Topic: why can't men love a women for they are
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Sun 01/02/11 11:42 AM
I wouldn't go blonde for anyone.

krupa's photo
Sun 01/02/11 01:07 PM

I wouldn't go blonde for anyone.


b!tch ;)

Just playing honey! but fair is fair...I aint going blonde for you either........oh wait......CRAP!!!!!!

josie68's photo
Sun 01/02/11 03:09 PM
Hmmmm I guess if a women or man doesnt love you for who you are then you are loving the wrong one.

So i dont think any of us can complain about it as we are the nut cases who picked the drongo's.

Thats a little like crying because i dont like the lolly I picked. tongue2

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Sun 01/02/11 03:13 PM


I wouldn't go blonde for anyone.


b!tch ;)

Just playing honey! but fair is fair...I aint going blonde for you either........oh wait......CRAP!!!!!!


:tongue:

Miss_Army22's photo
Sun 01/02/11 04:15 PM
because men go for the tall and skinny anorexic fake tan fake breasts and fake hair look...but there are some guys out there who will love you for you just might take a while to find him

oldsage's photo
Sun 01/02/11 05:02 PM

because men go for the tall and skinny anorexic fake tan fake breasts and fake hair look...but there are some guys out there who will love you for you just might take a while to find him


Hey kiddo, find youself a REAL man, because you'r comments show you have the WRONG idea. Old ways are STILL the best ways.

josie68's photo
Sun 01/02/11 08:36 PM
Ummm I have found that most men are excellent and really genuine, you always get a few bone heads but it is the same with women, if we are honest open and happy to enjoy peoples company, normally you can be good friends. anything else comes after that

lostsoul70's photo
Tue 01/04/11 05:31 PM
Trust once its been broken is hard to get over and deal with in next relationship. Life does go on and we have to live and learn. I realize my issues is i want the love that only happens in movies. There is men out there like that but very rare. Im not looking anymore, I have come to a place were being single is lonely and depressing sometimes but the dating scene is so hard. Love will come to me.

Gwendolyn2009's photo
Tue 01/04/11 10:58 PM
What does asking if men can't love women for who they are have to do with trust issues? Did I miss something?

If men don't love women because they are women, wouldn't those men be gay?

Let's use some logic.

EmiLee19's photo
Fri 01/07/11 07:46 AM
people cant always wait for love to come into our lives sometimes we just have to go searching and find it ourselves

josie68's photo
Fri 01/07/11 08:02 AM

What does asking if men can't love women for who they are have to do with trust issues? Did I miss something?

If men don't love women because they are women, wouldn't those men be gay?

Let's use some logic.


I think the trust came in because so many are looking but cannot actually trust someone to just love them for who they are. All relevant in some way:smile:

Tessa02's photo
Fri 01/07/11 08:07 AM
Maybe the question should have been Why can't women love men for who they are? If you're always going around comparing each man to your father then you're not allowing them to love you because of the walls you've built around your heart. I've been there & done that. I had to learn not every man is like the man who molested me so many years ago. You have to let it go.

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Fri 01/07/11 09:03 AM
very funny post.....it really do not make any sense in raising a question like this by roughly classifying the highly civilised human beings with so much diversified tests,interests,natures,temperaments, likes & dislikes into mere two categories like men & women.

This question might have carried some importance 100 years back ,when there were many constraints on ladies implied by the society,when there wasnt equality in men & women.

Today as both sex are having equal platforms,rights,opportunities & intelligence there are equal chances of both dominating each other....I mean to say,It will be just an injustice & nothing else to blame a perticular sex.

josie68's photo
Fri 01/07/11 01:22 PM

very funny post.....it really do not make any sense in raising a question like this by roughly classifying the highly civilised human beings with so much diversified tests,interests,natures,temperaments, likes & dislikes into mere two categories like men & women.

This question might have carried some importance 100 years back ,when there were many constraints on ladies implied by the society,when there wasnt equality in men & women.

Today as both sex are having equal platforms,rights,opportunities & intelligence there are equal chances of both dominating each other....I mean to say,It will be just an injustice & nothing else to blame a perticular sex.



Yep yep yep, we can all be just as big pain in the necks as the rest. if you have a good sticky beak around you find that both are as bad as the other.

alookat101's photo
Fri 01/07/11 03:27 PM

very funny post.....it really do not make any sense in raising a question like this by roughly classifying the highly civilised human beings with so much diversified tests,interests,natures,temperaments, likes & dislikes into mere two categories like men & women.

This question might have carried some importance 100 years back ,when there were many constraints on ladies implied by the society,when there wasnt equality in men & women.

Today as both sex are having equal platforms,rights,opportunities & intelligence there are equal chances of both dominating each other....I mean to say,It will be just an injustice & nothing else to blame a perticular sex.
May I take my hat off to you my friend for a profound opinion. :thumbsup:

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 01/07/11 03:42 PM

What does asking if men can't love women for who they are have to do with trust issues? Did I miss something?

If men don't love women because they are women, wouldn't those men be gay?

Let's use some logic.


Well, there was the initial post.


Yes I have trust issues who doesn't after being cheated on


And then just under that there was this...


Yeah well that's kind of hard when I came from abused child hood I don't trust anyone because I think their going to hurt me like my dad did


So...yes, you did miss something, and funnily enough...it was the topic...

fireflysgirl's photo
Fri 01/07/11 04:01 PM

people cant always wait for love to come into our lives sometimes we just have to go searching and find it ourselves


If that person is meant to be in your life, then your worlds will collide!

OP-have you tried animal assisted therapy? Animals have a special way of teaching people how to trust people again-IMO!

RKISIT's photo
Fri 01/07/11 04:05 PM

Yes I have trust issues who doesn't after being cheated on
oooops i did it again where is the frebreze

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 01/07/11 04:08 PM
Animals are wicked for trust, get a dog.smokin

Goofball73's photo
Fri 01/07/11 06:05 PM

because men go for the tall and skinny anorexic fake tan fake breasts and fake hair look...but there are some guys out there who will love you for you just might take a while to find him


No. No. No. This is all wrong. While we do go for this, you forgot to add in that we also adore these women in lingerie, to be slutty, and can't cook at all. Oh yeah! Jackpot!!!! tongue2 :thumbsup: