Well people have different personalitys and you will find that every where this site or any site but my friend just be yourself and if a lady don't like you for you then just ignore them as long as you are a gentleman and respect them you should do ok buddy .................as for myself i never think or worry to much as i am just me and if a lady likes me for me then ok but i am fun and caring guy who looks at the inner beauty of a lady first :) wish you all the best cheers buddy hope you get that special lady 1 day and if she has a sweet sister send her my way lolllllllllll

Yeah, you get taken advantage of and stomped on a lot. The guy
I'm with now is a really "nice" guy, and I love every minute of
it. He's sweet, considerate, and attentive, but not wishy-washy
or flaky...if that makes sense? He's just old-fashioned and puts
family and friends first, and is pure of heart, so it makes the
rest easy. He's been kicked around too though, and he says that
he's never met anyone like me either, we do our "all" for each
other, and appreciate the other for what we are and what we do.
No dramatic or unrealistic expectations, demands, or agenda...
just live, be happy, and love.

see too never be pushy on a lady they hate that or don't repeat the same things over and over lol they may say omg like hello haha and don't message them to many times the same 1 in one day as they might say oh no is that guy desperate lol but if your just true and honest and care for them for them and respect a lady and if she gets back thats great if she does not you look in the mirror and say dam this lady missed out on this jolly good fella lollllll kidding but hold your head up and don't worry so much have fun:))) you seem like a decent person dude you will find 1 cheers

a lot of girls dnt like the idea i get my son at the weekend, c if they dnt like that then bye

yeah girl, me too! Too much heart for my own good sometimes, but noones been able to change me thus far! I am what I am, but sometimes wish I didn't have as much compassion as I do.

At the moment I am still helping the ex bf with family & transportation issues even though he annoys the crap outta me! He was there for me during many hard times and right now I am doing the same. He is moving in a week & all will be okay!

Cheers, I do hope you find a woman that lights up your life! You are a sweetheart and inspiration to all!

Now see, while some (guys and girls) think that they don't want
to become involved with someone that has kids as they already
have, or have raised, their own. WTH?! Although I can see that,
most ALL of us have kids at this point, and even grandkids.
I am drawn to guys that have kids, especially if they are still
at home, even part-time. That way they know and understand the
demands and priorities. My guy has 4 kids, granted the oldest is
27, but his little ones are between 9 and 14, and they are
sweethearts. Some don't realize that to have a SO, they have to
take and accept the WHOLE package...what WAS, and what is to be.

he's 12 but according to him all the girls fancy him at school, hes no shy like his dad, lol

thanks m8 i will do

That's a cool age. They're in that "next phase", although
they'll drive you more nuts than they think you already
are.

My 18 yr. old is like that, ALL the girls want him and fight
over him, and although he is a one-girl guy, he is definately
not shy. People are drawn to him by his crazy, open, generous,
and genuine personality. He has an outrageous sense of humor
that keeps everyone laughing.

I think, that there is someone perfect out there for all of us, and really if someone doesnt want you son and cnt love him as their own, then they are not for you.
I have 6 children, all perfect angels, (NOT) but they are first in my life as they are my responsibility, and until they are grown anyone in my life has to accept that they are a part of me oh plus the endless strays that turn up at our home. otherwise I could only be friends.

Anyway if I can find someone to take on me and my strangeness as well as my 6 horros then you wont have any hassell at all.

And yes there will always be people who love themselves more than they canlove someone else, but there are so many genuine people on here. I love it and have made so many great friends.

That's OK just as long as you are not hurling haggis.

U are and always will be a princess!!

cocky biotches!

I'm sure that is the case just as there are men who act the same.

Why are Celtic Fans are so whiney? Go Rangers! lol j/k

I know what you mean though. It does create some resentment when such people are encountered to the point where I have played a practical joke just to get them back. It gave me a good laugh, but then I realize it was just a waste of my time just being bothered.

So you just learn to except this from some people. It what makes it interesting.

He IS a Scotman; therefore, he IS the biggest Celtic fan.

Thank melodygirl 

no just hunting them, lol

Rangers Scotland shame mate, lol