I met a girl through a mutual friend and co-worker, damn spot on as my dream girl, we spend hours on the phone, and when possible we get together and it's magic. Here in lies the problem, The friend I Met her through Just got an Investigation launched against her and a High Ranking Official within our company by title of Sexual nature. (They got together and well you get the point) Well our company is law enforcement based, and The official was Our Top Superior Officer.. So yeah it's bad the info alone is plutonium to anyone that knows and now I've been Informed by her by way of drunken outburst...Ruined my night with my Dream-Girl. They are both good friends so I'm worried because now Her actions may ruin my only shot with this girl and my career. Her actions Have Affected Several officers and One excellent officer I work with on a daily basis and call a personal friend, also He's a friend to of the Superior Officer and He only knows about the investigation and not why it was launched, that's not even the worst part The Superior officer is married with a kid to the Childhood friend of the officer I work With daily and is my drinking buddy. That's Why it's Plutonium because of the depth, scope and severity of this situation. I Like This Girl, I Love My Job and I enjoy My Friends. And I Don't know what The hell to do with any of this info I have, It's not like I can Release a small part and not have something happen in return to me and all three are important to me as breathing..Help.

I watch Days of Our Lives and that's about all I can handle.

I can see where it is concerning but I don't see what her friend has to do with her.. If you keep these things separate and neither of you are involved, why would it affect you? I'd keep my mouth shut, do my own thing and not let the outside forces affect what I have going on in my life...

true that. in situations like these, sometimes somebody knows somebody who owes someone a favor and all this gets swept under the rug. just keep quiet and see how it plays out.

thats why i refuse to work.....heheheh


to much crazy shizz goes on........heheheh

Uh.
What has the frolicking of two other people to
do with your 'dream girl' and you, other than
you both know?