I don't disagree with you that emails or texts can misconstrue communications.. But it you want to say happy birthday to someone you've cared about, I don't think it's a big deal to sent an email or text.. I get happy holiday's and birthday texts from exes and it's not big deal.. I take it for what it is.. they thought of me, wished me a good day, end of story.. I have no expectations of a phone call or misunderstandings of what the best wishes mean....

i have answers for pretty much everything. just ask and i will make the time for you...

I hate my life

Agreed, however, different people do things in different ways
No one way is any more correct than another. She probably felt
that a call would be too personal, so an email would be friendly
but still disconnected. (?) We can't say, or make judgements on
something like that, it would be the same "wrong" for her to
say YOU'RE wrong to want it to be a personal phone call, right?


As for the blogs? If you mean our posts, or replies to her...
that's what you do in the forums. Kind of like a RL discussion
between many people, opinions, views, and personalities, but
in type, on here. Even in real life people can misconstrue
words and actions, just happens sometimes, doesn't make someone
wrong or bad.

you just made me laugh.
thanks.

don't hate darlin'... come on here and have fun.. There are great people and great laughs here....

No need to hate your life. We'll eventually forgive
ya( )...just remember to...





play nice.

Lowercaseyo, you have a point, but you're throwing it away when you're using language. I know you got the message from sweet Indigo, cuz you said mom but I'm telling you as a sincere advice use it or not: you can have the best argument in the room, but badmouthing means people only hear that, and not your argument.

About your issue, like said, you have a point, why don't you open a thread to discuss the pitfalls of the different kinds of communication methods we employ... but keep in mind people are different. I like emails because it gives me time to ponder the reply and what to answer. Phones got something else, the here-and-now plus intonation of the voice for one, but I always hate not having the facial expression to go with it, therefore I'm not much of a phone person myself, and whether you think it's cool for you or not, that's the way I am.

look lowerdude
you made her night. spreading cheer is a good trait. keep it coming.

I didn't know he posted that until "your" post. Why I
oughta... Not only do I take that as a compliment,
although none of my kids would ever be so disrespectful, but
as I said...not everybody is going to disagree (or agree)...
even when you're trying to help them.


To the OP...next time I'm leavin' yo azz under the bus.

Hey brother, life's a big fat bytch sometimes, and she might slap you laugh at you and push you in the mud... but that's life.

Whether you dig it or not, you always have options, I mean you're using one now by joining the forum and speaking up.... but the truth is, just like nobody likes a foul mouth nobody likes a crybaby.
I'm not telling you down, just telling you how I see life and people plain.
So do something good for yourself, smile even if you begin by pretending, if you're hurting then allow yourself to hurt, heck suffering is a part of life we all go through it, and in it there's an awesome possibility to grow.

But not if you give up. If you give up it's done. Your choice.

I agree with this kind sir. It's just when I say swear words I don't intend to hurt people. I just use them like verbs. Something cool to throw in a sentence when you have nothing else to say. But 'nows' generation is all evolved around technology. Sooner or later theres going to become a time where we all can't keep up with it. As for the lady who was dishin me out - Im not making any judgements im just making arugmentive questions, questions to really think about. Im not questioning anyones life choice. The way u do things is totally up to that person. But as for a good sit down talkin face to face is out the door for this generation. its all through a text message

I hear you on the language part... I was born at a place where... let's just say cops didn't go there unless in big packs... and I used to use words like that as well.. all I'm saying is, it don't fly in a lot of places, so I re-educated myself, and personally I'm happy with the outcome, because I have more tools to use.

About the technology I agree in the way that we humans as I see it have totally outrun ourselves already, and what is scary is the degree of almost total dependence we now have on this technology that we do not understand... in the old days, if something got broken you could fix it, because the elders showed you how, but now the elders are more phucked than the rest of us, and if this big circus we've got going on here collapses no one will have any idea how to fix it. We will be royally screwed with terrifying consequences. However, there ain't nothing we can do about it so instead let's make some noise and have some fun!

About the face2face conversation it is still there... you have to look at bit more for it, the texting is everywhere, but what I do is push it by not replying unless it's just "meet there at this hour etc" I don't go into the rest, and sure some people take offense but that's their problem.

Now why can't you be a girl?

Ah, but don't you know, if I was a girl, then you wouldn't understand me and I wouldn't understand you, that's how it is with the sexes, eternally attracted and very rarely on the same page but I'll gladly call you sweetie if it makes you feel better

agggggggggg you want me to be a 'B'' i wasent being one but you just made me mad


i email him to wish him a happy birthday i didnt brake up with him on his dang birthday....

& to me too

fine... you want me to be rude the rest of my life.....(that is not my nature to do so......

Face 2 Face is the way to go, unless u are heartless. If u had the idea in the 1st place, then u should follow through...An email is impersonal...Emotionless. Actions speak louder than words, or in this case text...