend by focusing on romance



oh my goodness, I do think too much,,,,lol (too much time with a three year old asking questions, keeps me sharp but complex...lol)

There was no spark on my part the evening I met the man who became my husband. Humor and lively conversation but no sparks for me. That changed and continued to grow over all the years we were together. So for me, chemistry can grow, it doesn't have to be there from first sight to end up being an important part of a relationship.

Peace through Superior Chemistry!