When to a party saturday night
With a couple friends ...
When we arrive at the party it was slammin
Anyway i when to get some drinks at the bar
When i got back one of the girl was missing ...30mins later she got back ,giving us some Bullshiit excuses...i know for a fact she slept with two guys ,
3:40 am when we were about to leave we couldnt find her
Again we had to literally hunt her down ,when we did found her she was in the arms of a cop ,so we told her we were leaving she said she isnt ready she is sleeping with the guy she Slept with when we arrived at the party ..
She was drunk
We tried to make her come with us but she wouldnt have that ..
Nw everybody hating on me
She slept with about 8 or 9 guys that night
Think she is prego
She keep fainting &vomitting.

I'm so sorry to hear about this, Kiss.
You know there's at least one person here that isn't going to hate on you.

Oh s*** girl, that sounds horrible!!!
Dont understand one thing, why they hating on you? Because you tried to pull her away, or because you finally said, c'mon lets go?
Either way, you didn't do nothing wrong, and for a girl like that, she's digging her own grave, ain't nothing you can do to help someone who doesn't wanna be helped!! I'm serious, for 10yrs I work with f***ed up people, and you can have the answers but it matter for naught if the person isn't ready.
I know you feel for her, even being frustrated at her actions, but you gotta let that go. We each live our own lives, and it ain't no fairytale..--
I'm real sad for you, and I know that there probably isn't anything real comforting to say... sometimes is just about toughing it out, going through it.
But don't be hard on yourself hear! Maybe you made mistakes, hell we all do, but if your intentions were good, then give yourself peace.
Also, don't judge you gfriend, she sounds to have some serious issues (like needing love so bad but looking for it in all the wrong places) and I think a good friend would give her truth but not judging...
Hugs, B

i took her to the party, she was drunk
I shouldnt have left her there
She now said that the guy she was suppose to sleep with make his friend gang rape her

if what she claims is true, than she needs to file a police report. any man (i use this term loosely here) who would participate in ANY kind of sexual activity with a drunk woman is a punk. if a woman can not give CLEAR intent, then save it for another day. BUT if what she is claiming is false, then you did yourself a favor losing her.

In any event, you are not the one to blame, Sam. She made choices along the way which she has to take responsibility for. If she was gang raped, then the men made a choice which they should be held responsible for.

The question is, how much of that night does she really remember? How much of this is being clouded by the confusion in her own mind? Is she lashing out at you because she is angry about what happened to her and you just happen to be convenient? She's probably scared no matter what the truth is. Even if she chose to have sex with all these guys, how does she confront the father assuming she is pregnant? How does she find out who is the father? If it absolutely was rape, then it is all of them against her....She probably feels helpless.

If you or her friends care about her, then acknowledge her fears. She's probably in denial at the moment. All you can do right now is be her friend. If you can, find the police officer that you saw her with that night. Maybe because he was there, he can help you. Perhaps he saw or picked up on something. Who knows? The point is, she needs friends right now, even if she is rejecting them.

Good God woman! youve got to get some better friends!!!

Run from this friend. She sure is trouble and don`t seem to take responsability for her actions. Even if what she says is true (terrible thing) it was not your fault. I`ve had some difficult friends myself but there`s a limit to that. Try to help her but don`t go out with her if she`s drunk.

"The only way people change...is if they want to change in the first place."

I don't call that sleeping with someone. Just plain out f's everyone. Not your fault. I would never go to a party she was even at again. Sorry that happened to you

Anyone hating you for it is not a good friend, just remember that

True that.

she is my Bf friend she suggest we take her along like a girls night out thing ....
She is such a bytch!

Well Kisss sounds like she is a slut sorry to say i mean people can have excuse to be drunk but i aggree 100% with esebulldog if she was forced and say she was gang raped later on then should get police involved but then again see she did do willing sex at first with a couple of them when she first got there and it sounds like it got way to out of hand i hate people taking advantage of a woman and think they can get away with it them type of people are aholes in my book i really feel sorry for you that this happened but she is of age and you can try n grab her with your other friend to take her home but some don't listen its sad so don't be so hard on yourself rememnber she left 2 times on you in the party and came back and then wanted to stay ...sound like you hanging with wrong crowd if you tried the best you can to get her out of there then don't be so hard on yourself then again maybe she thought the guy she was with was decent and you all had drinks right so if she old enough to know right from wrong its sooooooooooooooooooo sad lose that crowd hun you seem like a good person cause u feel bad and telling all here hugssssssssssssss to you and just be happy she is alive and people learn from mistakes but if she knows 100% she was attacted then she should explain all to police good luck

Ummmm......what was the question?

well if shes your bf friend why didnt your boyf get her out of that party? i mean he is a man and he should of stepped up instead of you getting the blame sad

bf means best friend who is a girl!
And Miss Ruth34611 i didnt ask a question !

Oooohhhh I like sluts!


Sorry,

If you are trying to take the blame cause your friend is a lousy drunk.....don't.

She is old enough to get drunk. She is old enough to act like a drunk slut. She is old enough to deal with what SHE did.

Your buddies wanna put the blame on you and the knocked up stank ho gets to play innocent. F'kem all! When you got idiots in your family...there is nothing you can do about it. When the people in your social circle are idiots...you can pick and choose who is your friends.

I just recently s**tcanned two of my good friends that I have known for 16years! One was a lying thief. The other is doing dumb **** that is going to land him in prison.....those are the kinds of people I don't need in my life and will no longer put up with thier stupidity.

If I were you....disconnect the dots and walk away.

Spoken like the true sage you are krup.

The OP does not contain a question, and in the OP no advice is asked for. Kissable was just venting her feelings.

thank you thank you thank you