Topic: Friends
Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 01/14/11 04:11 PM




I'm fortunate to have a handful of friends who love me in spite
of myself...and a whole bunch of fairweather associates who
aren't really 'friends'.

Do you stay friends even though they do things you don't agree
with or do you make judgment calls and walk away...

What would a friend have to do for you to be done?!



Drink all my rum..........flowerforyou


...c'mon, it was cheap rum! :tongue:

Tessa02's photo
Fri 01/14/11 05:18 PM
I don't trust people very well & only a few will gain my trust. I've had my # changed & very few even has my phone #. I got tired of being everyones taxi when I was in the AA program probably 90-95% of the people there doesn't have a license so they call on everyone who does. get's old being used after awhile.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 01/14/11 05:22 PM
Regardless what my friends do within their own life that is their business. When they include me in on the drama or direct the drama towards me that is when I dissociate them as a friend...

I believe everyone deserves a second chance well unless they sleep with the one I'm with......but there is no second chances...noway

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Fri 01/14/11 05:30 PM
I only have cyber friends bigsmile

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Sat 01/15/11 11:26 AM

for one thing...sleep with my wife grumble
didn't think you had a wife?noway

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Sat 01/15/11 11:34 AM
if my friends want help to bury a dead body, drive a getaway car, smuggle drugs, drop kick a cat over the house, or whatever floats their boat, i'm there AND will commit perjury in court afterwards. my friends are that dear to me. thing is i WILL talk my friends out of doing anything that might or will result in unwanted consequences. i can be very persuasive...

TxsSun's photo
Sat 01/15/11 11:36 AM




I'm fortunate to have a handful of friends who love me in spite
of myself...and a whole bunch of fairweather associates who
aren't really 'friends'.

Do you stay friends even though they do things you don't agree
with or do you make judgment calls and walk away...

What would a friend have to do for you to be done?!



Drink all my rum..........flowerforyou


We would be not friends quickly laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 01/15/11 11:45 AM


What would a friend have to do for you to be done?!


Betray my trust. I also try to stay away from people are chronically negative.

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Sat 01/15/11 11:46 AM



I'm fortunate to have a handful of friends who love me in spite
of myself...and a whole bunch of fairweather associates who
aren't really 'friends'.

Do you stay friends even though they do things you don't agree
with or do you make judgment calls and walk away...

What would a friend have to do for you to be done?!


fairweather associates are what they are. I have many acquaintances like that also and I call them acquaintances because such people have no idea how to be a friend.

If someone was really my friend I wouldn't be concerned about what they would have to do to lose that status. I have a few friends, none of them nearby unfortunately. But once I've made a friend, it is usually for life. We can't expect perfection from our friends - and we can't give it either


but if someone causes me undue hardship that is usually the end of it. People make mistakes all the time though, all of us. So before forsaking a friend entirely, I'd say to hear them out.

Goofball73's photo
Sat 01/15/11 01:22 PM
If they try to tell me that Santa Claus is not real, then they are dead to me.

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Sat 01/15/11 02:11 PM


for one thing...sleep with my wife grumble
didn't think you had a wife?noway
oops...i've been outed embarassed

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Sat 01/15/11 02:14 PM

If they try to tell me that Santa Claus is not real, then they are dead to me.
uhhhh, goof......

krupa's photo
Sat 01/15/11 02:24 PM
You REALLY wanna know who your friends are?

Try moving a hide-a-bed......


every last one of those pu$$ie holes will run...

You will then find out, it dont matter if you donated a kidney or if you saved thier grandma with the Hieny lick maneuver.....

When they aint willing to lug dead weight the size of thier ex down 3 feet of stairs......they are weinies that you have been dumb enough to think that they are actually your friends.


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Sat 01/15/11 02:27 PM
I'll help you krup....of course it'll have to be the second tuesday of next week at exact 11:37 am.....and be very careful that I don't hurt my bad back....or knee...

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Sat 01/15/11 03:27 PM

You REALLY wanna know who your friends are?

Try moving a hide-a-bed......


every last one of those pu$$ie holes will run...

You will then find out, it dont matter if you donated a kidney or if you saved thier grandma with the Hieny lick maneuver.....

When they aint willing to lug dead weight the size of thier ex down 3 feet of stairs......they are weinies that you have been dumb enough to think that they are actually your friends.





Moving in general will show you who your friends are!! All my buddies bailed once when I moved cause it was the first day of fishing season!! They all said we have trucks, don't rent one etc etc and two days before moving day I was left high and dry!! Course these were bar friends, not real friends!!

I have a few long time friends who have stuck by me through thick and thin and I by them. Real friends understand imperfection and love us anyway.

krupa's photo
Sat 01/15/11 03:39 PM

I don't trust people very well & only a few will gain my trust. I've had my # changed & very few even has my phone #. I got tired of being everyones taxi when I was in the AA program probably 90-95% of the people there doesn't have a license so they call on everyone who does. get's old being used after awhile.


Aint you the chick who fools around with married dudes?

How the hell does the word "trust" even enter any sentance you say?

Seakolony's photo
Sat 01/15/11 03:45 PM


I don't trust people very well & only a few will gain my trust. I've had my # changed & very few even has my phone #. I got tired of being everyones taxi when I was in the AA program probably 90-95% of the people there doesn't have a license so they call on everyone who does. get's old being used after awhile.


Aint you the chick who fools around with married dudes?

How the hell does the word "trust" even enter any sentance you say?


And apparently when he left he stayed away too........or I don't think she would still be here......I could be wrong......maybe he did come back.......

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Sun 01/16/11 02:02 PM



I don't trust people very well & only a few will gain my trust. I've had my # changed & very few even has my phone #. I got tired of being everyones taxi when I was in the AA program probably 90-95% of the people there doesn't have a license so they call on everyone who does. get's old being used after awhile.


Aint you the chick who fools around with married dudes?

How the hell does the word "trust" even enter any sentance you say?


And apparently when he left he stayed away too........or I don't think she would still be here......I could be wrong......maybe he did come back.......



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Sun 01/16/11 07:00 PM




I don't trust people very well & only a few will gain my trust. I've had my # changed & very few even has my phone #. I got tired of being everyones taxi when I was in the AA program probably 90-95% of the people there doesn't have a license so they call on everyone who does. get's old being used after awhile.


Aint you the chick who fools around with married dudes?

How the hell does the word "trust" even enter any sentance you say?


And apparently when he left he stayed away too........or I don't think she would still be here......I could be wrong......maybe he did come back.......





laugh

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Sun 01/16/11 07:00 PM




I don't trust people very well & only a few will gain my trust. I've had my # changed & very few even has my phone #. I got tired of being everyones taxi when I was in the AA program probably 90-95% of the people there doesn't have a license so they call on everyone who does. get's old being used after awhile.


Aint you the chick who fools around with married dudes?

How the hell does the word "trust" even enter any sentance you say?


And apparently when he left he stayed away too........or I don't think she would still be here......I could be wrong......maybe he did come back.......





laugh