THX LONELYWALKER

We all seem to be looking for that proverbial relationship where all faults are invisible to each other.....only problem is, too often it only begins that way and changes with the sands of time!! Good Luck,to us all!!!

I agree with unsure and native the faults and how a person deals with them after the blindness wears off is the important part of the relationship. If one can internalize the faults of others, understand how one feels to be vunerable and remember to take responsibility of thier own faults perhaps this would be a great key to happiness. Reminding one self that no one person is perfect then perhaps others faults would not seem so hard to understand. Our faults are a growing stage for each of us, and to watch one grow is beautiful, just have to give them room and add comfort while the growing occurs. No one likes to be embaressed while in the process of goofing up. If one can find gentleness and love in the worst of moments then it makes everything more tolerabe. But of course this would have to be true love that can stand the test of fire.

thx jade