i broke up with this guy over 2months ago

and i thought i would be nice to email him to tell him
happy birthday

i get a dang response back from him say this......


well thank you and what do you want to do for my birthday?


what do i want to do for his birthday........NOTHING!!

he such a jurk i broke up with him and didnt even bother to try and contact him.. geeze i was being nice sense it was his dang birthday... i dont think i have to do anything for this jurk

So, why...in all hell...did you email him?

Look at it this way, you haven't emailed him in at least 2 months and suddenly shoot an email to him...what the hell is he supposed to think? Honestly, this isn't the first time you've led yourself into your own stress, it won't be the last time unless you side with a little bit of common sense next time.

ex's are ex's for a reason.
I wouldn't emailed him.
Better yet, would he have thought of you on your BD?

him think of me on my bday....... LOL nope he sure didnt

but i was being nice

but with his commemt i didnt bother email him back

hey at least i didnt try to call or text the jurk

Not the point, the point is that you contacted him in the first place.

OK, quit being nice to people who are not nice to you! You are inviting users!... and LOSERS

Sorry to say, but you only got yourself to thank for this situation. Next time, think more about yourself, and not so much about being nice to someone you don't want to be with anyway...

I agree with the others, (I can relate have fallen into that trap of "just being nice") When you emailed him, he proabblay took it as, she's still interested. Not oh she harbors no ill feelings. So he took it as an invitation. Not just as a greeting.

personally i would not even worry about it, just dont respond back again or if you do, just say, u were just trying to be mature. and wants nothing more. He was obviously trying to flirt with you and get some birthday sex. either ignore him or tell him it was simply just a courteous birthday wish.

Quoted for truth.

i didnt even bother to email him back.. there is no point to it
and no he sure wouldnt get his birthday sex (from me any how)

Why didn't you just call him??? Maybe things wouldn't be thrown around so much as they do with emails. I know when I email someone they take me the wrong way of what I was trying to say. Just call the poor guy, broke his heart on his birthday what a bytch

Hey now, no reason to go "there"... You don't know the history.. she emailed him for his birthday and that was probably enough.. As was already said "an ex is an ex for a reason"...

To go against what I'm saying basically means you hate me? What did not make perfect sense what I just wrote?? But u have to bust my balls about it, my's well butter my azz and call me a biscuit while your at it.

To disagree in NO WAY means hate.. Seriously??? Busting your balls? Well I'd need better material provided by you.. But if you're asking WHY I disagree it is b/c of you're final comment calling her a bytch... THAT was completely uncalled for...

What she meant, other than-none of us-not knowing the exact
situation, is that obviously you haven't either read, or
retained, the forum rules and such.


NO name calling, insulting, degrading, or in any other way
damaging words or behavior towards others.


Everyone's opinion can be stated...but not at the expense of
another...got it?

So she emailed him on his birthday? Why not call. Why not just use words. Why is everybody posting blogs about their buisness and history making it everybody's else buisness to get involved in? I have many questions but few answers. Do you have the answers? Can you enlighten me? -_-


What Im getting at is that people use email and sometimes the message gets thrown out of context. Like what you think the message meant can be different of what someone else thought it meant. thats why things get twisted. Just call and use your voice

yea got it. mom.