OK, but why woman allow men to cheat ( not that they promote it, of course ) but why allowing it to happen in the first place ?
Maybe because they are very comfortable with the relationship or they are too scared to let the cheater go, or is that the ratio of woman to men is so high that its hard for a red blooded male not to be tempted ( and women do understand this very well )

Some say its because the girlfriend, wife or significant other is slacking at home, either not giving her mate the attention he needs or that the wife or girlfried are not willing to be open-minded enough to be more adventurous in the sheets. And it's not something the guy planned to happen, it just happened, like a accident... one thing lead to another.

And what about the other woman that he cheats with ?
She says, that it was because the man needed someone to listen to him and understand the pressure he is under at work and how important it is for the woman in his life to be more understanding.

Do you agree that it has been argued that some woman make it unpleasant for a man to be himself, either she is too critical, demanding, nagging, always in a bad mood, makes him feel like she is alway disappointed in everything he tries to do for her ???????????

......the bottom line is that, without a willing woman (often married) how can a man commit THE SIN ?

Well ????????????? how ????

people always say you never know what you have till its gone

my theory is you always knew what you had you just never thought it would leave

My good buddy Sam always told me there is nothing a women hates worse than to see there man relaxed or having a good time..............

you sure that wasn't al bundy?

sounds like Sam has some unresolved issues with his mother....

I stopped at "why women allow men to cheat..."

Could of been he did watch alot of tv..........

No he just married a b!tch........

that'll do it...

for Sam

A cheater is a cheater is a cheater and it doesn't matter who he is with the wife leaves marries the GF cheats on her to and so on and so on and so on......personally my men don't cheat and if they do they never have a chance to do so again......the end..........not that I want a this type of life blood sucking man in my life ever.............

What's a matter can't find a woman that will allow you to have your cheating drunkard way repsect you anyways without earning respect??

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/276184

I mean you do ask a lot of question about why women won't cook clean let you cheat get drunk .......do you beat them up too??

.....you, just hate me for saying that women should cook for a man.

Actually my family owned a fine dining restaurant and my father a chef and me a chef in my own right having created many of my own recipes.....having said that What I take exception to is a man that expects a woman to cook and clean for him while he gets drunk watches sports and cheats on her and expects respect from her at the sametime to me that is the epitomy of the lowest form of man on Earth itself......if the shoe fits wear it....and that is how you portray yourself

OP, I see your question as a way to absolve men for cheating on their wives or girlfriends. Women do not "allow" men to cheat: men are responsible for their actions, REGARDLESS of how their wives treat them.

Your post is also reverse sexism in that it says that men are "red blooded" and can't help being tempted. Hey, I AM RED-BLOODED, too, and I lust all the time. That doesn't mean that I would cheat on my boyfriend just because I saw a man who "tempted" me.



Geezus. So, he's just walking the down the street and somehow, like an accident, he runs into a woman and suddenly finds his penis stuck in her vagina. He then rationalizes and validates this "accident" by saying, "Hey, I ain't gettin' nuthin' at home, anyway."

If he doesn't like his home situation, he should leave her.



He won't listen to his wife, but he'll listen to his mistress?
Only for sex .



YOU, YOU, YOU and everyone out there (and in here, including me) are responsible for YOUR actions. Your logic is the quintessential illogical ramblings of anyone, man or woman, who is an irresponsible human being.

Your reasoning belongs in the days of the dinosaurs. Your demonstrated lack of responsibility and passing the buck is what is wrong with the US today.

Oh well. So much for a little humor up in here............

I don't think woman allow men to cheat they just do.Stop blaming us woman for every bad thing that a man does.If he has it so bad at home then just let him leave. Besides some men are just addictive to sex: .

It's the apple syndrome...."the woman made me do it"...
has been making it soooo easy to blame the woman for ions now, just makes us stronger, and we have to be..

Is that why they call chicks with a little junk in the trunk apple bottoms?.............

I agree if all the women just said your not allowed to cheat it we stop. Its not mens fault they never explicitly said that. Like men know they aren't allowed. Can't read minds.