Confused join the club

been happening to me too

i think u are perfect the way u are... can have fun.. laugh be sincere ..good looks.. a good job.. nice legs lol what more can a guy ask for? nothing id say!!!your PERFECT!

buttons--your great!!

eclipsed---yes no sparks after one date
not even a little sparklet lol

Did you think about giving the guy another chance? I mean if the first date was horrible, then I understand stopping. But if you aren't going out on date number two because there wasn't any sparks you might be asking for a lot. I'm not saying that you are too picky, but unless you've got a lot of guys waiting in the wings to go out with you what is the harm in going out with the guy again? Maybe he was nervous the first time. Maybe you need to spend a little more time with him to get to know him.

The only reason I'm saying this is that I met a girl once (a long time ago in a galaxy far far away) and although there wasn't any sparks the first date, the second date was much better and we dated for almost a year, with much sparkage.

What is yer definition of a spark..??

Hey, the heart knows what the heart wants. When something clicks, you'll know it. You're better than me...I practically fall for any girl that seems even the slightest bit interested in me.

(((((Dayv)))))

Hiya J!!

How are you doing?

nurse....I have the same problem. I went on a date (two in fact) with someone I had been chatting with and talking to. Nothing. REal nice guy, had a lot in common...but no spark. Bummer!

the definition of spark--is when ya strike the lighter-- --just kidding--

hey not around me...no lighters...go , get

well--then tell me what spark is---

So what causes the sparks to happen? One woman said the guy was nice and cute but no sparks. The other lady says the guy was nice, had a lot in common but no sparks. Where are these sparks? Where do they come from? Is it a sexual attraction thing? A deeper connection? Bad electrical wiring?

its hard to explain. I know with me...its a feeling I get...and I become more playful and flirty. If there is no spark, its just talk ya know?

she means sparh as in....interest..chemistry....something that makes you want to go back for more...almost like one of those...where you meet a guy and for some reason you do nothing but smile when you think about him and when he is around but you arent to sure of what makes you smile...but you like the way you feel when it happens lol....basically being interested in about what him and wanting to know more

spark*

So in your honest opinion, do you just give up on someone if there is no spark? Move on to the next one? How long is enough time to determine if there is a spark?

I would say 2 to 3 dates depends....