RULE # 1



Forget all the exes!

Easier said than done, especially if it was more of an upset for both sides than an angry breakup. I know 1st hand.

See if you broke up with the guy and then you e-mail the guy after 2 months maybe he thought you wanted to get back or something like that and maybe he himself does not know he is a jerk unless you told him why you broke up and why he was a jerk and maybe he meant you want to go out for dinner on birthday unless he mentioned sex but if i were you i would just not contact a person after 2 month unless you still want to be friends with him if not then i would ignore him but hope you told him why you broke up so maybe he can learn not to be a jerk to others in the future but don't dwell to much on it :)

Agreed, good point. (A Man's(jerk or not) perspective on the situation is always ignored)

Okay....because of the previous post...

I broke up with a girl once who refused to do anything intimate with me, but then slept with one of my friends. I was the one she always called, always wanted to hang with, used to drive away other guys, etc. Yet, she told me I was the one with a problem....so, I dumped her.

A month later, she calls me. You know, "How are you? What are you doing?" After about a minute of small talk, I tell her: "You said I was the one with a problem, but I can't help noticing that you're the one calling me." She was stunned into silence, then after about 20 seconds hung up. I never had to worry about her doing that again.

It's one thing to be friends, but sometimes a month or two is too damn soon to make contact. It makes you wonder, "what does s/he want?"

wow somebody you agree's with me. This is totally what I was saying. Actions speak louder than words, say how you feel not 'type how you feel' - its emotion-less. Many men would agree that the best conversation to have is a face to face one

This is why women will never understand men an vice-versa. The Paradox of the universe!lol