Wait til you are 40. Your perception of "old" will change.

that is soooo true

Chances are they have something to hide....like they aren't who they say they are. If they try to be up front, they betray themselves, so they can't handle being honest.

Huh....while typing this, I had someone who I think is a fake try to contact me by Mingle IM....the username was pretty much a give away...

I totally get what you're saying.... Makes total sense, that's why
My screen name subliminally indicates how many times a week I like to do IT... Yes, I mask and hide my perviness.
Usually works on those gorgeous, tough looking young chicks who make gang signs and duckie faces

Your right many are not interested in a good woman. Unfortunately for you it seems like most guys now are this way. so maybe the next time you meet a guy (admit this or not) don't just look at his outside. i have alot of "single" male friends. All my best friends are single. there either a little overweight or shy or sum thing that you don't like about them. i personally think its because they ARE nice. you girls like those tough guys till a certain age then realize that you can't change a man and look hopelessly for love. love doesn't start right away. i've loved a few girls in my life that i had no attraction to right away but in time there inner beauty came out. so all i can recommend is go out there and find that guy that that you normally wouldn't date and give him a shot(don't be dumb about this). having a little common sense when you meet someone new and not being blinded by new love, and going the extra mile to make that man feel special. trust me, the good guys that are left have spent there whole lives, many times with very few dates, building there lives and dreams around the girl they never get. we are there. you just choose not see us!! go try someone new that you wouldn't have b4. look for the soft hearted guys. not the mean ones and wonder why they beat you. dont look in the bars and then complain they drink. looking back can you not see this?

hope this helps you some. bottom line be a little more open minded and try to remember that the "nice guys" usually don't make 1st moves and if they are not drinking liquid courage from a bottle and may really like you and you will never know or never care to find out cuz you prejudge them. "i want a man that can protect me" We all can carry a gun not just the meat heads and the guys that don't get the girls often appreciate what they have and will actually defend you more if you gave them a chance. Yes there are those that are just straight dorks usually from mental illness that lack the required cash to get professional help. remember every man is created equally. as far as the crazy screen names i do agree. those are the perverts and guys you don't want. most are drunks or druggies that make there hormones explode do to the substance abuse. just step back and look outside the box. stop picking those bad guys and blaming it on all or most on men. its like getting fat on candy and blaming the candy and not yourself for eating it all day..

ok maybe the flu meds are clouding my brain, but aren't they being upfront? I mean it's pretty clear with those screen names that it's a sexual thing whether they want a one nighter or a relationship. So what am I missing here?

As for the fakes, please report them. The site can determine this through more means than members can.

The 'John' helps explain a lot too :-)

*Looking for some popcorn*

Hi Romeo..catching up? LOL

Oh yeah ... LOL

I'm 39. is that close enough?

i cant wait till i hit forty

Well, buh-bye! Looks like she was a fake indeed. Someone whipped out a can of Scammer-B-Gone, and deleted her profile.

WOOT!!!

Do you want butter on it?

Yes please! Thank ya Dude!

makioble,

In her OP, spiritfilled24 did not complain about her not being able to find a good man. She complained about men with usernames that are better suitable for brothels.

And speaking of brothels, I had better put on my badge and go to work.


It's a dirty job, but somebody has to do it.

I like those names, it makes it much easier to avoid them. Let them wear it on their sleeve so you know who NOT to REPLY to. Unfortunately there are plenty of scumbags under perfectly respectful names too---thats where you really waste your time. . .

I'm sure people think my name is perverted...

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But hey, I like it that way. It makes it easier to weed out the ho-ho-ho's.

PETER_PAN = I'll never grow up... (this alone was already taken)
1969 = 69 - Woodstock, moon landing, year of my birth.

Here we go with that Ho Ho Ho.