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Topic: Friends
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Sun 01/16/11 07:16 PM
Edited by Cheer_up on Sun 01/16/11 07:18 PM

Friends are nothing more than pending enemies. Everyone flips, everyone cracks, the only person you can fully trust is yourself.
thats not true it really depends who and how long and honest they been over years of trust is a true friend my real true friends never broke or break or crack yet and some are passed away but they were true to the end ,,,,,but i understand why you feel like that as a lot in this world would you can give them heart and soul and boom they can turn on you i saw that happen to others so i see how you feel it but its really really hard to find then 100% trust friends cheers i am glad i had a few and still few left :thumbsup:

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Sun 01/16/11 07:26 PM



I'm fortunate to have a handful of friends who love me in spite
of myself...and a whole bunch of fairweather associates who
aren't really 'friends'.

Do you stay friends even though they do things you don't agree
with or do you make judgment calls and walk away...

What would a friend have to do for you to be done?!
Knowingly lie to me and make THAT STAY,,,in other words
not admit they lied,,wink.
and many other reasons that many have already mentioned above me..

But one thing is for sure with me,,I DON'T RUN AWAY FROM MY FRIENDS,
or AVOID them,,,when they need me....wink.

IF....I felt THEM to be an already REAL FRIEND to me...
short of GREAT BIG ISSUES OF BAD,,,from THEM,,,I would STILL HAVE THEM AS MY FRIEND IN LIFE AND HEART...

I have friends who have dumped me,,or me dump them as we DATED..
and still keep our friendships through THAT...
I've had a good friend shoot at a police officer and STILL be his friend through that,,as my son's an officer.
IF they give me an Ernest reasoning for their words to me or their acts against me,,,and THEIR RIGHT FOR WHAT THEY DID through that in-which they told me,,,,then WE'RE STILL COOL,,,
BUT,,,IF they were at fault and CANNOT SEE THEIR FAULT,,,then WE GOT ISSUES,,,and I can walk away....NOT solely based on my interpretations as right or wrong,,but MORE the WORLDS THOUGHTS as to if they were right, or wrong,,wink,
I'm not an opinionated person really,,I can dicuss or stress any issues,,but as to MY WAY or else,,,NOT MUCH AT ALL INTO THAT!!!!!
I live very open-minded to many things that I feel or felt at some point,,,was a bad thing,,but grew to see more and open more,,,
Jusdt my thoughts to ya on this...drinker

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Sun 01/16/11 07:28 PM



I'm fortunate to have a handful of friends who love me in spite
of myself...and a whole bunch of fairweather associates who
aren't really 'friends'.

Do you stay friends even though they do things you don't agree
with or do you make judgment calls and walk away...

What would a friend have to do for you to be done?!
if a friend had to do something for me to be done then they are not really friends are they??????cause no 1 is perfect in this world but if you know a person over years you get to know them inside and out at least i do ....now if a person does something i disagree with i can give advice as each person has their own mind and heart but if you pick really honest true friends you don't get these probs well i don't seem to and as dissagree on food or miner things we all do that lollll :)flowerforyou waving :thumbsup:

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Sun 01/16/11 08:20 PM

If they try to tell me that Santa Claus is not real, then they are dead to me.
who said Santa Claus isn't real. dont listen to them Goof, geez - some people just don't know what they're talking aboutwhoa

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Sun 01/16/11 08:50 PM

I don't trust people very well & only a few will gain my trust. I've had my # changed & very few even has my phone #. I got tired of being everyones taxi when I was in the AA program probably 90-95% of the people there doesn't have a license so they call on everyone who does. get's old being used after awhile.


Tessa, thats called giving it backflowerforyou

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