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When asked out on a date I've never had to wonder who is paying and I always have the ability to pay... Of course he thought it was a perfect date, it all worked out in his favor...  you know...i have an opening after brunch! |
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When asked out on a date I've never had to wonder who is paying and I always have the ability to pay... Of course he thought it was a perfect date, it all worked out in his favor... you know...i have an opening after brunch!  of course you do... |
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When asked out on a date I've never had to wonder who is paying and I always have the ability to pay... Of course he thought it was a perfect date, it all worked out in his favor... Exactly. I always make sure I have money. I don't go on a date expecting someone to pay for me, so it's never an issue. But, for those who do expect that, maybe they should state that upfront so there is no confusion. |
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My question to the OP is this:
Why are you thinking about a second date to the point of asking advice? You see, that alone indicates that there is more than you initially told us. Granted, I haven't read the entire thread to see if you explained this, but that you are second-guessing means there is something about this guy that you either like or feel sorry for. Don't go on a second date out of pity. Or, try to learn more about him from your friend. Don't set up a second date just yet....Just try to learn more about him. He could be a great guy or just a toad. Point is, we can't make this decision for you. I think you already know what you want to do. So stop doubting yourself. Do what you think is right. |
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Ok so last nite to start things off i was set up on a blind date!! That didnt turn out so well  second he invited me to dinner but guess who had to pick up their date and drop them at home me!!! Third he didnt even have enough money to pay for our dinner. No conversation at all not good looking he even had the nerve to ask me for a kiss at the end!!!! would you go on another date with him/her????? What a terrible waste of time!!!! Whoever set u up with that guy should get a kick in the shin 
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kc0003
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Sat 11/27/10 01:24 PM
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well i've got $19.22, if you want to swing by and get me... i was thinking Outback and a movie. then the late show at the comedy house. oh, and can you have me back by 2:00AM i have a brunch scheduled for mid morning.  lol no prob why dont i just give u my car and then it will at least look like you picked me up and i will give you the money so it looks like ur payin!!!! i've got this worked out now... just send me the $140.00 i figure it will cost to take you out and have you pay for it. that way we can both spend the time however we wish. the next day we can get on here and talk about what a great time we had (doing our own thing) and if you want to go out again you will already know where to send the money. now where is that girl that was asking about scammers? i should probably talk with her asap! |
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Ok so last nite to start things off i was set up on a blind date!! That didnt turn out so well second he invited me to dinner but guess who had to pick up their date and drop them at home me!!! Third he didnt even have enough money to pay for our dinner. No conversation at all not good looking he even had the nerve to ask me for a kiss at the end!!!! would you go on another date with him/her????? I think you should have limited your responses to the ladies. Because if you ask a man if he would go out on a second date with someone whom {A} he picked up {B} paid for her food {C} returned home and {D} she made advances towards him; I think this might be a yes 99% of the time. It kind of sounds like most first dates that go well, at least from the male perspective. Welcome to our world!!! |
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Ok so last nite to start things off i was set up on a blind date!! That didnt turn out so well second he invited me to dinner but guess who had to pick up their date and drop them at home me!!! Third he didnt even have enough money to pay for our dinner. No conversation at all not good looking he even had the nerve to ask me for a kiss at the end!!!! would you go on another date with him/her????? I think you should have limited your responses to the ladies. Because if you ask a man if he would go out on a second date with someone whom {A} he picked up {B} paid for her food {C} returned home and {D} she made advances towards him; I think this might be a yes 99% of the time. It kind of sounds like most first dates that go well, at least from the male perspective. Welcome to our world!!!  Not the point I was making, but this is 100% correct. It's exactly what most women expect from a guy. Perhaps this "blind date" was really a "liberated man" using role reversal. |
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Ok so last nite to start things off i was set up on a blind date!! That didnt turn out so well second he invited me to dinner but guess who had to pick up their date and drop them at home me!!! Third he didnt even have enough money to pay for our dinner. No conversation at all not good looking he even had the nerve to ask me for a kiss at the end!!!! would you go on another date with him/her????? I think you should have limited your responses to the ladies. Because if you ask a man if he would go out on a second date with someone whom {A} he picked up {B} paid for her food {C} returned home and {D} she made advances towards him; I think this might be a yes 99% of the time. It kind of sounds like most first dates that go well, at least from the male perspective. Welcome to our world!!! I do see this point (kinda glad i`m not a man, lol)but she mentioned he had no conversational skills AND was not particularly nice to look at |
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Ok so last nite to start things off i was set up on a blind date!! That didnt turn out so well second he invited me to dinner but guess who had to pick up their date and drop them at home me!!! Third he didnt even have enough money to pay for our dinner. No conversation at all not good looking he even had the nerve to ask me for a kiss at the end!!!! would you go on another date with him/her????? I think you should have limited your responses to the ladies. Because if you ask a man if he would go out on a second date with someone whom {A} he picked up {B} paid for her food {C} returned home and {D} she made advances towards him; I think this might be a yes 99% of the time. It kind of sounds like most first dates that go well, at least from the male perspective. Welcome to our world!!! Not the point I was making, but this is 100% correct. It's exactly what most women expect from a guy. Perhaps this "blind date" was really a "liberated man" using role reversal. Yeah he's a genius... |
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My question to the OP is this: Why are you thinking about a second date to the point of asking advice? You see, that alone indicates that there is more than you initially told us. Granted, I haven't read the entire thread to see if you explained this, but that you are second-guessing means there is something about this guy that you either like or feel sorry for. Don't go on a second date out of pity. Or, try to learn more about him from your friend. Don't set up a second date just yet....Just try to learn more about him. He could be a great guy or just a toad. Point is, we can't make this decision for you. I think you already know what you want to do. So stop doubting yourself. Do what you think is right. Im not going to go on a second date with him? no second guessing here just wanted to know everyones opinion on it>>>>  |
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well i've got $19.22, if you want to swing by and get me... i was thinking Outback and a movie. then the late show at the comedy house. oh, and can you have me back by 2:00AM i have a brunch scheduled for mid morning. lol no prob why dont i just give u my car and then it will at least look like you picked me up and i will give you the money so it looks like ur payin!!!! i've got this worked out now... just send me the $140.00 i figure it will cost to take you out and have you pay for it. that way we can both spend the time however we wish. the next day we can get on here and talk about what a great time we had (doing our own thing) and if you want to go out again you will already know where to send the money. now where is that girl that was asking about scammers? i should probably talk with her asap! No problem where do i send the money!!!!!????
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Um....and?
I bet a lot of guys have been in that situation before too. I know I am one of them....photo turned out to be old....she wasn't as attractive as in the photo....I had to really reach for a topic to get her to talk. She wanted a second date too. I blew her off. Hence my original point: Why is she asking for advice? She must be considering a second date, or she wouldn't have asked. So then, why is she considering a second date despite all the negatives she already mentioned? |
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Ok so last nite to start things off i was set up on a blind date!! That didnt turn out so well second he invited me to dinner but guess who had to pick up their date and drop them at home me!!! Third he didnt even have enough money to pay for our dinner. No conversation at all not good looking he even had the nerve to ask me for a kiss at the end!!!! would you go on another date with him/her????? I think you should have limited your responses to the ladies. Because if you ask a man if he would go out on a second date with someone whom {A} he picked up {B} paid for her food {C} returned home and {D} she made advances towards him; I think this might be a yes 99% of the time. It kind of sounds like most first dates that go well, at least from the male perspective. Welcome to our world!!! Not the point I was making, but this is 100% correct. It's exactly what most women expect from a guy. Perhaps this "blind date" was really a "liberated man" using role reversal. Yeah he's a genius... totally disagree these are different circumstances |
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She stated she didn't want a 2nd date she just wanted to know our thoughts...
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Never judge a book by its cover... Maybe he's really loaded. The kiss might have set u up for a good time later, You never know. 1st impressions are determined by how much people judge, period. I was with my ex for almost 7 years. We covered eachother when times were tough. It worked. Stress was our only downfall. hope that helps i tryed not tooo!!!  and first dates are all about trying to make a good impression - not about playing games (which is what tryboy is describing - that is playing games troyboy-unacceptable). So whether his situation was accidental or intentional, doesn't matter - either way - unacceptable |
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LOL
In agreement with the whole u should have atleast some money when going out on a date. Just had to make the point that money isn't the Big Picture unless you're shallow. Just my opinion, it seems valid. |
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Ok so last nite to start things off i was set up on a blind date!! That didnt turn out so well second he invited me to dinner but guess who had to pick up their date and drop them at home me!!! Third he didnt even have enough money to pay for our dinner. No conversation at all not good looking he even had the nerve to ask me for a kiss at the end!!!! would you go on another date with him/her????? I've picked someone up before. It wasn't a big deal. Were you assuming he'd pay for you? Maybe next time, plan on paying your half. Conversation takes two people. Did you put the effort into it, or were you waiting on him to keep the conversation going? If there's no attraction, there's no attraction. Not much is going to help that. So in the end, no, I would not go on another date if the first one was like that. ok course i put the effort and when you invite someone thats usually saying your going to pay ur self or at least half at least thats what i thought im clueless i guess ok he had 5.00 so i payed about 98 pervent of the meal plus drinks i tryed the conversation thing but it was yes no one worded answers!!!i tryed so hard to make it better it just kept getting worse Next time, make sure upfront who is going to pay so you don't get stuck in that situation again.
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Ok so last nite to start things off i was set up on a blind date!! That didnt turn out so well second he invited me to dinner but guess who had to pick up their date and drop them at home me!!! Third he didnt even have enough money to pay for our dinner. No conversation at all not good looking he even had the nerve to ask me for a kiss at the end!!!! would you go on another date with him/her????? I think you should have limited your responses to the ladies. Because if you ask a man if he would go out on a second date with someone whom {A} he picked up {B} paid for her food {C} returned home and {D} she made advances towards him; I think this might be a yes 99% of the time. It kind of sounds like most first dates that go well, at least from the male perspective. Welcome to our world!!! Not the point I was making, but this is 100% correct. It's exactly what most women expect from a guy. Perhaps this "blind date" was really a "liberated man" using role reversal. but actionlynx don't u think he should have made at least some effort thru their mutual friend to see if she would be amenable to role reversal - just expecting it seems very self centered to me |
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Very much agree!
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