in first impressions? on a date? in a relationship?

First impressions...I don't put stock in. They could be sick, having
a bad day, nervous, etc., so unless they put some reeaallyy bad vibes
forth, or are just completely obnoxious, I wait to see if there is a
pattern or things get better.

Date...I don't "date", per se, but on the occasional initial ones I
look for sense of humor, sincerity, body language, eye contact, how
they come across concerning important issues such as family, work,
friends, how they treat people, how they might react to certain
situations in life-all through observation and conversation. Touching
on these will give me an idea of if they would even be compatible and
interesting enough to continue any type of contact, even if just as
friends. Again, if they come across as really obnoxious, changing
stories or details, reveal any bad (illegal/immoral) behaviors or
habits, seem self-absorbed, or are not what they portrayed as a
person at all, you aren't going to want further association if they
haven't been honest so far.

Relationship...same as above, but of course at a deeper level.

What i look for is the Alpha male

But with a kind heart.

Tips the waitress good.

Kicks some mans azz if he disrespect me!

Has a great job and is motivated

Works out regularly

Loves to go fishing and camping


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i personally like a well kept man...if you came to a club right from work...you know... possibly dirty,smelly,work cap etc... not happening i find the simplest dates....like a movie or drag races or a concert..just some kind of activiy that gives u a common thing to talk about is a good ice breaker and fun to In a relationhip i know the, number one thing for me is respect then comes,desencey,manners,scense of humour,nonsmoker,just a fairly normal well brought up person who gives me a feeling of value...people like to feel valued. I think it simple..its probably what you want too..once you know that you feel like you have made a love conection then you can let the silly goofy stuff happen JUST MY OPINION

wow... thanks alot guys!

so im pretty much doing everything right so far lol.... just gotta work on the kinks, thanks for the info!

I look for signs of insanity and the nearest exit.

As far as the first meet I look for one of those smiles that light up their eyes and a sense of humor. As well as one that can hold a conversation..... And of course that bit of connection the kind that makes you feel comfortable around them. Laughter means a lot to me therefore a sense of humor is a must.....

I look for someone who is confident, who I get along well with and who can make me laugh. If on the first date he has absolutely no confidence and has nothing to talk about, we're not going to get along.

While I do realize people get nervous, have bad days or whatever, first impressions do mean something to me.

I guess for me it is always caring and giving, they are the only things I look for at first.