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Topic: Do you Accept People For Themselfs???
Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Sun 12/12/10 05:57 PM
I get along with liars..But nice topic..i guess

LiLBLACKMAGiC Joined Sun 05/09/10 Posts: 14787	Sun 12/12/10 05:58 PM
uhhh...do you have a shorter version of that for us none readers.....MUCH shorter well if you don't want to read it then don't lollllll that short enough cheers in short form here it is >>>>> RESPECT,CARING,ACCEPTENCE TO ALL <<< understand now haha well why didn't you just say that ? cause its my post and like to say it the way i like too does it bother you????????? i guess you not accepting me for me oh well up to you have a good 1 nope it don't bother me, takes alot more than that to bother me good cause i guess its a bit long lollllllll but oh well was thinking about life when i was typing thats all cheers buddy You got it off your chest...and feeling good now...Great!!...better to let it out then keeping inside.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 12/12/10 05:59 PM
I get along with liars..But nice topic..i guess see some don't but you do thats cool if they your friends and make you happy cheers

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Sun 12/12/10 06:02 PM
look in other words, people say they accept you for who you are, but they dont, get it. . .they just want to sound like a genuine person. read back to what BHERNANDEZ said, she was right on target. People dont have to get along with everyone, I dont support violence, but I nor yourself--are programmed to get along with every single person on the planet.

Allaboutmetoo Joined Sat 12/11/10 Posts: 38	Sun 12/12/10 06:06 PM
well. based on the title, not the billion word essay there, i say; i reject most because of the way they are. and accept few because of the way they are. Exactly

LiLBLACKMAGiC Joined Sun 05/09/10 Posts: 14787	Sun 12/12/10 06:08 PM
Great thread. Acceptance is the key. It took a while for me to quit bashing my ex. But then I had so much bashing in me. Linux has bash and maybe that is one reason I like it so much. I really don't understand Linux bash but that really doesn't matter to me. At least we have something in common. Will Rogers said that he never met a man that he didn't like but he never said that of women. When I took my first inventory in rehab because of the immense amount of guilt I carried it was truly a stretch of the imagination to find something good about me. But for an extremist by nature anything middle of the road can be hard to conceive. I guess there could be extreme mediocrity. Just the other night I found myself trying to control a resident. Insanity really doesn't give into to control. It fights it for all its worth. Luckily through much experience with insanity myself I was able to remember that, "He that argues with a fool is a fool." It brought me back to my key of Acceptance. Awww, peace is a wonderful, beautiful and most awesome experience. Acceptance is the key...happy you have realized that...and found peace

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 12/12/10 06:13 PM
Great thread. Acceptance is the key. It took a while for me to quit bashing my ex. But then I had so much bashing in me. Linux has bash and maybe that is one reason I like it so much. I really don't understand Linux bash but that really doesn't matter to me. At least we have something in common. Will Rogers said that he never met a man that he didn't like but he never said that of women. When I took my first inventory in rehab because of the immense amount of guilt I carried it was truly a stretch of the imagination to find something good about me. But for an extremist by nature anything middle of the road can be hard to conceive. I guess there could be extreme mediocrity. Just the other night I found myself trying to control a resident. Insanity really doesn't give into to control. It fights it for all its worth. Luckily through much experience with insanity myself I was able to remember that, "He that argues with a fool is a fool." It brought me back to my key of Acceptance. Awww, peace is a wonderful, beautiful and most awesome experience. thanks for your comment you made a really good points insanity really doesn't give into control ,its fights it,another good point he that argues with a fool is a fool another awesome one ,i like also fire won't put out fire cheers buddy have a great 1

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 12/12/10 06:24 PM
uhhh...do you have a shorter version of that for us none readers.....MUCH shorter well if you don't want to read it then don't lollllll that short enough cheers in short form here it is >>>>> RESPECT,CARING,ACCEPTENCE TO ALL <<< understand now haha well why didn't you just say that ? cause its my post and like to say it the way i like too does it bother you????????? i guess you not accepting me for me oh well up to you have a good 1 If you want others to accept you the way you are, you'll have to do the same for them. And the way some people are, they will skip over a wall of text. Just as you want to write a longer post. It works both ways.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 12/12/10 06:30 PM
look in other words, people say they accept you for who you are, but they dont, get it. . .they just want to sound like a genuine person. read back to what BHERNANDEZ said, she was right on target. People dont have to get along with everyone, I dont support violence, but I nor yourself--are programmed to get along with every single person on the planet. well thats not the point on the topic was not about violence point is some put people down on looks of being fat, or cause they poor,or cause they rich,or cause they skinny, or cause they heard things about a person but don't know for themselfs ,and like i said no 1 is perfect :)

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 12/12/10 06:32 PM
uhhh...do you have a shorter version of that for us none readers.....MUCH shorter well if you don't want to read it then don't lollllll that short enough cheers in short form here it is >>>>> RESPECT,CARING,ACCEPTENCE TO ALL <<< understand now haha well why didn't you just say that ? cause its my post and like to say it the way i like too does it bother you????????? i guess you not accepting me for me oh well up to you have a good 1 If you want others to accept you the way you are, you'll have to do the same for them. And the way some people are, they will skip over a wall of text. Just as you want to write a longer post. It works both ways. thats ok skip away i accept that lollll if it makes you feel better as long as you happy:))))))

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 12/12/10 06:37 PM
uhhh...do you have a shorter version of that for us none readers.....MUCH shorter well if you don't want to read it then don't lollllll that short enough cheers in short form here it is >>>>> RESPECT,CARING,ACCEPTENCE TO ALL <<< understand now haha well why didn't you just say that ? cause its my post and like to say it the way i like too does it bother you????????? i guess you not accepting me for me oh well up to you have a good 1 If you want others to accept you the way you are, you'll have to do the same for them. And the way some people are, they will skip over a wall of text. Just as you want to write a longer post. It works both ways. thats ok skip away i accept that lollll if it makes you feel better as long as you happy:)))))) As you can see, I was commenting on the way you replied to someone else who didn't want to read it all. It had nothing to do with me. Just pointing out that you were not being as accepting of others as you want them to be of you.

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Sun 12/12/10 06:38 PM
I always accept them for who they are just like I expect them to accept me for who I'm as well

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 12/12/10 06:47 PM
uhhh...do you have a shorter version of that for us none readers.....MUCH shorter well if you don't want to read it then don't lollllll that short enough cheers in short form here it is >>>>> RESPECT,CARING,ACCEPTENCE TO ALL <<< understand now haha well why didn't you just say that ? cause its my post and like to say it the way i like too does it bother you????????? i guess you not accepting me for me oh well up to you have a good 1 If you want others to accept you the way you are, you'll have to do the same for them. And the way some people are, they will skip over a wall of text. Just as you want to write a longer post. It works both ways. thats ok skip away i accept that lollll if it makes you feel better as long as you happy:)))))) As you can see, I was commenting on the way you replied to someone else who didn't want to read it all. It had nothing to do with me. Just pointing out that you were not being as accepting of others as you want them to be of you. sure i am oh you talking cause i made a thread and its long and i didnt accept to change it smaller i did do it smaller for him to understand if you read it right you would see that and all i said he didnt accept that i wrote alot but thats his opinion so i not sure what you trying to do? i think you misunderstood what i wrote but thats ok read again he ask for a shorter version i gave it so i did accept but did he like the long version? no so he didnt accept lollllll u follow? hugssssssss cheers up don't dwell on nothing you will feel better :)))))

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 12/12/10 06:49 PM
I always accept them for who they are just like I expect them to accept me for who I'm as well now thats a great way to ne hugssssssssssss thanks for your comment

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Sun 12/12/10 06:51 PM
I always accept them for who they are just like I expect them to accept me for who I'm as well now thats a great way to ne hugssssssssssss thanks for your comment yw that is how i was taught its just hard to find people to accept me as me these days though

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 12/12/10 06:51 PM
yes mostly I do accept peole for themselves but their "self" os will determine what kind of friendship (or not) we will have trying to change people is the least productive activity I ca nthink of esp in a romantic relationship

pmarco41 Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 2163	Sun 12/12/10 06:54 PM
too many words, not enough spaces....I find that unacceptable....

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 12/12/10 06:57 PM
too many words, not enough spaces....I find that unacceptable.... ok i accept your point of view lolllllllllllllllllllll sorry i was in a typing mood haha to funny

TallandSlender Joined Wed 08/26/09 Posts: 1145	Sun 12/12/10 07:05 PM
Humans make that decision in the first 90 seconds... Never met a black guy b4, Now he's my fondest friend... But, he's a racist? Go Figure!!!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 12/12/10 07:06 PM
uhhh...do you have a shorter version of that for us none readers.....MUCH shorter well if you don't want to read it then don't lollllll that short enough cheers in short form here it is >>>>> RESPECT,CARING,ACCEPTENCE TO ALL <<< understand now haha well why didn't you just say that ? cause its my post and like to say it the way i like too does it bother you????????? i guess you not accepting me for me oh well up to you have a good 1 If you want others to accept you the way you are, you'll have to do the same for them. And the way some people are, they will skip over a wall of text. Just as you want to write a longer post. It works both ways. thats ok skip away i accept that lollll if it makes you feel better as long as you happy:)))))) As you can see, I was commenting on the way you replied to someone else who didn't want to read it all. It had nothing to do with me. Just pointing out that you were not being as accepting of others as you want them to be of you. sure i am oh you talking cause i made a thread and its long and i didnt accept to change it smaller i did do it smaller for him to understand if you read it right you would see that and all i said he didnt accept that i wrote alot but thats his opinion so i not sure what you trying to do? i think you misunderstood what i wrote but thats ok read again he ask for a shorter version i gave it so i did accept but did he like the long version? no so he didnt accept lollllll u follow? hugssssssss cheers up don't dwell on nothing you will feel better :))))) Actually, you are a bit hard to follow. I'm not quite sure I understand why you're telling me to cheer up and feel better.